Real-life MMD: Should I secretly switch my husband's Shreddies to save cash?

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  • Angela84
    Angela84 Posts: 398 Forumite
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    Keep up the swapping. Don't feel guilty, you're trying to save your family money, he should be being supportive in that as well. If he can't even 'try' the own brand to see if he likes them for you, then you've done all you can. I do things like this often with my brand snob and food paranoid husband. I've tried to make a joke and do a grand review once or twice, but it's ended in arguments so now I just quietly get on with it, and reap the much needed savings for the bills.
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  • paul2louise
    paul2louise Posts: 2,425 Forumite
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    i think keep swapping, especially as Mr A sells their own brand 750g boxes 3 for £3 bargain. If saves a few pennies then that is good for me.
  • macaroni
    macaroni Posts: 448 Forumite
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    Keep swapping and dont tell. Just buy the occasional new box when on offer. If you tell him he will say 'I thought they tasted different' (!!)
    :hello:
  • maxmiler
    maxmiler Posts: 68 Forumite
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    If he is daft enough to not even knowingly try them, then he doesn't deserve to know. Keep treating him like the fool he is.

    p.s. I really don't know, but it's just possible that they are made in the same factory to almost the same recipe.
  • ashleyriot
    ashleyriot Posts: 89 Forumite
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    pwharley wrote: »
    Why not try it the other way around?

    Put Shreddies inside an own-brand box and implore him to try them "Just once, dear?".

    If he still says he doesn't like them, you can expose them as the "real thing" and see his reaction!!

    If he says "They're OK", you've won! Buy the own-brand thereafter.


    (PS I like Shreddies, but I find the own-brands perfectly acceptable. If Shreddies are on offer, I buy them; otherwise I buy the store brand.)

    Oh my gosh! Best idea ever!!
  • ashleyriot
    ashleyriot Posts: 89 Forumite
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    scotsbob wrote: »
    Seems very strange to deliberately give your loved one something he said he doesn't like.
    Also seems strange to deliberately deceive a loved one.

    No wonder the divorce rate is so high.

    Lol, yes divorce rates are high because of the Shreddie-swapping epidemic.

    He does like them as well! He just doesn't know he likes them.

    The problem will be in the end male pride and the fact that he realises that actually, the own-brand ones weren't bad at all.
  • kirkwisebeard
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    My ex wife worked in the factory where Shreddies are made... three days a week, it was Shreddies... four days a week, it was own brands... same ingredients, same factory, same staff, slightly different moulds etc... just like digestive biscuits and Jaffa cakes... an awful lot of the own brands are made in the McVities' factory in Ashby de la Zouch....
  • joehoover
    joehoover Posts: 146 Forumite
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    How old is your husband?!

    Let him to do the shopping and budget everything then if he's not happy with what you buy.

    Problem solved.
  • tgroom57
    tgroom57 Posts: 1,431 Forumite
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    Not good. Grasping at straws comes to mind. If this is the last thing you can save money on there really is no hope for you.

    Very entertaining, reading all the above delightful schemes. But you wouldn't like him to muscle in with the same trick on your make-up. Let the guy come round to it in his own time.
  • davholla
    davholla Posts: 523 Forumite
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    macaroni wrote: »
    Keep swapping and dont tell. Just buy the occasional new box when on offer. If you tell him he will say 'I thought they tasted different' (!!)
    I agree 100%.
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