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Great 'Flatmate MoneySaving' Hunt

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  • Kez1983
    Kez1983 Posts: 345 Forumite
    When I shared (just 2 of us) we used to go to the supermarket together and do 3 shops, mine, hers and together (bread, milk and vodka usually!!)

    Annoyed the cashier sometimes putting it all through separately, but worked for us!
  • sozzifer
    sozzifer Posts: 28 Forumite
    edited 25 June 2010 at 12:07PM
    When I was in a shared house, we did all of our food shopping together, and we all cooked and ate meals together. It worked out *so* much cheaper than buying food individually, and meant that we didn't have, e.g. 5 half-empty bags of pasta in the cupboard. We were all really good friends, which may have had something to do with how well it worked, but it's something to discuss with the rest of your housemates.
  • paramonkey
    paramonkey Posts: 32 Forumite
    I would strongly suggest that people don't get a joint account for the purposes of house sharing. It just spells disaster. If things suddenly turn sour in the house, the last thing you want it to be financially responsible for them. If your living with someone then that's a different matter. I've just started living with my girlfriend of close to 2.5 years, but it's pointless getting a joint account as we will only be living together for 6 weeks.
  • TUS
    TUS Posts: 692 Forumite
    spugzbunny wrote: »
    I live in a house share of 3. I have all the bills coming out of my account as I've been burnt in the past by people forgetting to pay. I keep a spreadsheet which is completed each Januray with my budget and includes all the house bills for every month of the coming year. This way I document how much everyone owes and when they owe it and I can update as and when bills change.

    This works well ... I have done this once. It does mean being super organised and firm when it comes to getting payment (had to put my foot down a few times inc threatening to phone my friends mum, lol).
  • i had a flatmate who used to pee in the sink and not pay his rent on time.
    i didn't mind the peeing in the sink... but next time i'll make sure a lodger has a regular income!
    you have been warned!!!!!
  • bristol_pilot
    bristol_pilot Posts: 2,235 Forumite
    My number one tip - above all others - is do not under any circumstances open a joint bank account with a housemate!

    1. you will be financially linked to them for 6 years - their defaults will affect your credit score.
    2. they can, quite legally, take all the money out of the account and it is theirs to spend, the law recognises no 'individual ownership' of funds in joint bank accounts
    3. if they run up an overdraft and disappear, the bank can come after you to repay it - ALL of it
    4. you will find it virtually impossible to close the account or remove the other person's name

    everything else pales into insignificance.
  • ThinkingOfLinking
    ThinkingOfLinking Posts: 11,828 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Photogenic Combo Breaker
    To be honest, where I live, we just all have our own of everything and that works out best for me. I've been burnt too many times before to take any chances again.
  • elliep_2
    elliep_2 Posts: 711 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    I houseshared as a student, we each just bought the cleaning products and toilet roll etc when it was needed and we were shopping. It mostly worked but there was one housemate who used to complain all the time that we need more of ... but I can't afford to get it, so can someone else. She very rarely seemed to buy anything for the house. That system works OK if the others are willing to turn a blind eye and carry the one who won't buy stuff.

    I like the idea of putting in a set ammount each time it's needed and using that to buy the shared things.

    In the house I shared we all had our own food, 4 butters, 4 bottles of milk etc but it worked for us and saved the arguments that would have happened after one person made a surprise cake and used all the butter etc.

    The bills were arranged one each. I was responsible for the phone and internet bill but we made the (not partcularly moneysaving) decision to pay an increased flat rate and have all calls to everywhere anytime included so that it was a fixed fee and no arguments. Mostly I paid all the phone bill and didn't get any contributions but then also didn't contribute to the other's bills as we all paid roughly the same on them. We did keep an eye on that though and would have evened it out if one bill had been more than the others.

    Mostly we found that the trick is to speak up if you have a problem with anything that is happening, and do all you can to reduce possible friction areas.
  • I share a house, there are 8 bedrooms, but its always different people moving in and out. We have all bills included in rent which is great, except TV licence, and any broadband, TV or phone we may want. I got sky put in, and I've lived to regret it every since. You'd think that living with professionals that you wouldn't have too many issues in getting money from them each month (we're talking about £8 ish a month), but oh no. Its a nightmare, some want internet, some dont, some want sky sports, some dont. I'm owed about £150, so I gave notice and got rid of it all.

    I wouldn't do it again. I certainly wouldn't get a joint bank account either. I've lived in a shared house with another girl before, and had awful problems with her giving me money. She owed me about £400 in the end, and I'd had enough then.

    Good luck to all housesharers I say!:mad:
  • harryhound
    harryhound Posts: 2,662 Forumite
    Don't forget the legalities:

    All together now define "a house in multiple occupation"

    If you are in a HMO this means..................................................................................£££££££ if the local authority catches up with the situation.
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