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Finally realised that I need to act........!

mani99
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Where do I begin? Firstly I think I should say that I am awful with money, I really have no love for it and spend without thinking. It's finally hit me that if I keep this up my future will not be a pleasant one. I bought a house this year and I know I've gone above what I could afford, and it didnt help that I hammered my credit cards while re-decorating.
BUT.... Im now determined to get my debts cleared especially as now that I have met a wonderful woman and we are looking to get married next year. I dont want her to have to suffer because of my stupidity.
As you can see from my sig, I have plenty of debt and don't realistically think I will have cleared them by this time next year. The aim is to clear as much as possible but also save up money for the wedding.
I would like any advice on ways that I can train myself to stop spending on things which I don't need and also anyway which I can earn an extra £500 a month.
I have already made a start by bringing my own lunch into work, and I cant believe that I never did this before as I'm eating healthier and saving money!
All comments and suggestions will be much appreciated.
BUT.... Im now determined to get my debts cleared especially as now that I have met a wonderful woman and we are looking to get married next year. I dont want her to have to suffer because of my stupidity.
As you can see from my sig, I have plenty of debt and don't realistically think I will have cleared them by this time next year. The aim is to clear as much as possible but also save up money for the wedding.
I would like any advice on ways that I can train myself to stop spending on things which I don't need and also anyway which I can earn an extra £500 a month.
I have already made a start by bringing my own lunch into work, and I cant believe that I never did this before as I'm eating healthier and saving money!
All comments and suggestions will be much appreciated.
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Welcome & good luck.
When you have a moment you could post up your SOA and let the good peeps on here have a rummage and make suggestions as to where you can trim your budget further so that your debts are cleared faster.0 -
Sorry, what is SOA?0
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If it's a break down of my income and outgoings then:
Income: £2000
Outgoings:
Mortgage and Council Tax - £1000
Loan - £212
Credit Cards (Min) - £300
Gas, electric, phone - £120 (max approx)
Travel - £150
Total - £1782
As you can see, not much left over. I tend to then start using my Credit cards again.
A real mess.0 -
that's the idea, there is a sticky at the top of the page that gives a template, that way you don't miss out anything vital.
With the credit cards it is a good idea to list the APR, then you/we can have an idea which ones need binning the fastest. This will lead you to a snowball (lovely jargon here!) at whatsthecost.co~ and you can work out how fast you could clear the debts.
sorry about being so brief, I'm supposed to be at work0 -
that's the idea, there is a sticky at the top of the page that gives a template, that way you don't miss out anything vital.
With the credit cards it is a good idea to list the APR, then you/we can have an idea which ones need binning the fastest. This will lead you to a snowball (lovely jargon here!) at whatsthecost.co~ and you can work out how fast you could clear the debts.
sorry about being so brief, I'm supposed to be at work
No need to apologise, I appreciate the help. I too am at work!
I will give more accurate detail.0
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