The Compers Inn - Part 11

toniq

im here matey xxx
on bingo as well but here xx

gingerchick

Consoling/hugging/moral support free to all who need it.:D

Huge hugs to all today going through the mill.

Off to ptp. Wokkies, you mentioned earlier about not being able to delete one order. That's happened to me too.
Had one prize delivered a while ago, claimed another one recently, but the first one is still on the order? Wonder if I'll get another one of the first prize?

Rock_Chick_Bird

ok...deep breath...

On top of all the crap this year it seems we have had another blow.
Found out last weekend that my lovely brother and sil were having their first child together.
Yesterday she came to mine to say she had been having pains & brown spotting.

She knew this could be normal in early pregnancy (she was a midwife before becoming a health visitor), but today she is bleeding fresh blood.

She is only 5 weeks gone, but she knows in her heart that she's miscarrying.

I'm just so sad for them, and wondering how much longer we have got to deal with crap.

I'm a super-positive person normally & believe that everything happens for a reason, but sometimes it just drags you down.

Anyway, that's out of the way now - onwards & upwards (hopefully)

Soz to moan (again!!) but just needed to offload. xxx

gingerchick

Oh RCB, that is carp. Something that should be a joyous occasion can totally turn the other way in the blink of an eye.
Big hugs to you and all your family.

toniq

im sorry xxx
it does sound like a miscarriage xxx
Until she gets checked out she wont know for certain xx

stressedofdevon

RCB, am so sad for you and your SIL. I will say a prayer for her and hope good times are just around the corner for you all. I wish I could do something of real help other than listen. Keep strong and have faith that all will be well in the long run, we just don't know what the plan is right now.

stressedofdevon

Oh, and I forgot to say but a very close friend had that almost throughout all three of her pregnancies. I am now godmother to her eldest daughter, age 14, and she has two more lovelies, so it is not always as it seems.

ThinkingOfLinking

RCB, I am so sorry to hear this. The only comfort I can give you is that miscarriages usually happen because the foetus isn't viable (eg it wouldn't happen to a healthy one) so that is saving a lot of pain and heartache later down the line. I know it's not much but I hope it helps; had 2 miscarriages myself (7 and 16 weeks) so I know what it does to you.

Rock_Chick_Bird

thanks ladies - I can always count on you. xx

She has felt something wasn't feeling right for the past week & hasn't got excited about the pregnancy because she instinctively felt things would go wrong.

I think they're both coming to see me in a while, so I'm just going to give them as much positive support I can.

Never had such a bad 3 weeks!!

Can only get better from here I'n sure!

jenniwren12

RCB I'm so sorry to hear that.
I know there is nothing that can make your SIL feel better but sending out my best wishes to you and your brother and sister in law.

Thinking of you and praying for good times to meet you very soon.
x