loan problems

stevel8407

hi the names steve,
took out a loan back in 94 still have hanging around today when i took the thing out originally it was insured but it seems in name only the wife and i had a mutual split over that and some other issues for a 14 month spell and during this time the bank had been informed and i was told not to worry very reassuring at the time by the bank i just assumed that everything was ok till i returned !my god was i in for a shock the loan had grown all by itself to a huge sum about £8000 from £4500 and so it went on while i was trying to pay it back it just never went down by any signifcant margin then kensington were brought in to try and resolve this but that went nowhere after 2 years then we turned to eurodebt another disaster cost me more again, so eventually we get to frederikson international who now own this debt they are without doubt nothing more than thugs , they just keep pushing me and i do honestly feel it , its not that i dont want to pay its the demands i cant take and the way they deal with it , you are led to feel like a criminal in some ways and their phone manner is disgusting , you dont actually get anyone on the phone that now how to approach people in a polite and decent manner , anyway thats enough from me would be interested to your thoughts and maybe advise .
thanks steve