Don't know what to do

jennihen

Good luck - the most important thing is to get past the blame game and work on the debt together! If you're both pulling in the same direction you'll be able to turn things around and, when the debts are sorted, you can plan future spending together - that's got to be worth looking forward to!!

GeorgeUK

That's good news Les.

Hopefully once you are able to make a few savings you will be able to put up a new SOA that will look a little healthier. I suggest you also keep a spending diary so you can see exactly what you are spending money on and if there is possibly a cheaper alternative.

With a shortfall of over £500, how have you managed to keep up the repayments so far?

Have you tried to get a second job?

stoocake

Congrats on telling her! That's probably the hardest step out the way, but coming clean will make all the difference and you can go at it as a team now!

All the best my friend.

moneybuster

hi dose your partner get a wage, do you get tax credits for the kids ?????

Regards |MB

jodan

Hi,

I'm really pleased your wife is being so good with you. Was in the same boat a few weeks ago and know how bad you must have been feeling. I'm just about to make my 1st payment to cccs and it feels great to be dealing with it all, you'll soon be getting the same buzz. Keep on posting and working on the debt. X