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Can't believe our SOA and our debt!!!!!!?

After a awful weekend where the cards say no and having no money at all I decided I needed to sit down and check where or what we are doing so wrong?! The truth has not only reduced me to tears I just can't believe we are in this mess!!!!!!!

We are currently £12,195 in debt!!!!!!!!! I didn't even realised it had got so bad :eek:

What makes it worse is my wonderful hubby works so hard to support us as a family and I deal with all he household expenses- he knows we have debt but don't think he will realise how bad it has got!

Now to start over afresh- can anyone post a link for the SOA form so I can get it up and get some help- I need to address this problem and get our debt shifted, the cards have all been cut up bar one which is upstairs tucked away which I am not going to tell the hubby about unless it really hits the fan and we have no where to turn. I'm better at not using it where as I know if he knows its there he might take it and not for a real emergency!!

Feeling really upset at myself and also that with my husbands wage we are in this mess:(
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  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,946 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts I've been Money Tipped! Name Dropper
    Hi, and welcome :hello:


    The link you need is here :




    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/562271


    just scroll down till you find the link for the calculator.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • robrooo
    robrooo Posts: 72 Forumite
    Here you go: http://www.stoozing.com/calculator/soa.php
    (near the bottom, choose "MSE" for the format)
    Goals: Mortgage Free: Dec 2012 - complete (13y 8m early)
    Save £100K by age 50: (£20k pa Jan/2013-Jan/2018) - progress: Aug 2014: £34k
    Pension: £250k by 2018 - progress: Aug 2014 £180k
    Charitable Giving: 2014 so far: £4000
    Crowd Funding Contributions: 2014 so far: £2630
  • darcey1105
    darcey1105 Posts: 17 Forumite
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Monthly Income Details
    Income from Employment (after tax). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Income from Self Employment (before tax). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4,054.20
    State Pension . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Private Pension / Annuity Payout. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Benefits (Inc. Child Benefit/Tax Credits & Income Support). . . . . . . . . . . 132.00
    Income From Savings & Investments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Gifts From Family / Friends . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Monthly Expense Details

    In Your Home

    Mobile phones . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 108.00
    TV licence. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12.54
    Internet. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64.00
    Home phone. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Cleaning products/Cleaner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Garden maintenance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Household maintenance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Oil . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 75.00
    Electricity . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42.00
    Gas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Water . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30.13
    Council tax . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 129.00
    Overdraft cost. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Bank account fee. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Home insurance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15.67
    Mortgage/Rent . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 800.00
    Plumbing/Boiler cover . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Mortgage life insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Mortgage payment protection . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Life insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16.67
    Food and household shopping . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 300.00
    Drinks for home . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Motoring & Public Transport

    Petrol/Diesel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 420.00
    Parking . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Car tax . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37.50
    Car insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 90.00
    Car maintenance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Rail/Buses/Taxis. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Breakdown cover . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17.87

    Debt Repayments

    Credit card repayments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 611.00
    Hire purchase repayments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Personal loan repayments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Car loan repayments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 202.00

    Savings & Investments

    Pension payments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Buying shares . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Investments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Cash ISAs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Lump sum saving . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Regular saving. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52.00

    Family

    Pet food. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11.00
    School trips. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    School meals. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Pocket money. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Nappies/Baby extras . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Laundry/Dry cleaning. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Children's travel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Baby-sitting. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Childcare/Playgroups. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Pet insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29.00
    Travel insurance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Entertainment

    Satellite/Digital TV. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Family days out . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Cinema/Theatre trips. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Books/Music/Films/Computers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Big days out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Shopping for fun. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Pet costs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Hobbies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    IT/Computing (antivirus, etc) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    DVD rental. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Drinking out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Eating out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Clothes, Health & Beauty

    Complimentary therapies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Optical bills . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Haircuts. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10.00
    Dentistry . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Beauty treatments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Healthcare cash plans . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Dental insurance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Private medical insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Fitness/Sports/Gym. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Work clothes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    New children's clothes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10.00
    New clothes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Education & Courses

    University tuition fees . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    School fees . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Your courses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Big One-Offs

    Funeral expenses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Wedding expenses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Sofa/Kitchen/TV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Birthdays . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25.00
    Winter holiday. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Summer holiday. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Christmas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 62.00

    Odds & Sods

    Newspapers and magazines. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Tax & NI Provisions (self-employed only). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24.00
    Regular charity donations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Meals at work . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Smokes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Coffees/Sandwiches/Snacks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00


    Total monthly income. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4,186.20


    Total monthly expenses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3,194.38
  • darcey1105
    darcey1105 Posts: 17 Forumite
    Mobiles is for 2 mobiles mine is due to end in October
    Christmas is a park christmas savings fund
    Internet is for a bt package of phone, internet and TV
  • darcey1105
    darcey1105 Posts: 17 Forumite
    Debt broken down is
    Vanquis: £86.25 balance £1750
    Very £50.00 balance £1300 0%
    Aqua £60.91 £3150
    Barclays £13.00. Balance £400
    Barclays £20.00 balance £800
    Vanquis £65.04 balance £1250
    Aqua £125.00 balance £2200
    Capital one £20 balance £209
    Capital one 35.00 balance £500
    H and m 30 balance £30
    Lloyds £50 - paid off this month and closing account
  • darcey1105
    darcey1105 Posts: 17 Forumite
    Sorry last post for now!! I included all cleaning stuff etc baby nappies and formula in the weekly shop
  • 19lottie82
    19lottie82 Posts: 6,032 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Food and household shopping . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .300.00
    Drinks for home . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00



    Is this accurate? No un accounted for top up shops?

