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The long and winding road to debtfreeness

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  • Bobarella
    Bobarella Posts: 10,824 Forumite
    Savvy Shopper! I've been Money Tipped!
    Wow what an amazing gift from your in law's!
    " Your vibe attracts your tribe":D

    Debt neutral :) 27/03/17 from £40k:eek: in the hole 2012.
    Roadkill 17 £56.58 2016-£62.28 2015- £84.20)
    RYSAW17 £1900 2016 £2,535.16 2015 £1027.20
  • i know. I'm so chuffed and really thankful to them. I think i'm gonna go and get her a nice bunch of flowers.
    They only live round the corner from us and my MIL is fab :A. she works full time but looks after the boys every monday when i do an evening at DS1 school and she's having them when we go away for a weekend in May for our anniversary. She is always willing to help out.
    I'm so lucky to have a great MIL & FIL.:T
  • Bobarella
    Bobarella Posts: 10,824 Forumite
    Savvy Shopper! I've been Money Tipped!
    You are, but the fact you appreciate them is brilliant. So many people have help and seem to just expect it.
    " Your vibe attracts your tribe":D

    Debt neutral :) 27/03/17 from £40k:eek: in the hole 2012.
    Roadkill 17 £56.58 2016-£62.28 2015- £84.20)
    RYSAW17 £1900 2016 £2,535.16 2015 £1027.20
  • Well my plan to be organised this morning didn't go well.
    I got up late, i didn't have time to fully dry my hair let alone make my lunch.
    I spent 82p on toast and marmalade in work and stopped off at greggs on the way in to get a roll and drink for lunch £3.
    Friday tomorrow so i don't need to take lunch as we finish early on a friday. Just need brekkie. I will take some Fruit and fibre with some almond milk.
    hubby took the kids out today. They were supposed to be going to jump jam but it was fully booked all day so they ended up going to the cinema, so where i had budgeted £25 for JJ the cinema ended up costing £35.
    one definite win is that when my step dad suggested having a take out and some drinks to my OH my OH turned round and said sorry rain check as we are trying to cut down and it's not in the budget.:eek: This never normally happens as OH mindset has always been we can make it up next month with the overtime money. With the loss of OT he seems a lot more MSE.:D.

    plans for tonight are
    Update YNAB
    Make a meal plan
    Sort out passport applications
  • yesterday was not a NSD

    The cats had their vaccinations £80 but budgeted for. We also had to pick up some cat litter and some snacks for the theatre.

    THe show last night was Fantastic.
    The singing was excellent. there were a few adult jokes thrown in that the kids wouldnt get.
    I did end up spending £22 though :eek: They were selling fox tails and ears on a headband for £6 so i though i would pick one up for DS2 as it is world book day soon and that his costume sorted. I got one for his friend too, but while i was at the counter in the intermission i noticed that they were selling pots of ice cream. so i asked for 4. They were £2.50 each :eek: they were only little pots.
    DS2 and his friend had a great time and even OH who doesn't normally like plays and musicals and that thought it was really good.

    today should be a NSD as i'm not planning on going out. I have my little brother here today and overnight so DS2 and him are playing in DS2 room.
    To do
    -Make the kids lunch before they die of starvation
    -Have a really good tidy up of the house as its a tip - ive spent the last week and a half barley doing anything with this illness.
    -Passports
  • Bobarella
    Bobarella Posts: 10,824 Forumite
    Savvy Shopper! I've been Money Tipped!
    Glad the show was fun, shame about that ice cream though!!!! I hate being ripped off like that. They were selling normal sized bottles of coke for £2.99 in the train station cafe that was in the waiting room. Needless to say we turned out nose up at it but obviously if you are thirsty and have no choice they win!
    " Your vibe attracts your tribe":D

    Debt neutral :) 27/03/17 from £40k:eek: in the hole 2012.
    Roadkill 17 £56.58 2016-£62.28 2015- £84.20)
    RYSAW17 £1900 2016 £2,535.16 2015 £1027.20
  • Ammeretto
    Ammeretto Posts: 181 Forumite
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    I'm not very good at posting am I? Must try harder.
    So what's happened since I last posted…

    Very kind MIL and FIL did end up giving us £3k so we had a driveway put in last month. Its great. No more parking on the road and hoping my wing mirror doesn’t get knocked. :j

