Questions for Pwc

NAT.B_2

Hi I haven't posted for a while as things had clamed down with hubby EX(pwc) and our case is with the ICE.

We have had my hubbys kids nearly half of the summer holidays, we have taken them out brought all new uniform for both. And its still not good enough!:mad:

Some one plesae assure me there are PWC out there who are nice!!!

Question, do all the PWC on here get on with there EXs? I wish mine did but no she makes thing as difficult as possible.

Hubby is now going to court to get a Parental Responcblilty for his two, shes going mad about that.

What will ever be good enough for her? Sorry to moan but ive had enough! lol

Hope I dont offend anyone.

Loopy_Girl

NAT.B wrote: »

Hi I haven't posted for a while as things had clamed down with hubby EX(pwc) and our case is with the ICE.

We have had my hubbys kids nearly half of the summer holidays, we have taken them out brought all new uniform for both. And its still not good enough!:mad:

Some one plesae assure me there are PWC out there who are nice!!!

Question, do all the PWC on here get on with there EXs? I wish mine did but no she makes thing as difficult as possible.

Hubby is now going to court to get a Parental Responcblilty for his two, shes going mad about that.

What will ever be good enough for her? Sorry to moan but ive had enough! lol

Hope I dont offend anyone.

I'm a nice PWC (there are probably folk on here that beg to differ but hey, bothered!!!!)

I don't speak to my ex but that is entirely his choice. Would love nothing more than for him to be in small person's life but he doesn't want to and does everything in his power to even avoid paying £5 a week (even though he has his own business).

I think some PWC see their ex's as a soft touch and try to get more and more out. It's a shame cos it gives all PWC a bad name and we are not all like that I promise you. Most on here just want a fair contribution to the upbringing of their child(ren).

Probably nothing will be good enough for her. She sounds bitter and you and hubby are just going to have to rise above it and quite frankly, feel sorry for her.

N71

I'm another one! I speak to NRP and we're even quite civil now (7 years on), but he still doesn't take enough interest in the children, and he always has something better to spend his money on than maintenance - but i'm trying my best to be nice to him for the kids sake.

I've got a few very lucky friends who get on great with their ex's, they have regular contact with the kids, they pay maintenance every week, without fail some with/some without the CSA involvement. I'm sure there are a lot of ex-couples out there like that, but obviously they're not on here having a rant because they don't need too.

In the little ideal world that existst in my head, all of the nice PWC's would be matched up with all the nice NRP's and everyone would be happy.
All the bitter twisted PWC's will be left with all the bitter twisted NRP's and they can just carry on making each others lives hell.

If only I could be President of the UK!!!

Loopy_Girl

N71 wrote: »

I'm another one! I speak to NRP and we're even quite civil now (7 years on), but he still doesn't take enough interest in the children, and he always has something better to spend his money on than maintenance - but i'm trying my best to be nice to him for the kids sake.

I've got a few very lucky friends who get on great with their ex's, they have regular contact with the kids, they pay maintenance every week, without fail some with/some without the CSA involvement. I'm sure there are a lot of ex-couples out there like that, but obviously they're not on here having a rant because they don't need too.

In the little ideal world that existst in my head, all of the nice PWC's would be matched up with all the nice NRP's and everyone would be happy.
All the bitter twisted PWC's will be left with all the bitter twisted NRP's and they can just carry on making each others lives hell.

If only I could be President of the UK!!!

Hell I'd vote for you!!!!!!!!!! Gimme a nice NRP and I will look after him properly

NAT.B_2

I really Wish my hubby and his EX could get on, it would be much easier, It makes me mad as we do more for her kids than she does. Yet its still not enough.

I could understand if her children wasnt looked after, wasnt cleaned cooked for, being shouted at all te time, me being horrible to her children But it not like that. I treat her kids like my own, as I do with any other children that come to my house. If they misbehave they get told off. Simple

Loopy_Girl

NAT.B wrote: »

I treat her kids like my own, as I do with any other children that come to my house. If they misbehave they get told off. Simple

And that's how it should be. None of this pandering to them as it gives opportunity for playing Mum and Dad off each other.

I'm the same when small person's chums come to play. My house, my rules and if small person wouldn't get away with something them I'm damn sure I won't turn a blind eye just cos it's other people's kids.

Donedoingdebt

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

Hell I'd vote for you!!!!!!!!!! Gimme a nice NRP and I will look after him properly

LG, I thought this was a family forum;)

N71

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

Hell I'd vote for you!!!!!!!!!! Gimme a nice NRP and I will look after him properly

I suspect the way you'd like to look after him would result in another QC!

Loopy_Girl

Pah..what is this blot on my character that N71 and DDD are insinuating!!:eek: I ws talking about cooking and cleaning and stuff - you pair have the mucky minds!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:


(mind you, as soon as I get off these crutches it could be a different matter!!!!!!;) :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: