Calling all you night owls part 2

wendy_ann1983

actually its ok, he will be moving out soon though, we're hoping its not a complete split and we can try again but we both need some space and time, he's goin to stay at his mates for 2 wks and cat sit so will give me a chance to adjust, we been living together longer than we been an item so is gonna feel so weird being alone but i not lived on my own for a long time so think it will be good in a way, though it hurts like hell

wendy_ann1983

ok legs have calmed down now so im off to try and sleep

piglet29

Aaah well maybe a break will help you work out whats happening with you both, once you have had time apart you can maybe sort out what you really want to happen in terms of your relationship, and which direction you want things to go xx

ikkle87

yellow it isnt my money I am worrying about though babe I am all on track its my mum and step dad who I am worrying about, my step dad didnt like his job so he quit and so my mum is working all the hours she can to pay the mortgage and all the bills and that is leaving her with £100 a month and that also has to pay for my little brothers school dinners which are £35 a month. He isnt working I dont think he wants to work full time he likes finishing at 2pm and going to the pub like he did when he was self employed, and while he is off work he could be doing the house up like fixing the hole in the wall from where they had to pull boarding off to get to a burst pipe - he dont have no excuse hes a qualified plasterer. My mum is ignorant to it though she just thinks that as the bills just about get paid its ok she dont seem to understand that if she dont pay her bills or when it comes to remortgage they wont necessarily be on same rate and if she cant pay then they will risk losing the house. An example of my step dads daftness - the washing machine broke he spent £30 on a 2nd hand washer to replace it then went and bought a nintendo wii! I have printed him off some jobs from the job centre website and typed him up a cv as well as emailed it to a job agency today and he has 2 interviews through the week I just dont want my mum to end up in an early grave by slogging her guts out.

piglet29

wendy_ann1983 wrote: »

ok legs have calmed down now so im off to try and sleep

Night wendy, hope you manage to get some sleep hun, see you again soon xx

ikkle87

Night night Wendy xx

yellowmonkey

Wow ikkle sounds like you have a lot on your plate. Good luck and I hope your Stepdad sorts himself out and I think your Mum is very lucky to have a caring daughter like you.

yellowmonkey

Night Wendy

Wol2

wendy_ann1983 wrote: »

well apart from the restless legs i have also split up with my partner of 3 yrs, though we still friends and infact still living together in the same bed, just no touching, is a bit weird but not weird if that makes any sense

OMG.........SNAP!! (He had RLS)

Well this was last year for me..didn;t live together but spent a lot of time in each other's houses......we split in Oct and had virtually no contact between Oct and May (my choice) and now are just exploring as friends....no overnight stays.

Hope you're OK Hun
Hugs
Wol2
xx

piglet29

ikkle87 wrote: »

yellow it isnt my money I am worrying about though babe I am all on track its my mum and step dad who I am worrying about, my step dad didnt like his job so he quit and so my mum is working all the hours she can to pay the mortgage and all the bills and that is leaving her with £100 a month and that also has to pay for my little brothers school dinners which are £35 a month. He isnt working I dont think he wants to work full time he likes finishing at 2pm and going to the pub like he did when he was self employed, and while he is off work he could be doing the house up like fixing the hole in the wall from where they had to pull boarding off to get to a burst pipe - he dont have no excuse hes a qualified plasterer. My mum is ignorant to it though she just thinks that as the bills just about get paid its ok she dont seem to understand that if she dont pay her bills or when it comes to remortgage they wont necessarily be on same rate and if she cant pay then they will risk losing the house. An example of my step dads daftness - the washing machine broke he spent £30 on a 2nd hand washer to replace it then went and bought a nintendo wii! I have printed him off some jobs from the job centre website and typed him up a cv as well as emailed it to a job agency today and he has 2 interviews through the week I just dont want my mum to end up in an early grave by slogging her guts out.

Aww ikkle, hope your step dad has a lightbulb moment pretty soon hun:rolleyes:
As yellow monkey said, youre mum is sooo lucky to have a lovely caring daughter like you to look out for her, hope things get better for you all very soon babe xx