***DAILY CHAT Thursday 19th February***

bookseller1980

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Ah! No!!!!!!

It was just me saying I hate to think of you losing sleep worrying about things.

Sorry. I just want you to remember that no matter what you decide to do, we will not judge and will love you, same as your family and friends.

Actually I could do with one! I can't seem to get motivated to sort stuff out - it all seems too huge at the moment. I could do with someone forcing me into action!

Bunnyinthelights

Would you like me to then?

I will take advice (from a 'friend') and kick said bottom if you'd like?

Usually advice is what you ask for when you already know the answer but don't really want to face it....

((hug))

(Land_of)_Maz

beanie - i think it was cat who had the ciccia bag....

bookie - small steps is the key... and a list, but not too long, just small manageable pieces.... (even if really there is a big mahoosive list on the back page)

Does your DD know how you're finding things?

bookseller1980

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

bookie - small steps is the key... and a list, but not too long, just small manageable pieces.... (even if really there is a big mahoosive list on the back page)

Does your DD know how you're finding things?

Trying not to worry DD1 as baby due but she has a rough idea and is ignoring it. That's fine - this is an exciting time for them and I'm not going to spoil it. Son-in-law knows the details but has backed off. Ditto no problem.

DD2 knows and is full of hugs and is supportive but can't help other than that. She is a little unwordly but lovely. I desperately want her to be able to get nmarried from home.

The problem is that, being a sole proprietor, the business affects my personal finances and equity which are just about keeping afloat. If (when) the business goes, the house etc goes too. I can cope with the facts but not the mess of sorting it out.
I was a fool to let my business partner off so easily 18 months ago. Thought I was Superwoman enough to carry on alone. Wrong.

I'll clear off now.

spud30

*tiptoes in....

Afternoon :hello:

(Land_of)_Maz

bookseller1980 wrote: »

Trying not to worry DD1 as baby due but she has a rough idea and is ignoring it. That's fine - this is an exciting time for them and I'm not going to spoil it. Son-in-law knows the details but has backed off. Ditto no problem.

DD2 knows and is full of hugs and is supportive but can't help other than that. She is a little unwordly but lovely. I desperately want her to be able to get nmarried from home.

The problem is that, being a sole proprietor, the business affects my personal finances and equity which are just about keeping afloat. If (when) the business goes, the house etc goes too. I can cope with the facts but not the mess of sorting it out.
I was a fool to let my business partner off so easily 18 months ago. Thought I was Superwoman enough to carry on alone. Wrong.

I'll clear off now.

don't clear off missus!! stay...

it sounds like a big ole can of worms, i agree... can you get help from your accountant... a friend of mine with a lot of business and personal debt has gone through a DMP but it is via her accountant in some way... her house is safe and she reckons she can start another business anytime she likes... although i think you wouldn't want to be doing that, i'm guessing you want to have a rest!

Bunnyinthelights

Oh Bookie.


What is your main reason for wanting to keep the shop? Is it DD's wedding or is there more?

(Land_of)_Maz

spud30 wrote: »

*tiptoes in....

Afternoon :hello:

:hello: Spud ...............why are you tippy toeing??

jinky67

bookseller1980 wrote: »

Trying not to worry DD1 as baby due but she has a rough idea and is ignoring it. That's fine - this is an exciting time for them and I'm not going to spoil it. Son-in-law knows the details but has backed off. Ditto no problem.

DD2 knows and is full of hugs and is supportive but can't help other than that. She is a little unwordly but lovely. I desperately want her to be able to get nmarried from home.

The problem is that, being a sole proprietor, the business affects my personal finances and equity which are just about keeping afloat. If (when) the business goes, the house etc goes too. I can cope with the facts but not the mess of sorting it out.
I was a fool to let my business partner off so easily 18 months ago. Thought I was Superwoman enough to carry on alone. Wrong.

I'll clear off now.

OI you !!!!!!!

you cant leave

you would steal my thunder

so sit your butt back down on your chair and listen to all these wise ladies:cool:

:wave: again

Spud;)

spud30

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

:hello: Spud ...............why are you tippy toeing??

just checking alls peaceful hun