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refunded buyer but sent back a copied item where do I stand?
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plattinum
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I sold a bottle of perfume on ebay a couple of weeks ago which was a Christmas gift. I 'v got loads of perfume on the go at the moment so thought I'd list it and try to raise some cash for the phone bill. It was unopened and sealed. The buyer contacted me on receipt of the parcel stating the item I had sold her was not genuine. I told her to send it back and I would give her a full refund. She asked would I give the refund before she sent it back as she had been scammed before so I agreed. The parcel was sent back a week ago by recorded delivery, but I was unable to pick it up untill yesterday. When I arrived home I opened it up and found that this was not the same item I sent her. She has switched my item with a copy. I could tell straight away by the printing on the box. I know exactly what I want to say to this woman, but just wondering where I stand, as I think she may try and claim the postage costs back as well! I dont ebay very often so not very familiar with their policys.
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I would be contacting the police !
She is either a scammer who has done this before or she has been scammed and though she would just get revenge by doing it back.
have a look through her previous buys and see what else she has been buying (or post it here and one of us will go through it all) she prob has done this before.
Just hold fire for a bit before you contact her
mishkaBow Ties ARE cool :cool:"Just because you are offended, doesnt mean you are right" Ricky Gervais0 -
plattinum wrote:...refunded buyer but sent back a copied item where do I stand?... I opened it up and found that this was not the same item I sent her. She has switched my item with a copy. I could tell straight away by the printing on the box. I know exactly what I want to say to this woman, but just wondering where I stand, as I think she may try and claim the postage costs back as well!
You are a victim of the "Buy, Switch and Return" scam, and in all likelihood your buyer has done it before to other unsuspecting sellers. Suggest (as mishkanorman mentioned) that you check buyer's recent purchases for other victims and contact them to see if any of them were scammed. If so, ask them to complain to eBay and PayPal (if applicable). Also check buyer's eBay feedback for possible updates from other victims.plattinum wrote:I dont ebay very often so not very familiar with their policys.
eBay doesn't have any policy about this, however it is covered as a criminal offense under Section 2 of the Fraud Act 2006 as Fraud by false representation wherein a person is in breach of this section if they dishonestly make a false representation, and intend, by making the representation to (i) to make a gain for himself or another, or (ii) to cause loss to another or to expose another to a risk of loss. If you were paid by PayPal you should make a print out of the buyer's full details and all emails (with full headers) as evidence.
There are several options open to you beginning with the simplest:
Ask the buyer to return the genuine perfume you sent them. Give them an "opt out" by saying that they may have inadvertently sent you a counterfeit copy. The original you sent her has your "special" marking which are absent on the returned item. On receipt of your genuine perfume you'll return their counterfeit perfume. Ask them to do so within a certain time frame - say three business days and to keep in touch as to progress. However, if your buyer is a scammer and determined to keep the genuine article without paying for it, then they probably won't cooperate or reply.
Fortunately if you have a friend, associate, relative or old school mate in the Police or Security forces, you can often call in a favour and get an immediate result. Ask them to make a phone call to the buyer along the lines of "they have received a fraud complaint against the buyer and when would it be convenient to interview them..." - they'll often agree to a full refund then and there before it become 'official'.
Otherwise you'll have to go through the motions and ring your local Police station to make an appointment to see a CID officer - don’t frustrate yourself by arguing your case with a desk clerk in reception - they are instructed to dismiss all cases of 'counterfeit items' as purely civil matters. (After all fewer 'open' cases or crime reports look better to the bureaucrats in Whitehall.) Try and schedule a quiet time for your first appointment i.e. not a 'court day' when CID staff are busy giving evidence in trials.
The Police Officer that you speak to will hopefully be aware of eBay - almost every UK Police Station now has at least one specialist Officer knowledgeable about online fraud - however it is possible that they won't be available. (They tend to get overworked at certain times of the year, so bear this in mind.) Just in case the officer you speak to isn't up to speed with eBay, bring these contact details with you - they will need them to contact eBay UK.
Email: [URL="mailto:law-enforcement@ebay.com"]law-enforcement@ebay.com[/URL]
Fax: +44 (0) 207 681 2389
http://pages.ebay.co.uk/safetycentre/law_enforcement.html
When you have received a crime number be prepared to relay it to any of the other victims you've contacted. They can add that information to the details they supply to the officer who takes their report. You may not get restitution, but the counterfeiter's details will be recorded and may permit a prosecution (and compensation) at a later date.
Another option you have is the Small Claims Court. Cost starts at around £30 but it's added on to what the buyer will have to pay plus your associated costs of recovery...
Other steps:
I would suggest you contact both eBay and PayPal (if applicable) to warn them that the buyer has returned a counterfeit item, and that you want them to cooperate in any investigation by the perfume trademark owner and Police. (This is designed to get eBay and PayPal into action - they hate dealing with counterfeits since they may be potentially liable.)
Lastly contact the UK agent of the perfume brand and notify them that you received a counterfeit copy of their brand. Ask if they would be interested in investigating further - you might potentially be able to claim a reward if they make an arrest or prosecution. Some well known trademark holders are very aggressive in stamping out counterfeits and will be more than happy to chase down your buyer (and possibly associates) and bringing them to court...
Hope this helps :-)"Money is truthful. If a person speaks of their honour, make sure they pay in cash."0 -
I've just come across this thread - and thanks Digerati for sucha comprehensive and clear reply. This hasn't happened to me, but if it did - least I'd have an idea of what to do. You're a star!
Good luck to the OP too"A simple life freely chosen is a source of strength. Do not be pursuaded into buying what you do not need or cannot afford." Quaker Faith & Practice 1.02.410 -
Never ever refund before receiving the item back.
The other point which is a slight aside, never get into a slanging match with a buyer about damaged goods always ask them to return the item and you will either replace or refund. That at least gives you the chance to inspect and decide on the validity of the claim.
I have had items switched and a few deliberately damaged (one an electrical item was immersed in water).0 -
I've had this happen to me before, but it was a one off scam by the buyer I think. I sold them a working PS2 game with not a scratch on it and the disc was purple on the back. They claimed the game didn't work and because I knew it did I accepted a return and they sent back a disc with a silver backing that was scratched to !!!!!!y and obviously didn't work
I argued with the buyer and they sent back horrid emails to me accusing me of conning them! As I didn't have a picture of the back of the disc I didn't think I had a leg to stand on so I refunded and accepted the loss (£20 odd) and learnt my lesson.
I now take detailed photos, and take note of serial numbers etc to reduce the risk of being conned again.0 -
I remember reading somewhere about sellers marking their items with UV pens to stop this happening.
It should put these types of scammers off if you mention that in your item description. Might be worth doing this in the future0 -
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I remember reading somewhere about sellers marking their items with UV pens to stop this happening.
It should put these types of scammers off if you mention that in your item description. Might be worth doing this in the future
I always do this, although I don't always mention it in my listings. I've had three people tell me that their item arrived damaged: I said send it back and as soon as I've ascertained it's the same item as I sent out by looking for my secret mark, I'll refund. Strangely, I never heard from them again.0 -
Thanks for the all replys. Sorry to hear others have had this problem. It is so annoying, I was fuming, it is hard to believe the cheek of some people,especially when you are so honest yourself. Special thanks to digerati for taking the time and going in to so much detail, hopefully now I will be able to sort her out! and others that have the same misfortune will benefit from this info too.0
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Thanks for the information digerati, I've nominated you for post of the month, hope you don't mind.0
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