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  • davek1

    I had my first chat with Payplan last night and they were lovely. There was no judgement and they simply wanted a few details. I have got my BIG chat with them next Thursday and both hubby and I think IVA is our way as well. I wasn't looking forward to it either but they really are not that bad!
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    You are both taking control and I know first hand what a difficult step that is as you feel like there will never be any end to it.

    Just remember that Payplan will have dealt with thousands of cases just like and even worse than yours.

    As long as you have worked out an honest and reasonable budget then try not to worry.
    As long as you don't over commit yourself and can make the agreed regular payments then what else can you do?
    (selling your body down the docks is not advisable!)
    Keep going guys, you're on the right road, keep posting to give & recieve the support, advice and understanding that you deserve!!!
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • davek1
    davek1 Posts: 590 Forumite
    selling my body would probably mean being in even more debt, i'd have to pay them to take it!!!!

    Thanks for the support though guys will keep you posted.
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