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How are you coping with Christmas finances?

Citygirl1
Citygirl1 Posts: 932 Forumite
I've been Money Tipped!
edited 25 November 2014 at 6:45PM in Old style MoneySaving
Just interested to know because I'm not coping too well. I haven't had chance to save up for Christmas so its coming out of my wages, I don't earn a fortune, am already £50 overdrawn, don't get paid till the end of the month and have £115 on my credit card. I am paying off my credit card and had got it down but have been forced to put some presents on it or else I would struggle, I am determined to pay it all off in January.


Do you save up for Xmas throughout the year? I don't have kids but have a lot of family and friends to buy for.


I must admit I am starting to panic.
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  • WantToBeSE
    WantToBeSE Posts: 7,729 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped! Debt-free and Proud!
    I am coping OK. I have a budget which I am sticking to, and the children (14 and 10) have their wish lists that they give to me every year.
    My 14 yr old wants a Kindle paperwhite, which I got today (£10 off on Amazon if anyone wants one)
    My 10 yr old want Skylanders Trap Team for his xbox, which I got with my clubcard vouchers.


    Apart from the children, I only buy for my mum, my 2 sisters, my niece and my sisters boyfriend


    I have got everyone pressies apart from my Mums.


    I save from September, £500 a month and am done by November.
  • Gigervamp
    Gigervamp Posts: 6,583 Forumite
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    This year our budget is severely limited. My 3 kids are all adults now, so I've set a budget of £30 each and worked out what I'm getting.
    The only others we're buying for are 2 nieces and one grandchild who we'll probably spend about £15 each on.

    If you have a lot of people to buy for, it makes sense to either start buying earlier in the year to spread the cost, or save some money each month. After all, it comes around at the same time each year!
  • kboss2010
    kboss2010 Posts: 1,466 Forumite
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    I budget for Xmas every year from Jan. £100-£150 goes away each month to cover my annual expenses - car insurance/tax/MOT/breakdown recovery/house insurance/dentist/Christmas.

    Next year could be a problem though as I'm currently job hunting and unemployed.
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  • Tink_04
    Tink_04 Posts: 1,206 Forumite
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    This is the best year we have done, for years it was a panic where to find the money for gifts but this year we saved up and have been buying bits each week to put away since early in the year. I hope you manage I used to feel awful that we had such a little amount for presents but really found pepole loved the home made small personal gifts more than anything else.
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  • Thanks for your replies. Looks like saving over the year is the best option, but I do struggle with that. I try to put something into my own savings if I can so other savings can be tricky. I come out with approx. £1.200 per month and £700 or so of that goes on rent and bills and monthly bus pass, I live alone so have no help with the bills and of course I need to buy clothes and things and like to socialise, I am not extravagant though by any means. The only beauty pamper I have is having my hair coloured at the hairdressers, and having my eyebrows waxed, everything else I do myself.
  • bossymoo
    bossymoo Posts: 6,924 Forumite
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    I do the sealed pot challenge on here. It really adds up. I also don't spend too much, my children are young so haven't really got used to getting heaps and heaps anyway.

    Hope it all works out for you
    Bossymoo

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  • NewShadow
    NewShadow Posts: 6,858 Forumite
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    edited 17 November 2014 at 8:45PM
    I have a very ambitious plan.

    I have about £20 in the house and, other than a train ticket to visit my dad and crazy (honestly, she's 90 and doolally) nan for the actual 5 days between the 24th and 28th, I intend to spend no other money what-so-ever between now and the 1st Jan. (Edited to include my grocery challenge remainder of £3.95 in my spendable money, and obviously clarify that that excludes rent and various sundry direct debits)

    I've already bought their christmas gifts (and the gifts for the cats...;)); they'll feed me that 5 days; and my freezer and cupboards are bursting at the seams. Its more than doable.

    Haven't decided if the christmas £20 my nan and dad will give me should count as 'money', but I think it will have to be saved till the 1st. I may change my mind when all i have left in the house are gherkins :S

    It should mean that on jan 1st I've got about £400 to buy some christmas goodies in the sale (hoping for a goose) and pay off one of my debts.
    That sounds like a classic case of premature extrapolation.

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  • Well, the kids are all grown up, so they get cash (£100, but there's 5 of them, so that's more than enough!!). On top of that, the only one we spend money on is the granddaughter. We'll buy token gifts for my parents and OH's brother and sister, and a box of chocs for work, but that's it.

    For food, I've just bought £97 pounds worth of Morrisons savings stamps to get the £3 free (that's slightly better than the 3% I get from Santander - and I don't have to wait the full year for it!!). That will cover the booze.

    We're catering for 7 on Christmas Day, with an as yet unknown quantity of folk staying over in the days before and after. I might get another savings card at Morrisons. I'll also cash in my Nectar points at Sainsbugs (I have no brand loyalty at all...). I've already started buying odds and ends of food that will keep.

    Our guests for Christmas Day have said they will provide the wine etc for the meal itself, so we only need to buy booze for the surrounding days.

    To the OP - never ever ever feel pressured into spending more than you feel comfortable with. Give yourself the gift of a debt-free New Year. If people are going to judge you by how much you spend on them, they're not worth spending anything on.
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  • Do you save up for Xmas throughout the year? I don't have kids but have a lot of family and friends to buy for.


    I must admit I am starting to panic.


    If you were my friend or relative, the thing I'd want for Christmas would be for you to have peace of mind. I'm a grown-up, and I'd want to say 'Please don't get me anything, what matters most to me is that you are happy and unstressed'. If you were auntie, cousin, neighbour to my children I'd be saying the same thing - get them something tiny if you really want to, but you know what, they'll have lots of other stuff right now, why don't we make a date sometime in February where you come over and spend some time playing with them or doing something nice with them - that will mean more to them in the end than one more present right now.
    Reason for edit? Can spell, can't type!
  • notanewuser
    notanewuser Posts: 8,499 Forumite
    We don't buy gifts for 90+% of the family. I buy something little from DD (4) to 2 of her 3 cousins, and we have a challenge with friends to put together something for less than £4 per child.

    Apart from a bit of food and a real tree we don't buy anything else.
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