We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Hen Party Dilemma - Help Please!

I have two different groups of friends the very close ones and the ones who are work related/see only often

I'm worried that a big hen party with everyone invited will mean people splitting into groups and/or I won't get to speak to everyone

OR

Two hen parties will cause more stress and what if ones better than the other?:eek:

What would you/have you done?

p.s. the close friends sound like they are prepared to spend a bit :o
Currently studying for a Diploma - wish me luck :)

Phase 1 - Emergency Fund - Complete :j
Phase 2 - £20,000 Mortgage Fund - Underway

Comments

  • Hi
    I had the same problem so my close friends we r goin 2 brighton 4 the weekend and my work friends and family we r goin 4 drinks and a meal the wk before the wedding.

    Just do wot makes u happy not every 1 else! xx
    :jHas lots to look forward to in 2011!!:j
    :o Baby GIRL DUE 15.2.11:o
    sealed pot challange no-876
    Mummy to DS 18/12/99 and DD 08/05/06
  • Hi

    I'm having a night out with work collegues, friends, family and anyone else who wants to come along in about six weeks before the wedding. Hoping for a cheesy night out, lots of fun.

    Then a special night/weekend away two weeks before the wedding. Still planning this, need to make it as cheap as possbile. There will only be 8 of us including my mum and 3 bridesmaids...the closest girlies to me.

    xx
    Joint debt with OH at LBM Sept 08 (excluding mortgage & student loan) - £34,069 :eek:

    Getting married 05/09/09 :love:

    To lose for the big day (lb) 2/51
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 353.9K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.3K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.2K Spending & Discounts
  • 247K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 603.6K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.3K Life & Family
  • 261.1K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.