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gift's for groom,bridesmaids etc..

ive still got presents to buy for:
my h2b
mum
bridesmaids
bestman
and usher's
well everyone :rotfl:
but dont know what to get them

what did you all get?

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  • Sammy85_2
    Sammy85_2 Posts: 1,741 Forumite
    Here's a general idea of what im doing:

    H2B - Im getting him a set of cufflinks . Im also sending him a mini poem on the morning of the wedding, not soppy, more funny, something to make him laugh!

    Mums - Big bouquet of flowers with cute poem, seen several online that almost brought a tear to my eye reading them!

    Dads - my dad is getting Father of Bride Socks! H2B is sorting his dad out, so i dont know what he has planned there.

    Bridesmaids - Matching necklace/earings

    Bestman - my H2B is dealing with this, but i have a feeling it'll be a personalised pint glass or something along those lines.

    Ushers - All the guys are getting matching cufflinks.

    Guests - At the moment im doing seed bags/paper but that might change yet, depending on what i find!
    :jProud mummy to a beautiful baby girl born 22/12/11 :j
  • rene2b
    rene2b Posts: 827 Forumite
    Sammy85 wrote: »
    Here's a general idea of what im doing:

    H2B - Im getting him a set of cufflinks . Im also sending him a mini poem on the morning of the wedding, not soppy, more funny, something to make him laugh!he's getting them with his suit

    Mums - Big bouquet of flowers with cute poem, seen several online that almost brought a tear to my eye reading them! she's allergic

    Dads - my dad is getting Father of Bride Socks! H2B is sorting his dad out, so i dont know what he has planned there. he's not going to b there

    Bridesmaids - Matching necklace/earings MMmm

    Bestman - my H2B is dealing with this, but i have a feeling it'll be a personalised pint glass or something along those lines.

    Ushers - All the guys are getting matching cufflinks. same getting them with there suits

    Guests - At the moment im doing seed bags/paper but that might change yet, depending on what i find!
    ive got the cancer favours which came yesterday :D

    i think ill gave them voucher haha
  • Saint_Chris
    Saint_Chris Posts: 3,876 Forumite
    ive still got presents to buy for:
    my h2b
    mum
    bridesmaids
    bestman
    and usher's
    well everyone :rotfl:
    but dont know what to get them

    daughter got

    h2b, a cheap flight to dublin overnight

    mum - a photo of me and her when she was a baby

    bridesmaids - she bought all of their stuff, dress, shoes, underward and jewellery. so they had got that, but on the day, she got a big bag and put loads of stuff in from home and bargain, both girls were made up.

    bestman, they got him, a flight to dublin, with ryanair (cheap) paid for a hotel and gave 50 euros spend

    ushers, got bottle of spirits
    everyone else got nothing.

    you do what you can afford.................xxx
  • my h2b (I am struggling with this one too, but am working on it!)
    mum (getting my mom this http://www.buyagift.co.uk/Product/Id/4162/Name/Afternoon_Tea_for_Two_at_The_Mount_Somerset his mom probably flowers)
    bridesmaids (got my flower girl this http://www.threelittlebears.co.uk/me-to-you---bridesmaid-plush--frame-gift-set-2372-p.asp and this for the adult bms http://www.buyagift.co.uk/Product/Id/3924/edit/1/blind/1)
    bestman (leaving him to my other half!)
    :TMSE B2B 4th June 2010! :T
  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    This is what my lot are having...
    rene2b wrote: »
    my h2b - Sterling silver guitar pick engraved with our wedding date
    mum - Only OH's mum, so flowers
    bridesmaid - jewellery for the day
    bestman - pewter tankard
    and usher's - haven't got any
  • pretzelnut
    pretzelnut Posts: 4,301 Forumite
    my h2b - your the best gift he will ever get
    mum - she loves you regardless, how about something handmade like a little box of 20 things my mum taught me Theres a list on google somewhere
    bridesmaids - if you have bought dresses, shoes, hair etc - i dont think they need anything else.
    bestman - make sure its useful, a tankrad is only worth buying if you know he'll use it. What are his hobbies?
    and usher's - again do you really need to buy them anything after paying for their suits.

    Remember none of these people agreed to fill these roles on the chance that they would get a great gift out of it, they do it because its an honour to be asked and because they love you and they want to help.


    :TIs thankful to those who have shared their :T
    :T fortune with those less fortunate :T
    :T than themselves - you know who you are!
    :T
  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    bridesmaids - if you have bought dresses, shoes, hair etc - i dont think they need anything else.
    bestman - make sure its useful, a tankrad is only worth buying if you know he'll use it. What are his hobbies?

    Our bridesmaid will be given the jewellery to complement the dress I bought for her as a memento of the day, regardless of how much I have spent on that dress.

    Our best man will get a tankard as it is something OH wants to give him that he can keep as a memento, same as OH has one from being a best man years ago, and my sons who have one of my late father's 2 tankards each.
    Remember none of these people agreed to fill these roles on the chance that they would get a great gift out of it, they do it because its an honour to be asked and because they love you and they want to help.

    Exactly right - but regardless of any other costs related to their roles, we want to give them both a gift to remind them of their contribution to our special day.
  • Mme.Hibou
    Mme.Hibou Posts: 1,667 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    My husband and I bought each other watches, I also bought him an engraved pocket watch as it went wonderfully with his suit.

    We didn't buy anyone else anything, because they weren't getting married.
    ,___,
    (oVo)
    /)vvv)
    /m m
  • Emma1988
    Emma1988 Posts: 387 Forumite
    my friend got me a really nice simple necklace when i was her chief bridesmaid, meant so much and i wear it all the time!
    Altho i dont think you need to spend alot, the card with a little personal message from them both inside meant just as much, and ive kept that 2!
  • H2B: cufflinks
    BMs: silver charm bracelets (there's 4 of them aged 13 & under)
    step-mum: flowers (she has done loads of dress alterations for me and the BMs)
    DS: I don't know but I want to get him something as he's only 5 and will be jealous of the BM's gifts, lol
    Bestman: not having one
    MIL: hadn't thought of getting her one, should I?
    Dad: ditto
    Cos I don't shine if you don't shine.
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