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DFW Meet Manchester Saturday 28 February 2009

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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Burlesque_Babe wrote: »
    That's why I'm torn, I know his family will be sad if I don't go and Iguess he'll say that I couldn't make it.
    What is more important though - making his family happy? Or making you happy?

    I'm not going to nag hunny because it's a difficult situation and only you know what you really want to do. But he obviously knows that you will be hurt by his attitude.....so instead of playing into his hands, what about just giving him your biggest smile, and saying 'you're right, it would be lovely to see my friends, thanks for being so considerate'.

    And then getting p*ssed with us instead. :D
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    what about just giving him your biggest smile, and saying 'you're right, it would be lovely to see my friends, thanks for being so considerate'.

    And then getting p*ssed with us instead. :D

    you're norty................:D
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Burlesque_Babe wrote: »
    you're norty................:D
    Yep :D:D :beer:
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    What is more important though - making his family happy? Or making you happy?

    I'm not going to nag hunny because it's a difficult situation and only you know what you really want to do. But he obviously knows that you will be hurt by his attitude.....so instead of playing into his hands, what about just giving him your biggest smile, and saying 'you're right, it would be lovely to see my friends, thanks for being so considerate'.

    And then getting p*ssed with us instead. :D
    :T :T :T :T :T :T

    I agree

    please
    please
    please
    please
    please:A
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    What is more important though - making his family happy? Or making you happy?

    I'm not going to nag hunny because it's a difficult situation and only you know what you really want to do. But he obviously knows that you will be hurt by his attitude.....so instead of playing into his hands, what about just giving him your biggest smile, and saying 'you're right, it would be lovely to see my friends, thanks for being so considerate'.

    And then getting p*ssed with us instead. :D

    Yep....what Snaggs said ;):D
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    awww, ta.........i'll probably end up going to the evening 'do'.....I know what I'm like, I'd end up sitting with you lot worrying what his family are thinking knowing I'm in Manchester.......
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    Snags want me to pick you up?
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    3 WEEKS TODAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY

    :dance:
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    I know!!!!!!!!!! I've just changed my siggy - exciting!!
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
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    immoral_angeluk wrote: »
    3 WEEKS TODAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY

    :dance:

    I better start making myself look presentable:o:p
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
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