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"This time next year, Rodney" Hypno's latest instalment

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  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    because it would be admitting that my life has turned so crap over here i may as well try my luck in another country.... and besides it would be very much on my friends terms and lets just say he doesnt want us to be friends. I have irons in fires here at the mo job wise and arent ready to give up just yet!!!! (although it would be nice.... and as my mother puts it "healing")
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    And what is wrong with admitting that life is crap and something else might be better :confused:
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    because i dont want my life to be crap. :( and admitting it is will make it so :(
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    pania wrote: »
    because i dont want my life to be crap. :( and admitting it is will make it so :(

    (((((hugs))))) I know exactly how you feel hun.
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    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
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  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    I just need to be a big brave noddy and face the fact it is and going abroad fgor a wee while to break the ties and heal may well actually be a good thing rather than procrastinating, excuse making and walking around the subject all the time!!!!! has anyone read monsoon rains and icicle drops? she did just that and never came home!!! :D (brilliant book, go for it if you get chance...
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    pania wrote: »
    because i dont want my life to be crap. :( and admitting it is will make it so :(

    Ok, how about saying "life is going just fine, but an opportunity is there to make it even better".........?
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    that sounds like a good plan! :D
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    pania wrote: »
    because i dont want my life to be crap. :( and admitting it is will make it so :(

    No. Your life is your life and what you call it has no direct bearing on it. If it's crap, then it's crap - if it isn't then it isn't. If wishful thinking made things different then we would have no recession, no crime and no bad things in life. However we wouldn't be living in the UK, we'd be living in CCL.

    You will always make your best decisions if you are facing the full unvarnished facts.

    :grouphug:
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    ZTD wrote: »
    You will always make your best decisions if you are facing the full unvarnished facts.

    :grouphug:

    And if you listen to me, Z, and your mother......
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    oh my lord.. I feel ganged up on!!! gah!!!! thanks guys i know you care about me and that ius a lovely feeling to have, we shall "discuss it" sometime that really is the only commitment i can make to it right now. or it al llooks faaar to big and scary and i run away fast. hence malaysia.... :/ but I WILL talk about it sometime i promise xx
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
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