We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

roger here

I need some advice, this is my story,
I have got unsecured debts for about £28000,secured debts of about £27000 and i owe£77500 on my mortgage.About 70% of debts are due to gambling.And the house is worth about £95000.

I told my partner how much trouble i had got myself into,she was not a happy bunny,well anyhow we have decided to separate.

The mortgage is in joint names and so is the secured loan,now for the questions
1 what would happen if we sold the house to the secured loan, would that still stay in both our names or could i get it in my name, because i dont want her paying for my mistakes?

2 would i be better going BR

any advice please




There you go roger.:D
Free impartial debt advice available from: National Debtline - Tel: 0808 808 4000 | The Consumer Credit Counselling Service (CCCS) - Tel: 0800 138 1111 | Find your local Citizens Advice Bureau
Laugh at yourself and others laugh with you.Laugh at others and you laugh alone. BSC No 107:D

Comments

  • dalip
    dalip Posts: 7,045 Forumite
    Roger i moved your post here,hope you don't mind.
    First off we can not tell you wether bc is right for you or not,sorry.You need to ring one of the charity debt helplines for free impartial advice.If they then say bc is best for you we will help all we can with your questions.


    I am not "up" on houses so will wait for others to give their opinion.

    Good luck and hope you now get some answers.D
    Free impartial debt advice available from: National Debtline - Tel: 0808 808 4000 | The Consumer Credit Counselling Service (CCCS) - Tel: 0800 138 1111 | Find your local Citizens Advice Bureau
    Laugh at yourself and others laugh with you.Laugh at others and you laugh alone. BSC No 107:D
  • tigerfeet2006
    tigerfeet2006 Posts: 14,030 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Roger if you go BR then any joint debts will fall wholly on your other half to pay. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news. You will not be able to transfer it to your name and then go BR as he OR would not be happy and could reverse the action.

    Please ring one of the debt charities and run through all your options with them as this is a complicated situation.
    BSCno.87
    The only stupid question is an unasked one
    Loving life as a Kernow Hippy
  • peachyprice
    peachyprice Posts: 22,346 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Hi roger,
    Welcome to the forum.

    If you sell the house you will have to make arrangements with the secured loan company regarding the shortfall, they can stop the sale going through if you don't. They may well be happy for you to transfer the £9500 into a personal loan in your name only, providing you can afford that. Once the house is sold the shortfall will no longer be a secured loan.

    If you go BR and let the house repossessed, as tigerfeet says the £9500 shortfall will all go to your ex partner, together with any other joint debts you might have.

    Hope this helps some.
    Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.4K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.7K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.4K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.4K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 601.3K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.6K Life & Family
  • 259.3K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.