We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

supporting someone at a grievance

I have agreed to support a work colleague at a grievance meeting and I was wondering if there are any websites or documents with advice and tips on the role of the supporting person.

I have a fair few ideas myself but just want to be as clued up as possible:beer:

Comments

  • Horace
    Horace Posts: 14,426 Forumite
    Hi

    As an ex union person, I have represented people at a grievance hearing so can give you a few pointers.

    It would help you if you had a copy of the grievance procedure itself so that you can read it beforehand.

    Be there as a witness for your friend and take notes - this will help your friend as sometimes employers will often twist things and their minute takers will often take inaccurate notes (or rather notes that put a different slant on things). It is quite stressful for the individual who is the subject of the grievance hearing and they very often don't hear everything that is said, which is where a supportive friend or colleague comes in.

    Hope this helps and if you need any more info please send me a PM.
  • Floss
    Floss Posts: 9,320 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Also, you will probably not be allowed to question the employer, but you should be able to suggest to your friend that they ask certain questions or to guide them to ask for a break if needed.
    2021 Decluttering Awards: ⭐⭐🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇 2022 Decluttering Awards: 🥇
    2023 Decluttering Awards: 🥇 🏅🏅🥇
    2024 Decluttering Awards: 🥇⭐
    2025 Decluttering Awards: ⭐⭐
  • asp746
    asp746 Posts: 419 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    no advice but good on ya for being a mate and supporting him - most people run for cover because they don't want to get involved.
  • ali_p_4
    ali_p_4 Posts: 105 Forumite
    Floss wrote: »
    Also, you will probably not be allowed to question the employer, but you should be able to suggest to your friend that they ask certain questions or to guide them to ask for a break if needed.
    You can take an active part in the meeting i found this information whilst looking to help a friend myself.

    Acas is a good site also some helpful tips on usdaw also one on employment law which is a government site. I will try to find the links.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 354.3K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.4K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.4K Spending & Discounts
  • 247.3K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 604K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.4K Life & Family
  • 261.5K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.