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Worried Parent

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  • ceeforcat
    ceeforcat Posts: 1,131 Forumite
    kessik wrote: »
    If your daughter wants to deal with her situation she will need to contact her creditors in the UK. If she does nothing and tries to avoid paying by staying in Ireland (not suggesting she is btw!) her creditors will find her. A relation of mine tried to do this in reverse years ago, before the EU even, by moving to UK to leave Irish electricity board debts behind and they found him, after three years and made him pay. That was before the internet. Debt companies are unstoppable I've found.
    I think your daughter is lucky to have a supportive mum like you.

    Even luckier that I am actually her Dad then?
  • fiveyearplan
    fiveyearplan Posts: 10,145 Forumite
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    Yes, lucky that she has a caring parent.

    :j :j


  • Jubbly1868
    Jubbly1868 Posts: 130 Forumite
    Mega lucky I say... I havent been so lucky with my parents so well done dad!
  • kessik
    kessik Posts: 288 Forumite
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    I'm sorry ceeforcat....don't know why I assumed you were her Mum. Must be because I was thinking about mine. A supportive parent then.
  • rayz_x
    rayz_x Posts: 12 Forumite
    Not wishing to be too blunt, but that sounds like a lot of stress for £5k and not worth going bankrupt for. My bankruptcy got rid of £24k but is still a headache over 4 years after discharge. Definitely negotiate with the creditors really soon.
    Ray
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    The debt shouldn't increase once it's with DCA's, I've never had one that's added interest (apart from Mercers, who aren't really a DCA).
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • fiveyearplan
    fiveyearplan Posts: 10,145 Forumite
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    I agree with Rayz - try and negotiate with creditors first. Most will probably accept 20%-30% of debt as full and final settlement.

    :j :j


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