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It's getting tough out there. Feeling the pinch?

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  • otb666
    otb666 Posts: 839 Forumite
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    on the soup front I always blitz veg in microwave for 5 mins before putting in slow cooker and always get good results. I leave slow cooker on for an hour and then turn off and cover with tea towels (bit like a hay box?) This is because i am inpatient and like to eat asap.  Loving the tips on here and will be using my beet ends and tops going forward.  As i had fibroid and hysterectomy at least 6 years ago cant comment on cups/tampons etc.  My son is 24 and after uni took a year to find his feet (get a job), he doesnt want to learn to drive tbh I think fair enough with petrol prices and I think we have to remember the children young adults have been through an awful time as we all have.  I am another one who feels if occasional takeaway brings you simple pleasure I will grab it with both hands.
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  • ellenvan
    ellenvan Posts: 227 Forumite
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    We do try to cook from scratch - but soups I sometimes use own brand tin  and then throw in the extra leftover veg- e.g. mushrooms soft peppers pasta etc. Usually makes it into more of a meal than just soup.

    Everyone is going to be watching the pennies next winter - so any additional funds we are salting away for harder times.

    Have won a few small prizes from the competition thread on here recently - have also put these away for presents. Worth a look if you have spare time on your hands.


  • Spendless
    Spendless Posts: 24,653 Forumite
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    otb666 said:
      My son is 24 and after uni took a year to find his feet (get a job), 
    I have concerns with this and my own son (22) who finished Uni last month. He got engaged last year after a 12 month relationship. He has known her and been friends with her since moving to Uni at 18 (house mates). 

    Fiancée graduated last year and has yet to find work and their wedding is booked for next summer. I have no qualms about their relationship but worried they are trying to run before they can walk in terms of having  jobs, somewhere to live, some money behind them. They are currently back in their digs packing and then are moving to fiancées parents next week  whilst they job hunt. Her parents live where everything is in walking distance so fine for hospitality etc type jobs, but nothing without commuting to limited places for graduate work. When they got engaged I'd have suggested to them to find their feet first before booking a wedding, especially since DS was still going to be a student for 1 year of their engagement, but we weren't the set of parents told first and when they visited us with the news just a couple of weeks later dates etc had already been planned.

    The timeline you've given me for yours to find a job is roughly the same I've known my friends sons have when they've graduated between 6-12 months to find something. Add in that DS has never worked for someone ever, he's done some on-line work that gives him a small amount of money and fiancée hasn't worked since her sixth form days other than a few days work very recently. 
  • Bluegreen143
    Bluegreen143 Posts: 3,703 Forumite
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    edited 9 June 2022 at 8:23AM
    When I left uni it was 2010 so the economy was rocky then too. I worked part time (late afternoons) in a call centre for the first year after graduating, and the other half of the time (the mornings) did an (unpaid) charity internship/office volunteer role. It paid off in that they later offered me my first “proper” job when they had a vacancy. I was living with my now-husband, who is five years older and had a full time job, but at the time we weren’t serious enough for him to fully support me.

    At that time, many of my friends worked in bars, shops or call centres for around 1-3 years before they secured a job in the field they’d studied in (in fact, several ended up retraining to do other things - childcare, personal training etc - rather than work in their university field). 

    I don’t know how the job market now compares though, I’m signed up to a few HR industry newsletters (I don’t work in HR but in a closely related field) and apparently there’s a huge shortage of workers in almost all fields 🤷‍♀️ 
    Part time working mum | Married in 2014 | DS born 2015 & DD born 2018

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