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feelion wrote: »

Thank-you everyone for your responses. I have rang this morning, and they believe my statement will be fine.



I have had one of these before. I think I may request another, just to have on hand. Thank-you.



Ah our job centre is renowned for not really helping. They never seem to answer the phones. I think I may switch to paper statements for one account, so I have proof in the future.


Les, I am sorry if you feel you have been misinterpreted. Firstly my thank-you was genuine, I did appreciate the first part of your message. I can be thankful and still be in a position to stand up for myself. Offering guidance is not a license to then patronise someone, expect them to take it just because of the guidance.

You were patronising, but it was only a small matter, but I thought I would still defend myself. You may not have realised it, or intended it, but unfortunately that is how myself, and others read your post. Patronising someone is acting in a superior manner. You offered advice and then chose to attempt to scold me like a child, and then later defend this with the oldest excuse in the book 'pointing out facts'. The advice would have sufficed, not a misinformed life lesson. I can read the time, and know what time folks generally go to bed. Also I had posted here, so I obviously knew how little time I had. My appointment is this afternoon. So although I wasn't expecting a response after 1am, I thought I might be offered some good suggestions this morning to wake up to, and I was.

Thanks everyone again.

feelion wrote: »

Thanks everyone. Meeting went great.

As for the get over it comment. I thanked the individual and defended my position. There are a lot of people who think they are entitled to be rude. Your put up or shut up attitude is disgraceful. I didn’t ask for a life lesson nor to turn it into something.

Again thank you everyone.