Just the three of us - new beginnings!

clearmydebts

I don't think many people are doing too much busting this time of year. I reckon a couple more weeks and you will be right into the swing of things again!

doodledo_2

yeah hope so. Bank account is ok but not great lol. Have done two mystery shops already this year and another lined up for Satuday so some extra pennies on their way at the end of the year

ElizabethJH

Well you're far ahead of me with your debt busting if you've already managed two shops!! So far this month I've earnt zero extra £'s!! Oh well I've paid off my arrears and I'm feeling good about that!! Was naughty and treated myself to £20 to spend on clothes and some bed sheets - shouldn't really get treats after a week in France but my balance can just about handle it!!

Hope you had a good Christmas and Ney Year

CAFCGirl

well well well................

drama drama young lady!

Will Santa man be renamed following your date Valentines day....? Or is he going permanently known as Santa Man???

I cant wait to hear more.
Hope you're ok hun, miss you loads xx

LittleEmms

doodledo wrote: »

LE - that is how I am feeling at the mo. What will be will be. I won't rush into anything and so far he is respecting that. The attention is definately good for me though, so many people have commented how much happier I appear.

Its funny as I do think some people are 'sent' just when you need them. About a year after my long term relationship ended, I met a guy who I really liked. The ex then decided (after breaking my heart) that he wanted me back... and I knew he didn't really he was just lonely. Thankfully the new guy helped in stopping me from going back.

That relationship was over only two months later, but it stopped me making a huge mistake! Just what I needed.

The fact Santaman (keep the name - I like it! ) respects your wanting to take things very slow, makes him a good'un in my eyes! Good luck hun!!

xx

doodledo_2

Thank you all for your posts it means a lot.

This week has been pretty cruddy and I am so glad its Friday. Due to various events we decided to tell our little girl about Mummy and Daddy splitting up. I can quite honestly say it was one of the hardest things I have ever done. Not sure how much she took in but in her world mummy and her live in the "girls house" and daddy lives in a "boys house". I am sure we will get more questions as time goes by but for now she seems pretty happy.

It has really hit me for six though and I have struggled this week,. I have found myself going to bed at 9pm as I can't face being alone. I need to shake myself out of this.

Santaman - I think the name stays lol as I quite like it. He is still here and still letting me set the pace. He seems a very caring and genuine bloke and if nothing else he has been a good ear to listen to over this last few days.

CAFC - so glad to see you back I missed ya xx

CAFCGirl

well due to his good nature and loving qualities I cant think of a better name than Santa!!!

Sorry to hear the week has been a bit cruddy.... when the evenings are long and cold I often feel like just curling up and shutting out the outside world. So dont beat yourself up about that just yet..... if you still feel like it in a month then might need to re-think.....

missed you oodles too hun... Hows Rubes? Wee Gordobeen has snuggling up with Mr Phezzy (toy pheasant) as he's got no friends anymore..... we'll have to get them on webcam together, and be virtual puppy pals

doodledo_2

Someone said similar to me today that with all thats going on I am entitled to a few crud days. She did then say if I was like it next week she may slap me :rotfl:

Rubes is good and she could be his older lady lol. She is quite big now and so bloody lively but also so affectionate. She is so snuggly to me in the evenings its lovely.

Glad the gordonini is settling in well, is he nipping much?

CAFCGirl

nips like a crazy person..... everything is munchable....

especially the ribbon ties on my slippers, the bottom of the trousers, my fingers, the pen we put him in and his dog bed..... but at least he seems happy!

smarties84

I am sorry to hear your feeling pants, bless you. I hope you have a nice weekend x