For anyone considering BR

chelseadagger_3

I don't come on this forum very often but just wanted to say something to anyone considering BR...
I went BR in Feb this year - it was by far the hardest decision I had to make. However what I wanted to say was that no matter how hard things can get there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.
I was discharged in July and since then I have been able to pay every bill on time, I am no longer hassled by creditors and I have just started to train for a new job which I have always wanted to do.
So my message really is, there are dark hard times when you will feel completely alone but make sure you talk to people be it family or friends or people on this forum.
You will come through it and it is possible to turn your life around in a relatively short time!
My life has been completely transformed within a year and if I can do it so can anybody else (its not easy but is possible) just hold on to your dreams!

chelseabun_3

Thanks for the encouragement, CD! Glad to hear things are going so well for you - hope it's the same for us! CB (no relation!!!;))

dalip

Hi CD good to hear from you again. Glad things are really good and moving forward for you,may itcontinue. Good luck with the training too.Dx

maxmycardagain

ED...........sweet

all done and dusted

tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life

chelseadagger_3

Thanks for the kind replies, I just think in the current climate there are going to be so more many people in the predicament we faced and it is important to remember that although times do get very dark there is light and it does get better!

fiveyearplan

You're right CD I think a lot more people will be joining our club in the near future and just think we will already be through it.

Hey Max - I notice you just got your 4th medal!!

Rylynn

Thank you for your post, it is hard when actually trying to get through it all, but good to read someone who has and has positive thoughts on a new start in life. I wish you luck.

chelseadagger_3

It is extremely hard going through it, and I wish everyone going through it now the very best and hope it has a positive effect!!!