    Car insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .90.00



    Ouch! Why so high?


    Car maintenance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00



    Nothing? Ever? MOT? Even if it’s under 3 years old, what about tyres?

    Regular saving. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .52.00



    You’re 12k in debt, I’m sorry but you can’t afford this.

    School trips. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    School meals. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Pocket money. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Nappies/Baby extras . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Children's travel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Baby-sitting. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Childcare/Playgroups. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00



    You talk about “your family”……. So I presume you have kids? None of the above costs, ever?


    Satellite/Digital TV. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Family days out . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Cinema/Theatre trips. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Books/Music/Films/Computers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Big days out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Shopping for fun. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Pet costs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Hobbies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    IT/Computing (antivirus, etc) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    DVD rental. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Drinking out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Eating out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00



    Nothing, EVER? Really?

    Haircuts. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10.00



    For how many people? Seems low.


    Dentistry . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00



    Nothing?


    Work clothes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    New children's clothes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10.00
    New clothes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00



    £10 a month for how many kids? Seems low. And you and your OH never, ever buy new clothes?


    Birthdays . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .25.00



    Is this realistic? That’s only £300 a year for all your kids, family and friends. Great if you stick to this, but do you?


    Meals at work . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00
    Coffees/Sandwiches/Snacks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .0.00



    Your OH, NEVER buys a coffee or sandwich at work? Are you sure?
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,946 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts I've been Money Tipped! Name Dropper
    Had just a quick look, you say your with BT, you will be paying too much, similar packages are available for half what your paying, also petrol cost very high, do you drive for a living by any chance ?
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • darcey1105
    darcey1105 Posts: 17 Forumite
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Monthly Income Details
    Income from Employment (after tax). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Income from Self Employment (before tax). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4,054.20
    State Pension . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Private Pension / Annuity Payout. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Benefits (Inc. Child Benefit/Tax Credits & Income Support). . . . . . . . . . . 132.00
    Income From Savings & Investments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Gifts From Family / Friends . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Monthly Expense Details

    In Your Home

    Mobile phones . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 108.00
    TV licence. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12.54
    Internet. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64.00
    Home phone. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Cleaning products/Cleaner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Garden maintenance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Household maintenance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Oil . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 75.00
    Electricity . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42.00
    Gas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Water . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30.13
    Council tax . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 129.00
    Overdraft cost. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Bank account fee. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Home insurance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15.67
    Mortgage/Rent . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 800.00
    Plumbing/Boiler cover . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Mortgage life insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Mortgage payment protection . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Life insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16.67
    Food and household shopping . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 300.00
    Drinks for home . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Motoring & Public Transport

    Petrol/Diesel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 420.00
    Parking . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Car tax . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37.50
    Car insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 90.00
    Car maintenance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Rail/Buses/Taxis. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Breakdown cover . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17.87

    Debt Repayments

    Credit card repayments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 611.00
    Hire purchase repayments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Personal loan repayments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Car loan repayments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 202.00

    Savings & Investments

    Pension payments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Buying shares . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Investments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Cash ISAs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Lump sum saving . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Regular saving. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52.00

    Family

    Pet food. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11.00
    School trips. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    School meals. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Pocket money. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Nappies/Baby extras . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Laundry/Dry cleaning. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Children's travel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Baby-sitting. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Childcare/Playgroups. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Pet insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29.00
    Travel insurance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Entertainment[/

    Family days out . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50.00
    Cinema/Theatre trips. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Books/Music/Films/Computers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Big days out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Shopping for fun. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Pet costs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10.20 3 annual vaccinations 122.40 per year
    Hobbies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    IT/Computing (antivirus, etc) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    DVD rental. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Drinking out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Eating out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40.00

    Clothes, Health & Beauty

    Complimentary therapies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Optical bills . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Haircuts. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10.00
    Dentistry . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20.00
    Beauty treatments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Healthcare cash plans . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Dental insurance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Private medical insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Fitness/Sports/Gym. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Work clothes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    New children's clothes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10.00
    New clothes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Education & Courses

    University tuition fees . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    School fees . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Your courses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Big One-Offs

    Funeral expenses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Wedding expenses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Sofa/Kitchen/TV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Birthdays . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60.00
    Winter holiday. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Summer holiday. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Christmas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 62.00

    Odds & Sods

    Newspapers and magazines. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Tax & NI Provisions (self-employed only). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24.00
    Regular charity donations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Meals at work . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Smokes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Coffees/Sandwiches/Snacks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .60.00


    Total monthly income. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4,186.20


    Total monthly expenses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .3,394.58

  • darcey1105
    darcey1105 Posts: 17 Forumite
    edited 23 June 2014 at 12:03PM
    Hi sourcrates, yes my husband is a contract floor layer and drives around the country for work so he fills up at least 3 times a month at about £100 a time. Can't really cut this as he needs the fuel to earn the income although I have budgeted about 30 p/w for me for the car but could cut this out, my husbands dads a mechanic so luckily keeps the car running and maintained for us :0) haircuts is for just me I have it cut and coloured every 6-8 weeks for £20 and my son has his done for free whilst I'm there as she says he takes 5 minutes :0)
    We are also luckily as a friend of mine has a little girl 6 months older than my baby so we have all her old clothes- my son is still in shorts from last year as he hadn't really grown! He will need uniform in September when he starts. And i rarely buy clothes - .might increase this buy £15 just incase for me and hubby but we don't really buy clothes.
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