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  • Tigerlily31
    Tigerlily31 Posts: 143 Forumite
    Thanks December, twas a hard one today as it was abit of a light bulb moment and showed me how low my self esteem had gone, how dire my taste in men had been ( Oops!!) and how easily I was manipulated and of course how easy it is to get up sh*t street!!!!
    *BSC member 159*
    If you can't get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you'd best teach it to dance.....:D :D
  • SuziQ
    SuziQ Posts: 3,042 Forumite
    Glad it's over Tiger and hope he quickly realises your're not a wrong'un and you can move on.Friday the thirteenth nearly over again!
    Tomorrow is always fresh, with no mistakes in it!
  • Tigerlily31
    Tigerlily31 Posts: 143 Forumite
    Thanks Suzi and you've had a good day. So all good methinks!!!
    *BSC member 159*
    If you can't get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you'd best teach it to dance.....:D :D
  • december
    december Posts: 707 Forumite
    Sounds like it was a very big light bulb moment to be honest Tiger but then again it sounds like you've faced a lot of home truths, which a lot of people don't ever do. That in itself is something to be proud of. Time to pick yourself up, dust yourself down and start again :) (and I'm sure it won't be long until the OR realises you're being open and honest with him :) )

    Have a fab weekend

    December
    BSC support number 158

    weight loss - 52lbs
  • Merry_Gentry
    Merry_Gentry Posts: 3,627 Forumite
    Glad it went ok babes - tis over with now, and into your glorious debt free future you go! :)
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  • Summer1969
    Summer1969 Posts: 372 Forumite
    Was thinking of you! Glad it went ok, you've done so well dealing with it all! xx
    "Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did, except backwards and in high heels"
    BSC Member - No 171 :jAD - 3 July 2009:j


  • Tigerlily31
    Tigerlily31 Posts: 143 Forumite
    Thanks all, it means so much that I have support here:o BF just thinks practically and that I'm debt free now- it's all the emotional stuff and the feelings of being a failure that drags you down. It's great to be able to share it all with people who have'are going through the same thing:D

    OR wants details of my divorce lawyers from 2004... Can I remember their name?? Can I b*ggery!!!! Think I've figured out who it is and now just need to track down ISA details and then hopefully all good.....
    *BSC member 159*
    If you can't get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you'd best teach it to dance.....:D :D
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