family an so called friends

glam_jan_56

hi everybody what a great site this is i have calmed down a bit now.just a word from the wise.....stick to mates on here who help when panick strickes. cos in my experience before i found you all. the friends i thought i could tell only want to delight in the debt i have incurred. an make comments like :well i wondered how you could afford to go on holiday: another friend commented that all this stress will rob me of my looks going through all this.then theese so called friends proceed to tell you how they never have a card,an if they do theyALWAYS pay it back before any interest goes on.well that makes you feel a whole lot better doesnt it? all i can say is in the present credit crisis i may have to prop them up before long,will i be there for them.....

spenderblender

This is the bit we are dreading when / if it all comes out cause they just love the gossip.

peachyprice

glam_jan_56 wrote: »

then theese so called friends proceed to tell you how they never have a card,an if they do theyALWAYS pay it back before any interest goes on...

Oh, don't beleive everything folks tell you, it's easy to be holier than thou, til the !!!!!! hits the fan

heartofgold_2

Well!!! Those people dont deserve to be called your freinds.
Freinds are those that stick with you through thick and thin,and that means ,when you have money,and when you havent.
Best off without no freinds,than with people like that.
Best of luck to you.

Deep_In_Debt

I had friends like that but now the "said" friends are now admitting that they have money worries and now can't afford to pay for the simpler things in life. I scrimp and save and can afford to pay for my car repairs from my savings or current account but they are paying for it on their credit cards and now can't afford to pay them. I've been there, done that... got the T shirt...

blind-as-a-bat_2

glam_jan_56 wrote: »

hi everybody what a great site this is i have calmed down a bit now.just a word from the wise.....stick to mates on here who help when panick strickes. cos in my experience before i found you all. the friends i thought i could tell only want to delight in the debt i have incurred. an make comments like :well i wondered how you could afford to go on holiday: another friend commented that all this stress will rob me of my looks going through all this.then theese so called friends proceed to tell you how they never have a card,an if they do theyALWAYS pay it back before any interest goes on.well that makes you feel a whole lot better doesnt it? all i can say is in the present credit crisis i may have to prop them up before long,will i be there for them.....

Yeh right:rolleyes: denials a wonderfull thing i......... or should i say,we should know:cool: :rotfl:

nervousmother

I thought I had managed to keep it a secret, telling only a few select friends, all of which were really worried for us and knew the cause was northern rock,

However someone phoned my mom last week to say 'ooo i heard a rumor your daughter has gone BR' she just said, ohh i doubt that she still has her house and car and job... (she does know) i reckon someone has seen it in the paper, However my family is the important thing in my life, if these gossip mongers have nothing better to do the next 3 week let them get on with it, i know someone else will be the centre after that!! they have sad lonely lives just remember that.