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Hi all, I'm pretty new at posting here .. I've now spent 2 months not being able to pay my credit card monthly payments. As I had a bit of a lifeline with some money from relatives to help me out I decided to offer it between my creditors as a settlement fee. I have now received letters - one from Egg and one from Capital One asking for the following information: payslip, bank statement, benefit information and a completed income/expenditure form before they consider my offer. Has anyone done this before? Is it worth doing or should I just stick with my offer? I have an appointment arranged for November with Citizens Advice to discuss other options to pay off my debts so do you think it would be better to wait until then?

I've never been in debt before and this is all new and pretty frightening for me so it would be great to speak to anyone who has similar experience.

Thanks

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  • Hi luckygreen
    You are definitely in the right place and plenty of wise people will be along to help shortly, just bumping to keep it at the top as I'm not really an expert
    Belle
    Getting there...slowly! :D

    GC : must do better
    NSD: very rare

    No matter how slow I go I am lapping everyone on the couch.
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi lucky:hello:

    not sure about sending the wageslips and bank statements, others will be beter able to advise:o
    you can send them an SOA(income expeniture) and post it on here
    a linky
    http://www.makesenseofcards.com/soacalc.html

    Deffinately go ahead with your CAB appointment

    and don't be frightened anymore you are among friends on here:A
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
  • :beer:
    Thanks Yorkshire Belle and thanks Numpty for the link - I'll post SOA later. I'm trying so hard and now just trying to resign myself to the fact that I'm going to be in debt for a long time now but it's great to be able to speak to people in similar situations and to know that I'm not alone.:T
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    No worries lucky
    Its better to get all the debt out in the open, and a relief aswell
    when you post your SOA you will have somewhere to start from
    A new door has opened for you
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
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