    I have recalculated our starting debt again (because I forgot to include some figures and I want an accurate picture of where we started up to now) So starting debt (Final final amount) is £42,102.35. This is made up of Cards, Loan and overdraft £29,981.66, my car £6,261.84, HMRC tax credit overpayment £799.78 and OH bike £5,059.07.
    Debt as at 30.06.17 is £19,600 (53.45% cleared) made up as

    MBNA - £2,950 - £665 0% to Aug 17 & £2,285 0% to Dec 17
    Halifax 1 - £1,650 - 0% to Aug 17
    Halifax 2 - £960 - 0% to Dec 17
    Creation - £4,250 - 0% to Apr 18
    B/Card 1 - £5,705 - 0% to Sep 17
    B/Card 2 - £4,085 - £2,030 0% to Sep 17, £960 0% to Oct 17 & £1,095 0% to Jul 20


    We have a few 0% coming to an end but we have plenty of available balances on the B/Cards to do some more 0% transfers.

    Holiday - Passports are sorted :) and we have the £2k saved up for the spending money. Will probably need to buy some clothes for the holiday but I will do that in August and we shouldn’t need much.

    Fitness - I signed up for the gym in May (£40 pm) and even though I have been going and getting my moneys worth I'm not losing the weight. I want to use the weights but every time I go in there I feel really intimidated and just end up using the cardio machines.
    In light of that I have just signed up for an 8 week crossfit kickstart. You can go as many times as you want during the 8 weeks and they will basically walk you through everything - they make sure that your form is correct etc. They have classes Mon-Thu that start a 5pm. I finish work at 4:45 and the gym is round the corner from my work. So I plan to finish work, go straight to crossfit and then home.
    There is no obligation to sign up to a membership at the end of the 8 weeks and at £60 per month I probably wont. For me its just about giving me the kickstart I need to be confident in the gym.
    I will be going sometime this week to get measured and have a chat about my goals and then the 8 week start on 3rd July. Perfect timing to finish before our holiday.
    Ideally I want to lose around 21lbs but as long as I lose inches then I'm not too bothered about what the scales say.

    Work - my job is going ok :) - plodding along nicely, however there have been some issues with OH job. :mad:
    They have four teams of three people comprising of two analysts and one shift leader. His work has decided to make all of the analysts redundant and keep the shift leaders. OH is a shift leader so is keeping his job, however at the moment he does shifts - four twelve hour day/night shifts with four days off - they will now have to go to days Mon-Fri 8 to 4 and be on call for a week every four weeks. Its going to be a shock for him as he has been doing shifts for so long. Its also been a real pain with the summer holidays as there are now a lot more days that we need to find childcare for. :mad:
    The plus side is that we will now have every weekend together :T to do things as a family. The new hours also comes with a small pay rise so that’s good. The pay rise will just cover the increased fuel, extra afterschool club costs and extra holiday clubs costs so we wont really be any better off.

    Health - My big toe has a numb spot just to the side of the nail and I keep getting pains in my toe. My foot has that feeling of slight numbness - you know the feeling if you have been lying on your arm for a little bit and then you shake your arm and you can feel the blood running to your hand? my foot feels like it needs to shake and have the blood running through it.
    My mum was panicking me by saying that it’s a symptom of diabetes (both my mum and my nan have it) so I went to the doctors this morning - He doesn’t think it is diabetes as i don't have any other symptoms and is leaning more to a trapped nerve or something, however given my family history I will be having some blood tests done. I have to go on Friday to have the blood taken. They are testing for diabetes, B12 and folic acid deficiency as they can cause nerve issues.
    Fingers crossed its not diabetes.
  • Ammeretto
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    thought i should update YNAB as i haven't done it in a few days and have just spent the last hour adding in emojis to the categories instead of doing the finances :o
  • Ammeretto
    Ammeretto Posts: 181 Forumite
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    I had fun last night adding Emojis to YNAB. I also did the boring bit and made sure that everything was up to date and ready to start the new month on Saturday.
    I booked my Crossfit induction session for Friday at 2pm - Classes start 3rd July :)
    Busy day in work and I ended up spending 30p :o on some mini eggs.
    It's OH last night shift tonight and he is going to have a takeaway with his colleague as its his last shift. OH is then off tomorrow and then in on Friday for a bit of rare overtime - New hours start on Monday. I think he is on call the following week.
    It looks like OH company might be sold :undecided. If it does go ahead we are potentially looking at getting some money as he pays into a sharesave scheme and he has some bonus shares.
    Possible lump sum of about £8.5k ish :T- of which about £5.5k is profit and the rest is our contributions.
    it will be fantastic if it does happen and OH keeps his job - it will be a great amount to clear off the debt and it will bring our DFD forward from Jun 19 to Apr 18 - 14 months. But i'm not holding my breath. We will find out in the next month or so.

