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  • fermi
    fermi Posts: 40,542 Forumite
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    I've been off the forum for a few days and I have to admit that I am utterly shocked by this.

    The last time I posted on a thread that Weller contributed to was to share some of her joy that he was in remission. So to log on here and learn this fills me with the deepest possible sadness. :(

    All my best wishes go out to you. I don't think that there is more to add. Struggling to type here......
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  • bluedog
    bluedog Posts: 502 Forumite
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    Weller, my heart goes out to you and your family.

    We haven't spoken before and I've also come over from the pigsback thread and just want to let you know how sorry I am for you all at this sad time.

    Time is one of the greatest healers and as you come to terms with your loss, the pain will fade and the sun will begin to shine once more. As others have said before, there's no rules with grief. Take each moment as it comes and deal with one thing at a time to begin with. Be kind to yourself, ask for help when you need it, even if it's just for a hug or someone to sit with you without talking. Accept help that those around you offer until you feel ready to do them yourself again too.

    I know I'm a total stranger, but these are the things my best friend recently told me helped her the most after she lost her husband in awful circumstances last year and perhaps you can take something, however small from it.

    Take care and ((((((hugs)))))) to you all.
  • JesaRose
    JesaRose Posts: 4,457 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear of your loss. I also lost a Weller yesterday (assuming we're not related as he was called Reg). Bigs hugs from MSE
    Not been here in years! Hi everyone. Make £10 a day challenge = £78.45/155
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    I stumbled across your thread last night and i don't know you at all or your story but you are much loved here, I am so sorry for your loss, take care, we are all thinking of you xxx
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Rummer
    Rummer Posts: 6,550 Forumite
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    Wellar, you are in my thoughts and my prayers. Andy passed knowing you were with him, your strength and your children will guide you through this difficult time. Take care xx
    Taking responsibility one penny at a time!
  • abbecer
    abbecer Posts: 2,177 Forumite
    Much love to you and your family. Thinking of you.

    Rebecca x
  • paintpot
    paintpot Posts: 764 Forumite
    Weller, I don't know you, I saw your thread last night but saw you were in safe hands with your friends talking to you and so didn't post but having heard the sad news I felt I really wanted to post to say how sorry I am to hear of your loss. You sound like a wonderful person who has helped others so much despite your own problems. I hope that these posts will, at some time in the future when you are back from your parents, help you and your family. Thinking of you and your family at this sad time.

    Take care

    X
  • dialysis
    dialysis Posts: 1,778 Forumite
    Weller like others we have never spoken before but I would like to say we am really sorry for your loss we are all thinking of you and your family. Take care.

    Lots and lots of hugs

    Diane Barry and family
  • Triker
    Triker Posts: 7,247 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    To Weller and all her family, thinking of you and sending love - you are in our thoughts. xxxxx
    DFW Nerd 267. DEBT FREE 11.06.08
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    And fail, and try again; But it matters much if you try and fail, And fail to try again.
  • FeelingLow
    FeelingLow Posts: 602 Forumite
    I have taken a step back from MSE (BR Section more) just recently due to things that really don't seem important when they are put into context, & even though i don't know you i couldnt remain a lurker & not say anything....

    my heart goes out to you & your family i will keep you in my thoughts & prayers xxxxxxxxxx
    :)BSC Member#99:)
    :mad: [strike]Smoke Free 02/05/08[/strike]:mad:
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