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Need help cooking for one.

Hello all.

Due to my wife leaving me, I'll soon be living on my own in my motorhome after 16 years of marriage and although I like to think :rolleyes: that I'm not completely useless, I could do with some help on the cooking front, more the technicalities than anything else.

Are there any books about that deal with people in my situation? (Probably called "The Billy-no-mates cookbook", written by Mr Sad and Lonely :D )
I'm not fussy about what I eat, anything is okay as long as it fills me up, but as I've been left in a fair ammount of debt, I won't have too much spare money. I'm very much into "foraging" and as I'm a keen scuba diver, if the budget will stretch to a tank of air I might be able to pick some shellfish.

If anyone can help, I'd be extremely grateful. It's not the living on my own bit that worries me, it's the fact that I know I need to take care of body and soul but with the seperation process in full swing, I'm not doing very well at the moment. To be honest, I'm "sleeping" on the settee, existing on bread and jam and not managing to shake of a dull headache that seems to be my daily companion.

Thanks in advance.

Martyn.
LBM: 12.2.08.
Debt-free as of July '09 :j and determined not to go there, ever again :mad:
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  • r.mac_2
    r.mac_2 Posts: 4,746 Forumite
    hello there

    cooking for one has its advantages - you always get to chose what's for dinner and there is no0one to complain that they don't like what you have cooked!

    I would start off thinking about what you like to eat and what constitutes dinner for you. My suggestions would be think about dishes like beans on toast - perhaps with a fried/boiled/poached egg, spaghetti bolognase, chilli con carne, filled baked potatoes and so on.

    There are lots of useful tips on here about easy recipes and cheap recipes. If you are making dinner, often it is easier to cook enough for two and have the leftovers the next day or put them in the freezer for another evening (although not sure if you have a freezer in a motorhome?). If you like fish then a fishmonger is your friend as you can buy one fillet or just the right amount for one rather than having to buy a pack from the supermarket, which often feeds more.

    pasta is a great staple as well. For a simple and cheap pasta sauce
    1. put pasta on to boil
    2. chop a small onion and fry gently until slightly coloured
    3. add tin of tomatoes and cook with a pinch salt and pepper. Let it bubble away until pasta is ready.
    4. mix pasta with sauce.
    5. add grated cheese on top.

    Vary the recipe by adding other vegetables when you fry the onions or add chopped up sausages or bacon. ensure the sauages are cooked through before eating.


    Don't try to be too ambitious, but have a go when you have the time and inclination - often things are easier to cook than you realise. And its great to ask questions on here.

    Good luck x
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  • morwenna
    morwenna Posts: 844 Forumite
    Benthosboy wrote: »
    Hello all.

    Due to my wife leaving me, I'll soon be living on my own in my motorhome after 16 years of marriage and although I like to think :rolleyes: that I'm not completely useless, I could do with some help on the cooking front, more the technicalities than anything else.

    Are there any books about that deal with people in my situation? (Probably called "The Billy-no-mates cookbook", written by Mr Sad and Lonely :D )
    I'm not fussy about what I eat, anything is okay as long as it fills me up, but as I've been left in a fair ammount of debt, I won't have too much spare money. I'm very much into "foraging" and as I'm a keen scuba diver, if the budget will stretch to a tank of air I might be able to pick some shellfish.

    If anyone can help, I'd be extremely grateful. It's not the living on my own bit that worries me, it's the fact that I know I need to take care of body and soul but with the seperation process in full swing, I'm not doing very well at the moment. To be honest, I'm "sleeping" on the settee, existing on bread and jam and not managing to shake of a dull headache that seems to be my daily companion.

    Thanks in advance.

    Martyn.

    Okay - don't know exactly where you are coming from, because I was left with three children, which helps when menu planning IYKWIM...

    However you are feeling poorly because you aren't eating properly, which I think you have worked out. What do you like to eat? A lot of people on here will take you through cooking these, as I think, MrBE has said.

    Can you post a budget and a could eat if I knew how meal plan??
  • CRANKY40
    CRANKY40 Posts: 5,886 Forumite
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    You probably need a student cookbook. We still use the one that dh had as a mature student at the age of 32, when he realised that his options were cook or starve.

    Most recipes are simple and aimed at serving one, or two portions at the most.

    Incidentally, if you switched your evening sandwich to bread with cheese and tomato, it would probably be a bit better for you, not to mention a change. Tins of veg soup - quick and easy and fairly cheap, no need to give up your bread and again, most food groups covered in one meal.

    I'm not making fun of you, I've been where you are (not the motorhome bit though), and for a few weeks I didn't even know what I liked to eat as I was so used to making what someone else wanted to eat.

    Take care and good luck.
  • stefejb
    stefejb Posts: 1,725 Forumite
    Hugs to you Benthosboy

    If you like cooking then pick up a copy of delia's One is Fun - they often turn up in charity shops. you could also cook family sized meals and then freeze the extras for your very own ready meals. That's if you have a freezer - what kind of facilities will you have on your motorhome
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  • sillyvixen
    sillyvixen Posts: 3,641 Forumite
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    i echo what cranky40 says about student cookbooks i still use the ones i have from my student days, cheap, i would not be without them for the cheap, quick, easy meal ideas they offer. look after youself and make sure you eat well (you will need to keep healthy if you wish to keep scuba diving)
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  • squeaky
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    As for books, a browse here can help you pick something that has lready been recommended by members:-

    The Complete Old Style Book Collection
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  • Benthosboy wrote: »
    Are there any books about that deal with people in my situation? (Probably called "The Billy-no-mates cookbook", written by Mr Sad and Lonely :D )

    Yes. And you were pretty close with the title. It's the "Cooking for Blokes" trilogy: Cooking for Blokes, Foreign Cooking for Blokes, and Flash Cooking for Blokes. They assume you know next to nothing (The first book has 3 recipes for cheese on toast), tell you everything you need to know and have a sense of humour.

    And they are damned good recipes, too. Some recipes leads to another: for example, the basic tomato sauce recipe can be used on pasta or a pizza. Add minced meat and you have Bolognese sauce. Add chilli powder and red kidney beans to this and you've got Chilli con Carne.

    I got mine ages ago in those discount book shops.
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  • ceridwen
    ceridwen Posts: 11,547 Forumite
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    Also echoing other posters comments about student cookbooks - ideal for someone in your circumstances. Cas Clarke is my favourite cookbook writer and I find all her recipes easy and interesting.

    Also try looking up website of another writer (Fiona Beckett) - as she has useful info (including recipes) on there. Its at

    www.beyondbakedbeans.com


    Take care - and some nice long walks with those dogs of yours.
  • ceridwen
    ceridwen Posts: 11,547 Forumite
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    I've been googling. Try these:

    www.studentcook.co.uk

    www.studentguru.co.uk/studentsurvival/student-cooking

    www.videojug.com/tag/student-cooking

    (I've just viewed a sample recipe from videojug to see if they say literally every single step - as so many recipes assume knowledge a lot of people dont have - the one I viewed was the chicken curry one and the only point I would have changed is that I would have mentioned the necessity to peel the onion before chopping it. Yep - I was that person - needed it spelled out literally step-by-step.)
  • Hi Martyn

    Sorry to be reading your OP and the reasons why you are having to cook for yourself.

    Get yourself a slow cooker from Argos for less than a tenner, its quite small and will fit fine in your motorhome then you can pop a whole meal in before you leave for work in the morning to be ready for the evening, even good old Scottish mince and tatties ;)

    Speak to you later and take care xx
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