Calling all you night owls part 2

poorandindenial

Herewegoagain wrote: »

Been really looking forward to going to the dorchster show, (should be the last thing on my mind:o )I've never been, then last week ot a phone call to say my great aunt has died, she's been ill for a while but the funeral is day before the show, so will have to rush up to Bristol for her as we were real close, need desperately to see my grandson in cardiff as seen him in 3mths and worried he wont recognise me, then OH expects me to get back here for sat and don't feel like driving as will be upset and OH wont take me. LOst my dad, my aunt and now my great aunt in 2years and has hit my mum really hard and I'm worried about her health, don't think I can stand lossing anyone else

Aw hun, I am so sorry (and annoyed at your OH for being a pillock)

bubbles0169

will you peops stop apologisin this is the owls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im so sorry here xxxxxx big hugs is needed all round i think all the way up the west side o the isles, down the east and across the bottom
im sorry i cant be any more help(!)babe were here to rant to as i said tho so stop sayin sorry ok?! ! !

bubbles0169

g'night doom hope you side swipe the axe!

poorandindenial

Night DC, I'll email you tomorrow

Buffythedebtslayer

Bloody Hell Here we go. I am so sorry.

Its utterly horrible when you feel like your life is series of events out of your control. The show shouldn't be the last thing on your mind, its really difficult not be, I don't know angry or resentful are too strong but you are in pain and you want it to stop you want things to be normal but they not.

I think the best you can do is the funeral and check in on your Mum. OH is in my opinion not being very suportive. Do you have a friend that could drive or help in some other way? mind you I wouldn't like to ask - can you?

Send your grandson some thing in the post. take a moment for yourself if you can. Its the hardest thing we face and you will find a way, I have found it just takes far longer than I thought.

(((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))

marksandsparksgal

Evening all!

bubbles0169

only 5 weeks here, that IS along time in your work babe!
im going to have to go now, my eye lids have weights on em, im pressin more than one key at a time in the hope ill type what i want before my eyes go, im sorry cant stay againxxxxxx(your not allowed to tell me off for sayin sorry so ner)xxxxxxxxxxx

bubbles0169

aaah buffy that was so nice and helpful i wish i could get that stuff out at this time o night
hi my sparkly m&s gal! im sorry not been in touch only got tinternet agin the other day and im still aclimatisin, hope to catch you again tho g'night all, thinkin of you xx

marksandsparksgal

Crikey, have just had a quick read through of tonight. Big hugs to everyone who is feeling crap.

marksandsparksgal

bubbles0169 wrote: »

aaah buffy that was so nice and helpful i wish i could get that stuff out at this time o night
hi my sparkly m&s gal! im sorry not been in touch only got tinternet agin the other day and im still aclimatisin, hope to catch you again tho g'night all, thinkin of you xx

Hey bubbles, it's ok, I've not been about much lately, studying by day and working again by night, all a bit mad really. Living upto my name again tho teehe!! Speak soon xx