I'm going to try....

Falze

Pimms maybe ?

jedi82

Hi Falze, my DH are almost in the same position as yourselves just need to get the money for BR. I just wanted to say good luck to you both for tomorrow.
Jx

IF

Falze, All the best for tomorrow and smart casual is fine. You do make me smile, classing going to court as 'a day out together'!!! Poor Mrs F!!;)

Be thinking of you both lol x

ps pimms will do nicely x

stevemarsh1976

Hey Falze

start with a belated happy birthday!

I read some of your stuff and almost see a mirror image, although im a year older i moved at same time as BR and similar situation with the house etc.

My OR today told me I would be best sending a letter to the mortgage company now to speed things along, send it recorded and include the key advising I cant afford to continue with the payments. He also said he would write to them as well.

Good luck tomorrow m8 it will be fine. As for what to wear I went in a suit but I feel comfortable in a suit, lad before me was in jeans and a T shirt. I would suggest what ever you feel comfortable in.

Falze

stevemarsh1976 wrote: »

what ever you feel comfortable in.

Mankini it is then.

Thanks for all your comments and support. I'm sure it will be ok.

I'll probabley not be around until Thursday, but i'll update you all then.

Thanks again. Off home now, via Iceland for a cucumber and some yogurts.


Falze.

Falze

Thought i'd just update. Form took longer than i thought to finnish. Just done them and now over tired so not tired anymore.

Quite sad writting reasons for BR. It made us feel like we were idiots for not realising we have been digging deeper for the last 5 years.

Oldest girl said today. When we moved in here you said we would always be here and it was our house. Why are we moving to someone elses house. Broke my heart. What do i say, because we borrowed so much moving here, we were paying more than we earn and i'm an idot for not realising that before we moved. Sorry darling.

Anyway Night Night all

Sunnylooloo

Falze wrote: »

Thought i'd just update. Form took longer than i thought to finnish. Just done them and now over tired so not tired anymore.

Quite sad writting reasons for BR. It made us feel like we were idiots for not realising we have been digging deeper for the last 5 years.

Oldest girl said today. When we moved in here you said we would always be here and it was our house. Why are we moving to someone elses house. Broke my heart. What do i say, because we borrowed so much moving here, we were paying more than we earn and i'm an idot for not realising that before we moved. Sorry darling.

Anyway Night Night all

Big hug!!

and thinking of you! Just think that Pimms is in sight!!

Falze

OK.

yesterday was busy.

Went to court, saw a solicitor, did the oath, paid the money & now awaiting confirmation of BR (that took all of 25 mins). Months of planning preparing etc, for 25 mins.

People at the court were very nice and under the circumstances it couldn't have gone better. Its just the waiting thats the thing. We have our BR number, but we are not allowed to use it until we get confirmation from the judge that we've been accepted.

Bit of shopping (new plates, Toothpaste and the like), spot of lunch and picked up the keys to the new rented house.

Not officially moving until Saturday, but moved the kids beds in (they are sleeping at nans currently) and trying to get their rooms sorted 1st.

House very nice, bar the odd bad paint job, damaged shelf and dog doodoo in the garden.

Thanks for all your support and help.

I wont post on the BR Club May yet, as it is still not official.

Falze

Sunnylooloo wrote: »

Big hug!!

and thinking of you! Just think that Pimms is in sight!!

Thanks you've been a real help Looloo

Sunnylooloo

Ah thanks Falze - I feel all emotional now!!

I am glad it went ok.

Ah things like paint and doggy doos can all be fixed, you will make it in to a lovely home for you and the Mrs and the Little Falzes. It all takes time and I am so glad that you came on here and feel you can share and obv we can help and support you when we can.

It is such a long journey to make but you are getting there. It will still all be a rollarcoster for a time yet - but that is why we are here (o and to discuss Lost - but not openly as Confused not seen it yet)

Just remember we're here.

and again big hug and pop into the inn later and I am sure wishes will crack open the Pimms for us

LL
xx