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"This time next year, Rodney" Hypno's latest instalment

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Ok, so the next instalment begins......

This week marks the second anniversary of my joining MSE. Although we had been working hard at reducing the debt for many years, it was always one step forwards, two steps back, robbing Peter to pay Paul, the "oh well, we're in so much debt, another couple of hundred won't make any difference" attitude, and all of those other things that you all know sooooo well!

So it is only since I joined this site that I have become more focused on reducing that debt "properly" and looking forward to actually, realistically, becoming debt free.

It has been one heck of a journey so far - I have become more honest with myself about things, faced up to realities, embraced new challenges, laughed, cried, and got downright angry along the way. We have reduced the debt to just under £40k, and I am lucky to have a hard working OH who works all the hours he can, in 3 jobs in order to help me on this quest (although his "responsibility" ends at earning the money - he can't cope with the actual practicalities of the finances, so that is left to me).

The potential is that we can clear almost all our remaining debt - about 3/4 of it - by the end of 2009, leaving us just with the mortgage and the secured loan. This is not going to be easy, though, and I need to maintain the momentum that I have gained so far.

In addition to the debtbusting, I obviously have other areas of my life that need attention, that doesn't necessarily mean that they are currently being neglected, but I cannot afford to risk pushing to one side, or in some cases pushing further to one side....

So, I have drawn up a new plan for 2009 - the idea being that rather than having New Year's Resolutions that I am not "ready for" or not committed to fully, which then fall by the wayside after 5 mins/2 days/1 week, I have a list of things that I would like to address and accomplish during the course of the year, with the intention that by the end of 2009 I will be in a much better "place" than the one I have been over the last couple of years.

The headings I have are:
  • Employment and Money-making
  • Financial
  • Family
  • Home and Garden
  • Me
  • Organisation
  • Anything else
So, over the course of however long this phase of my diary lasts, I will introduce some of these aims to my posts so you can see what I am going to aim for.

This site, and particularly this particular forum, has helped me immensely. It is ever evolving, due to the massive changes that are taking place in the economy right now, and we have seen so many people come, go, make changes, make no changes, but I hope that the support I have gleaned from it and the inspiration that I have obtained from it remains for the next stage of my journey.
Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
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  • jenchin66
    jenchin66 Posts: 648 Forumite
    Good luck Hypno.

    Here's to a good 2009
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  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    jenchin66 wrote: »
    Good luck Hypno.

    Here's to a good 2009

    Thank you - here's to a good 2009 indeed!
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • mizmir
    mizmir Posts: 3,710 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Yeah! New hypno diary - really looking forward to it - and happy MSE anniversary! You know what an inspiration you are to so many of us. I'd stick around now for no other reason than not wanting to miss the humungous party there will be when you make that last payment!

    Go girl! :T
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    Oh yes, there will be one fantabulous party in due course.......Egg have already contributed a case of wine for it :rotfl:
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • Good luck with your plan Hypno, you sound very positive about everything! I love your comment about your OH and financial responsibility :)

    I shall (as always) keep up to date with your plan, and as others have said, may well use some pointers myself..... I have a feeling that this year will be 'our year' for a lot of us here!

    Sarah x
    'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde
  • I had to smile when I read your new diary page - it could have been written by me about me and my OH!!!

    I just wanted to wish you all the best for getting DF which you most certianly will be one day soon.

    It really is all about balance - good luck and keep posting :T
    Working Hard to be Debt Free - one day :A soon
    DFW Long Hauler 74; Mortgage overpayments MFiT-2 challenger 100
    Total Nov07 £36000, Sep10 £1623:o:)
  • Lemon_Tree
    Lemon_Tree Posts: 10,202 Forumite
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    hi hypno, happy mse anniversary. Hopefully as i've spotted your diary early on i'll be better able to keep up with it.
    good luck with all the challenges ahead next year
  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,404 Forumite
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    this time next year indeed! here's to it!
    Mortgage OP 2025 £6200/7000
    Mortgage OP 2024 £7700/7000

    Mortgage balance: £36,255

    Money making challenge £0/400

    ”Do what others won’t early in life so you can do what others can’t later in life” (stolen from Gally Girl)
  • lucielle
    lucielle Posts: 11,505 Forumite
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    That is such a positive opening to a new diary. If anybody can do it, I know you will.
    L
    Total Debt Dec 07 £59875.83 Overdrafts £2900,New Debt Figure ZERO !!!!!!:j 08/06/2013
    Lucielle's Daring Debt Free Journey
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  • Purpleroses
    Purpleroses Posts: 4,125 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Not that you need it but I just wanna wish you luck! :T
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