    I updated OH's expected income for this year with HMRC and his tax code should now increase :)- I think he is now on a cumulative tax basis which means he should get taxed a lot less this month to make up for the last four months. I'm thinking £375 ish in July wages. Most of this will be used for School uniforms and school shoes as both kids have completely outgrown their current ones. DS2 came home the other day with two holes :eek: in his jumper. I repaired them and told him that it had better last until the end of the term cause i'm not buying any more until August.

    We have been having discussions about after school care for DS2. Due to OH new hours he will need to go Mon to Thu every week instead of the odd day or two at the moment.
    We are looking at around £130 per month.
    OH suggested we get DS1 to pick him up and keep an eye on him until OH gets home. About 45 - 60 min.
    DS1 is very sensible and very grown up. We live just around the corner from the school so they don’t need to walk far to get home (2 min)
    MIL is also going part time in September and she lives just round the corner too so can be there if needed.
    I'm not sure though. I think I might prefer to pay the £130 per month. If we do look at it doing it I might try just one day a week and see how it goes.
    DS1 has been coming home from school to an empty house for 3 years now and he has shown himself to be very sensible. He always rings me as soon as he gets home, and knows not to open the door etc.
    Thinking about it my reservations don’t have anything to do with DS1 but rather how DS2 will react to DS1 being in charge.
    We are looking at October at the earliest so we have a little while to have a think about it.

    Had a to pop to asda on the way home to pick up cat food. I had a shock when the bag of cat food was £15.50 - i usually only pay £10 - £11 ish. I picked up a small bag instead and will look around to see what shops have it on offer.

    Right - need to get onto DS1 to sort the recycling and rubbish out then im off for a bath and early to bed as im shattered.
  • Ammeretto
    Ammeretto Posts: 181 Forumite
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    Not too much to report. I went to bodypump thursday night (i was still aching yesterday) and MIL is came over to colour my hair for me.:D
    Had my bloods taken Friday morning. I need to ring up on Wednesday for the results.
    I also had my crossfit consultation on Friday. Part of the package also includes a meal plan / diet to follow but it's for the Paleo diet and i'm not sure.
    I might try it for a week and see how i get on. If not i'll just go back to calorie & macro counting.
    First crossfit session is tomorrow straight after work. :T

    yesterday i had to buy a new washing wirlygig as mine broke. It used to keep dropping and i would go out to find half the clothes dragging on the grass but yesterday it died completely. I got a 50 meter drying area one for £29.99.

    My mum invited us over to theirs for a BBQ last night so that was a nice free dinner.

    Today saw another spendy day. £37.99 in sports direct - shoes and socks for DS1 (he keep growing. His feet are now bigger than mine) and OH got a bag for the gym.
    We also spent £78.45 in Argos - cube storage unit, mirror and stool (To store towels and to have a shelf for my make up - all budgeted). I also picked up a bike helmet for DS2 as his current one is broken and also some rechargeable batteries.

    Thinking financials again - for the last few years we have done all of our grocery and fuel spending on two credit cards (fuel on OH Egg card and groceries on my Lloyds card) and pay it off in full each month.
    The reason behind this was 1) to help with our credit rating before getting our remortgage and 2) because it keeps it separate from my main account. I could see at a glance how much we had spent each month on fuel or food etc (this was implemented long before i started to use YNAB). It also helps keeps the main account tidy of lots of transactions.
    Anyway I have a n/wide credit card that was opened last year for a Balance transfer. The 0% has just come to an end and the remaining amount was transferred over to my B/Card. This leaves the balance on the n/wide card at zero. I have only just realised that they offer 0.5% cashback on all purchases. (i did try getting the natwest rewards one as that has a higher % but i was declined)
    So I have requested a new card and pin for myself (the original one was cut up as soon I received it) and another card for OH and we will now be doing our grocery and fuel spends on the N/Wide. It has a £1.5k limit which is more than enough for our monthly spends. We are only looking at getting around £40 - £50 per year but its money for nothing, and as i use YNAB i still get to see the groceries / Fuel spends split.

    Right bed time for DS2 and then a bath for me i think.
    Night all.
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