help please found out husband bisexual

nosierosie

hi all wondering if any 1 can help my poor friend came lastnite distraught she has been happily married for 8and half years and her husband told her the other day that he has slept with about 10 men before he got with her she is in piceces and doesnt no what to do i already new her husband was bisexual and hon estly thought she did becaus quite a few people did but she new nothing off it and she hasnt told any 1 only me she said he has been quite off with her for about a week before he told her and he said the reason he told her is because she is always calling him gay because he is quite camp but like she said she has called it him for nearly 8 years i dont no myself why he has told her i am wondering if he has been off with her as he met some 1 and is trying to break it gently to her why else would he tell her 8 years later she said she would like to talk to some 1 who has been through a similar thing has any one any suggestions on why they think he has told her thanks all

annamc75

I think that you have posted on the wrong board - you should post in the money saving arms as it is likely to get closed or moved from here.

Good luck

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wendybird

Try here - they run a helpline and offer counselling around these issues.

http://www.pacehealth.org.uk/family_support/

HTH

Pink.

Hi rosie,

As this thread isn't strictly Old Style and you have started a thread elsewhere on the chat forum, I'm going to close this one.

I hope you will get some replies that will enable you to give your friend the support that she needs to deal with this.

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