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Night in...what to do

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  • hamstercheeks_2
    hamstercheeks_2 Posts: 1,953 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    game of cards or chess
    Time is the best teacher
    Shame it kills all the students
    :p
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  • Sirbendy
    Sirbendy Posts: 537 Forumite
    500 Posts
    Grab the baby oil, towels, tea lights, and practise your massage skills, followed (eventually, heh..)by a shared bath/shower (post eating) - it's a good way to fall asleep!

    If you combine this with an oil-burner and some chocolate orange oil or lavender oil, so much the better.
  • Skint_Catt
    Skint_Catt Posts: 11,548 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Talk to each other!

    Find out her hopes and dreams and fears in life and tell her yours. I'm SICK of sitting next to my OH for nights on end (always just the two of us) and he doesn't even look at me once, let alone hear ANYTHING I say to him! Now I offer him something ONCE and if he doesn't acknowledge me I get whatever it is for myself and not for him! :grin:

    I've been complaining for days that my shoulders are killing me and he won't even attempt to rub them let alone massage! :mad:
  • Icklebeans
    Icklebeans Posts: 295 Forumite
    Carpet picnics, great food and wine with the fire on and candles!
    Proud mother of twin boys - double the trouble and twice the pleasure! :T
  • Cloister
    Cloister Posts: 139 Forumite
    Skint_Catt wrote: »
    Talk to each other!

    Find out her hopes and dreams and fears in life and tell her yours. I'm SICK of sitting next to my OH for nights on end (always just the two of us) and he doesn't even look at me once, let alone hear ANYTHING I say to him! Now I offer him something ONCE and if he doesn't acknowledge me I get whatever it is for myself and not for him! :grin:

    I've been complaining for days that my shoulders are killing me and he won't even attempt to rub them let alone massage! :mad:


    Heh as far as this goes, men need to be told you want a massage, hints like my shoulder is killing me isn't enough he needs to KNOW you want a massage or shoulder rub in plain English as he probably won't think of it.

    Though it's bad he won't acknowledge you!
    This signature was previously violated by my wife, that'll learn me to stay perma logged in.

    Fortunately, the offending comments have now been removed - my apologies to all who had to read it and laugh at my expense.
  • Krystaltips
    Krystaltips Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    Skint_catt, does your OH have an xbox? Because that seems to of sent my hubby deaf...

    We have naked monopoly or cluedo nights... As long as the heating is on....
    A very proud Mummy to 3 beautiful girls... I do pity my husband though, he's the one to suffer the hormones...
    My Fathers Daughter wrote: »
    Krystal is so smart and funny and wonderful I am struck dumb in awe in her presence.
  • Leopardlady
    Leopardlady Posts: 1,264 Forumite
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    What fantastic suggestions, i need to get date night sorted, but we used to go out for it, these ideas are fantastic for the MSErs:) Sorry i don't have any ideas of my own, but thanks to you all for yours :)
    Leopardlady
    Got married on the 26th April 08!!!!!!!:j:T

    Bumpy Bean was due 20th Nov 2010, born 15th Nov :j:j:T
  • Skint_Catt
    Skint_Catt Posts: 11,548 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Krystaltips wrote: »
    Skint_catt, does your OH have an xbox? Because that seems to of sent my hubby deaf...

    We have naked monopoly or cluedo nights... As long as the heating is on....

    Lol, no but he does really get into whatever he's watching (twitches when there are fights on TV/films!) - the only time he does talk to me is when we're playing the Wii though thinking about it! :rotfl:
  • xxlaurissaxx
    xxlaurissaxx Posts: 2,253 Forumite
    Cloister wrote: »
    Heh as far as this goes, men need to be told you want a massage, hints like my shoulder is killing me isn't enough he needs to KNOW you want a massage or shoulder rub in plain English as he probably won't think of it.

    Though it's bad he won't acknowledge you!

    not mine, f i say Id like a massage he pretends hes sleeping :rolleyes:
    0/2013
    :beer:
  • xxlaurissaxx
    xxlaurissaxx Posts: 2,253 Forumite
    Krystaltips wrote: »
    Skint_catt, does your OH have an xbox? Because that seems to of sent my hubby deaf...

    mine too :rolleyes: Mind you I get peace to come on here or read a magazine :p
    0/2013
    :beer:
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