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DebS_2-3
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Wonder why I'm counting.
I'm nt looking forward to it. This is going to be sooooooooo bad.
Will tell you why after.
I'm nt looking forward to it. This is going to be sooooooooo bad.
Will tell you why after.
Deb Bankrupt 04/07/08 12.15pm
MSE B&SC member number 175.
MSE B&SC member number 175.
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sorry you're not feeling too happy tonight. Am hoping things might look brighter in the morning for you
DecemberBSC support number 158
weight loss - 52lbs0 -
Why is it going to be so bad?? It's not you know!!
Do you have anything you d like to get off your chest??Sometimes you have to go throughthe rain to get to therainbow0 -
You'll be fine. It's dark and things always look worse than they are without sunlight. Tomorrow will be a new start and life will look bright again.0
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If it's worrying about the OR interview it is nerve wracking but I found it to be more my expectations of the event and not the actual event itself, same as the bankruptcy proceedings.
DecemberBSC support number 158
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Wonder why I'm counting.
I'm nt looking forward to it. This is going to be sooooooooo bad.
Will tell you why after.
Debs ive been researching BR for long enough to say once you realise your only way out is BR it doesnt get any worse than that feeling of realisation.
In fact doing the deed itself is an anticlimax, even if the judge gives you a dressing down, its just like being at school faceing the headmaster/mistress only your not a kid anymore so its not the same really.
As for after there isnt much the OR can do to make it worse than it was before.
So im intrigued as to why you think it will be so bad?
Wish you had shared it earlier, one of us may have been able to alieviate your fear.
Anyhow, all the bestThats it, i am done, Blind-as-a-Bat has left the forum, for good this time, there is no way I can recover this account, as the password was random, and not recorded, and the email used no longer exits, nor can be recovered to recover the account, goodbye all ………….
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2 hours to go now!
I realise that our own problems are always worse to ourselves, but to onlookers they may not look so bad.
I'm worried about what the OR will say but I am quite relaxed about it - if that makes any sense.
There are issues which I will be very suprised if are not brought up. I shall find these difficult because they involve the only member of my family. I can answer the questions but will find it very difficult.
But hey ho - my hands are working Ok so get ready at 10am folks 'cos as the OR asks the questions, I'll type them for you to answer!!:D
If I don't come back it'll be because they've locked me up, so let me thank each and everyone of you for the advice, freindliness and laughs.:D
See you in a bit - I hope!!Deb Bankrupt 04/07/08 12.15pm
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Stay strong, us Debs are a force to be reckoned with
You will be fine, I know it can be hard to deal with confrontations but if you have some sort of idea what awkward questions are going to be asked make some brief notes for you to refer too through your interview. Stick to the facts and only answer questions, don't offer additional information if it's not asked for.
Debs xBSC Member 59 - AD 29th March 2008
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blind-as-a-bat wrote: »Debs ive been researching BR for long enough to say once you realise your only way out is BR it doesnt get any worse than that feeling of realisation.
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Morning Debs,
Just don't ramble on like I did and I'm sure you will feel relieved once it's over. Let us know how you get on.
DecemberBSC support number 158
weight loss - 52lbs0 -
i know how you feel 4hours to go for me......meet you in the Bankruptcy Inn later:eek:It's not the mickle that mak's the muckle:j BSC 166:jBR 25th June 2008Discharge 25th June 20090
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