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reason for br, dos this sound ok?

I first noticed I was having difficulty paying my debts in August 2008 when I sat down and looked at my finances, I was "robbing Peter to pay Paul" as I was taking money off my credit card to suport myself and even pay the payments on my credit card bill.
Then in November my mum was made redundant from work and I had to take over paying all bills. My mum also suffers from depression since my brothers death in 2005, and is finding it really difficult at the moment to find work.
I have explained my situation to my creditors and offered token payments each month, which they will not accept and they are charging me more interest and charges so the debt is getting bigger. I contacted two debt charities who advised bankruptcy.

Does this sound ok d day is friday and I am really worried/scared.

Thanks

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  • sieve
    sieve Posts: 1,095 Forumite
    That sounds fine to me but I'm sure others will be along soon who will give their opinions as well. Good luck for Friday :)
    BR 08/04/09 | ED 02/10/09 :grin: | BSC 255
    I made it through! :grin:
    Don't ignore a problem. Unlike a bad smell, it won't eventually go away.
  • notfes53
    notfes53 Posts: 27 Forumite
    I agree with sieve. It comes across as fine to me.

    See my earlier reply in another thread, here http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showpost.html?p=18427383&postcount=2

    Good Luck!
    Undischarged Bankrupt :o
    Bankruptcy Order: 5th January 2009
    6 of 36 IPA payments made!!
  • Costus
    Costus Posts: 128 Forumite
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    I think that sounds perfectly fine, the only thing you may wish to consider and also that might of saved me a grilling in the OR interview, was the fact that i added a few major items that caused me to get into the debt.

    It helped me in my circumstances.

    Hope this helps. Good luck.
  • This is absolutely standard, we've all done this sort of thing. The OR will know and you have the change in circumstances with your mum's illness. It will be fine.

    Good luck.
    Bankrupt 11th June 2008
    Automatic Discharge 11th June 2009
  • Hi thanks for your responses and help.

    Thanks again.
  • im in the same position so i think you have a vaild reason for bankrupcy

    good luck
  • singleme
    singleme Posts: 19 Forumite
    it sounds fine to me- i added at the point when i started getting stressed i went to cccs and they confirmed i didnt have income to pay my debts and robbing peter to pay paul was gona catch up with me sooner rather than later-they then did a budget with me
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