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  • Watty1
    Watty1 Posts: 4,992 Forumite
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    Can totally relate to emotionally draining work, having seen friends go though the mill with it.
    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • greent
    greent Posts: 10,671 Forumite
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    I used to find massage draining enough with some clients - not the physical element, but some people were so *needy* on the energy front and took all of mine if I wasn't careful. On the other hand, some were great and it would be a mutually beneficial re-energising session for us both :)


    Glad you've not got CFS, KC. My late m-I-l had that (along with many other ailments) and I've a friend with a teenager with it. Explaining how debilitating it can be can be hard when you can look well. A friend with lupus used to always use the 'spoons' analogy often found online, and I always think it works with CFS.


    You take care of yourself now - you want to enjoy your new writing career after all your counselling years x


    xx
    I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul
    Repaid mtge early (orig 11/25) 01/09 £124616 01/11 £89873 01/13 £52546 01/15 £12133 07/15 £NIL
    Net sales 2024: £20
  • Karmacat
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    Thanks greent! And watty :)

    Yep, that's it ... obviously, these are current clients, so there's nothing I can say, but that I'll be glad to retire :)

    I've been blogging, you goving (4855 points! nearly there!) and cutting back the side border that extends front and back. It suddenly looks a lot tidier and a lot *nicer* :o Some repair work is needed to the "concrete" aka sand, between the paving stones, but at least I can almost reach every bit of the border now :o and I'll soon be able to plant the area up with low growing herbs, as opposed to the towering foliage plants the previous owners thought were right for such a narrow space, grr!

    I'm definitely in a good phase :j but I'm stopping the physical work for today, don't want to overdo it, I've been at it a while as it is.

    Off for a quick look round the boards - kettle's boiled, just got to get my cuppa now :j
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • atypicalblonde
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    Your positivity just shines from your post KC :) I'm having a cuppa with you in spirit, and a cheeky chocolate digestive too ;) xx
    MFW :)
    [STRIKE]Mortgage 8.2.15 - [/STRIKE][STRIKE]£171,064.64[/STRIKE] Mortgage 1.5.2018 - £99,980.45
    Aiming to be MF 1.10.2020
  • Tilly_MFW_in_6_YRS
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    Hi Karmacat, sounds like you've had a brilliant day and I was interested to read the CFS fatigue/syndrome comments.

    Have you taken the Nora Batty style hat off yet?

    Tilly x x x
    2004 £387k 29 years - MF March 2033:eek:
    2011 £309k 10 years - MF March 2021.
    Achieved Goal: 28/08/15 :j
  • smallholdingsister
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    Watty's massage clients sound like Energy Vampires.
  • greent
    greent Posts: 10,671 Forumite
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    Your positivity just shines from your post KC :) xx


    I thought exactly the same thing - a very 'bouncy' post :D
    xx
    I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul
    Repaid mtge early (orig 11/25) 01/09 £124616 01/11 £89873 01/13 £52546 01/15 £12133 07/15 £NIL
    Net sales 2024: £20
  • Karmacat
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    Awww :j yes, I feel bouncy, its true :jafter I've had the single daily coffee, anyway :D

    It's odd, I *love* being in the garden and getting it to take shape. I've always liked the *idea* of that, but now I love the doing of it, which is quite different :rotfl: and the other thing is that all the decluttering has had an effect, I have the space now to get something out from a box or a shelf, and *use* it straight away, without moving half a dozen other things. It's lifechanging, I'm not kidding :j

    I have some client work today, I'll be doing the legwork of getting a blogpost I've already written up and running, and I'm refocussing on the stuff (a **lot** of stuff) I've stashed for cat-design-work. Oops :p

    I'd like to take this opportunity to thank my dishwasher, without which none of this would be possible :p (because I'd be at the sink, washing dishes, seriously :) )
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • rtandon27
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    Karmacat wrote: »
    ...I'd like to take this opportunity to thank my dishwasher, without which none of this would be possible :p (because I'd be at the sink, washing dishes, seriously :) )

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    KC - I feel exactly the same way about ours! - Anything to save time - more & more these days that seems to be our most valuable commodity!
    4 YEARS 10 MONTHS DEBT FREE!!! (24 OCT 2016)
    (With heartfelt thanks to those who have gone before us & their indubitable generosity.)
    ...and now I have a mortgage! (23 AUG 2021)
    17 YEARS 4 MONTHS LEFT OF 20 YEARS
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    edited 16 October 2015 at 10:56AM
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    Everyone seems happy today. That's great to hear:j

    I'd love a dishwasher. I actually won one in a comp years ago but OH made such an issue about having to move cupboards and resite lots of stuff (our kitchen, though big, having a strange configuration with too many doors and windows to make many walls usable for much) that I sold it still brand new and in its box:(.

    Another of his objections was that we have no use for one, only being the two of us, but I cook from scratch every day and seem to have a lot of washing up. I know you absolutely love yours, KC, and rely upon it, and there's only one of you!
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