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Billy and Lily's innuendo-free post

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  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    Great news Lillybart

    Glad you got through the day. Thanks for sharing that the court day is just a procedure... which is just what it is really.

    Angexx
  • Mrs_Bones
    Mrs_Bones Posts: 15,524 Forumite
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    Glad they day went well for you both. I'm in your shoes next monday and really starting to panic so it's reassuring to read your post.
    [FONT=&quot]“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” ~ Maya Angelou[/FONT][FONT=&quot][/FONT]
  • Summer1969
    Summer1969 Posts: 372 Forumite
    I also want to say thanks for sharing your experience, it really helps. Mine is Thursday, can't believe how quickly it has come round! Good luck to you both for the future. :)
    "Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did, except backwards and in high heels"
    BSC Member - No 171 :jAD - 3 July 2009:j


  • MammaCas
    MammaCas Posts: 312 Forumite
    :T Glad it went ok, an excellent account of what it is like

    You are right, its just one stage in a process of things to get your life back on track. I'm a little further down the line than you and have:

    got new accommodation
    been to court
    had OR interview
    rang a few creditors that persisted in hounding me :D
    handed keys over/had house repossessed (wouldn't sign the 'form' they wanted me to sign)
    So now waiting for 'what's next'....not really sure what that is!

    Best of luck with everything, take care

    MC X
  • psycrow57
    psycrow57 Posts: 135 Forumite
    Congratulations on your BR...and for getting through to the last line of your post without any innuendo whatsoever ;)
  • MollyBear
    MollyBear Posts: 209 Forumite
    Well done and thanks for letting us know how you got on. It gives people like me who are still to get to that point a lot of reassurance!

    Glad it went well for you!

    Molly
    x
  • LilyBart
    LilyBart Posts: 1,171 Forumite
    Thanks everyone! MammaCas, we're just about to write to the mortgage lenders to ask how to surrender the keys. Is it ok at this stage to contact the secured loan people too and say that's what we're doing? best, Lily

    ps Also for those about to do it, after court yesterday we walked over to the Co-Op and made an appointment to apply for our cashminder accounts. We went back this morning and the people we spoke to there were very charming and reassuring. Again, there was absolutely no sense of being treated like a second-class citizen.
  • MammaCas
    MammaCas Posts: 312 Forumite
    LilyBart wrote: »
    Thanks everyone! MammaCas, we're just about to write to the mortgage lenders to ask how to surrender the keys. Is it ok at this stage to contact the secured loan people too and say that's what we're doing? best, Lily

    ps Also for those about to do it, after court yesterday we walked over to the Co-Op and made an appointment to apply for our cashminder accounts. We went back this morning and the people we spoke to there were very charming and reassuring. Again, there was absolutely no sense of being treated like a second-class citizen.

    Hiya Lily

    I wrote a letter and sent the keys by recorded delivery, however, they replied with one of their 'vol surrender forms' and said they wouldn't accept my letter. I copied the secured loan company in on the original letter.

    Interestingly, they set a court date for the repo hearing, I wrote to them saying I wouldn't be contesting it and had tried to 'hand it over' and they took 'quiet repossession' and cancelled the court hearing. The house was repossessed on the Friday, on the market by the Tuesday. must admit to feeling sick when I saw it on Rightmove :(

    The secured loan company sent a court summons type thing a few months ago and I wrote to them, the court and their solicitors telling them what was happening. They have gone v. v. quiet.
    I have also copied the OR in on all of the above. Am hoping I don't hear from them at all now....(fingers crossed).

    Let us know how you get on, take care, MC x
  • Tigerlily31
    Tigerlily31 Posts: 143 Forumite
    Hey Lilybart,

    Co-op have been brilliant for me too and so has Barclays!!! I had an account with B's anyway so thought I'd get the cashcard account as I had no debt with them and they had always been really good with me- I use this account for my rent so I can save up and then it's taken out by standing order and then use the co-op for the other bits and bats I need to pay and do.

    I am really impressed with both to be fair and as you say no second class citizen cr*p either. Makes it all feel a little better :-)
    *BSC member 159*
    If you can't get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you'd best teach it to dance.....:D :D
  • LilyBart
    LilyBart Posts: 1,171 Forumite
    Thanks MC and Tigerlily. Having cleared it with the OR, we've written to the mortgage and secured loan people informing them of our intentions to surrender the keys. In the case of the mortgage holders, I asked them how we should get the keys to them - but I won't be signing any forms without double-checking here first! OR interview is July 10. I hope they let us know in advance what documents we need to have to hand.
    Lily
    ps Again for those about to do it, OR sounded perfectly pleasant. A relief, as I'd imagined a voice and demeanour like that of Roz in Monsters Inc.
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