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What made you 'pull the trigger'?
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- Specific company actions e.g. they are threatening to make me work at the office most of the week even though I was already working from home most of the time (if I wasn't travelling for projects) for many years before the pandemic - I had bosses who were in other countries for many years whose attitude was that they didn't care where I was sitting as long as I got the projects done.
Having also worked from home, for many years pre Covid ( except when travelling) and also had a boss based in another country who largely did not care what I did/where I was, as long as the job was done.
If I had been told to start commuting to an office, 4 or 5 days a week, that would have been a major motivator to go earlier than I did !
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I wish I could pull the trigger... I've looked after the same set of clients over 18 years(carer) of 22 years total...this year I worked all over Xmas only getting boxing day morning off....my firm is better than most in pay and conditions...Will ask for my figures in 3 years...but more likely to be 5 years...dredge up my business studies from over 30 odd years ago ...to assess wether ican pull the trigger4
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My trigger was pulled at the offer of redundancy, after working for the same company for 27 years ,
i had always looked on enviously when redundancy had came up previously thinking it will never be the right time for me.
so with some faith i took a step towards the unknown ..
it as taken some time to adjust .. but i feel fortunate on most days there is no alarm clock .. and often there is now only one 7 o'clock in my day .. and some times only 1 8 o'clock
i am not sure if this is a positive or negative on actually pulling the trigger . but i have not spent my annual retirement budgeted amount
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Pat38493 that was a really interesting and useful update from you.
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Pat38493 said:
- Just getting bored of the corporate world and the daily lunacies of work interactions. I feel much less motivated to put in 100% at work than I did a few years ago. We were taken over but a company which has a much more centralized approach with an HQ in another country. I'm actually surprised they didn't make me redundant as I am under utilized based on what they are paying me and my historical skillset.You can live in hopeI'm doing a fantastic job at making myself less and less useful every day just in case, and with a recession looming, you never know your luck7 -
Sounds like quiet quitting.What I do not give, you must never take by force.
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Seems a lot of quiet quitting and quiet quitters on here....
I thought I was alone in this until I read this thread..6 -
Ciprico said:Seems a lot of quiet quitting and quiet quitters on here....
I thought I was alone in this until I read this thread..10 -
Ciprico said:Seems a lot of quiet quitting and quiet quitters on here....
I thought I was alone in this until I read this thread..In my current job I am paid more than an equivalent position in our competitor’s firms, a deliberate act by our managing director to retain staff. I work from home, I have compressed my hours into four long days to have a three day weekend plus there’s bonuses that rely on company performance not personal performance, a cost of living payment every month and other monetary rewards that I can get for (from what I can see anyway) just doing the job properly, which I make sure I do and hit my targets.
I don’t kid myself this isn’t a cage, but it is a comfortable gilded one and I’m not rocking the boat until I’m made to. I’m not the same person I was 20 years ago, either physically or mentally, and I have to pace myself a lot more. Going over and above on a consistent daily basis (which in my firm will involve more hours, many more meetings, more travel and more stress) will impact my health.8 -
Cottage_Economy said:Ciprico said:Seems a lot of quiet quitting and quiet quitters on here....
I thought I was alone in this until I read this thread..In my current job I am paid more than an equivalent position in our competitor’s firms, a deliberate act by our managing director to retain staff. I work from home, I have compressed my hours into four long days to have a three day weekend plus there’s bonuses that rely on company performance not personal performance, a cost of living payment every month and other monetary rewards that I can get for (from what I can see anyway) just doing the job properly, which I make sure I do and hit my targets.
I don’t kid myself this isn’t a cage, but it is a comfortable gilded one and I’m not rocking the boat until I’m made to. I’m not the same person I was 20 years ago, either physically or mentally, and I have to pace myself a lot more. Going over and above on a consistent daily basis (which in my firm will involve more hours, many more meetings, more travel and more stress) will impact my health.7
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