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What a sad world when we are considered old at 47! Plenty of years left in him yet and his experience should be shining through, unless of course they are takin the younguns on at a hugely reduced salary...0
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Sorry but I can only be honest and a little harsh. You simply can't carry on like this, so Inge have to change. I don't see how you can study, look after an elderly relative and have two jobs and your partner hasn't worked in years.
He's been job-hunting full-time since his last job ended. He's applied for over 500 jobs since last May and has been getting several interviews a week.
He's also taken over all the household duties (laundry, housework, ironing, cooking, homework supervision...) so I can work more hours whilst he's at home. He even takes my elderly dad to hospital appointments.
I really can't complain in that respect. He's a very good husband and father, and we are very much equal partners in our relationship!0 -
What a sad world when we are considered old at 47! Plenty of years left in him yet and his experience should be shining through, unless of course they are takin the younguns on at a hugely reduced salary...
Sadly, I think that's it. The economy here has not really recovered from the recession in 2008 and companies are looking to hire staff as cheaply as possible. A lawyer friend the other day told us he's having trouble hiring and keeping juniors because they are in such demand right now! And yet nobody wants a well-qualified, experienced, respected 47 year-old0 -
The good news is that my husband seems to be totally on-board with all this!
This morning he had an interview in the city where his mum lives and left at the crack of dawn for the station. He has another one this afternoon in a different city and was planning to eat lunch on the train between the two. Instead of buying a sandwich in the station, he spoke to his mum, who is going to meet him at the station with a homemade packed lunch for them to share0 -
Ok, so I've redone the SOA (in the other version requested), taking into account the suggestions from this thread wherever possible. I've also reduced our food budget to 400 a month. I don't realistically think it's possible to go any lower. I've deducted the monthly tax payment from my husband's income, for simplicity, although it's a monthly DD, rather than PAYE. We live close to a border and my work is based in the other country, where it is taxed at source and therefore a net amount.
Hopefully we can stick to this budget once he finds work and rebuild some savings, because there's nothing we can save up until then. As soon as I finish my sick leave, though, I will take on all the extra hours I can get at my jobs.
One thing I didn't mention in my first post is that we do have an emergency fund of €2K in cash hidden in our home. This will buy food if ever the bank blocks our cards, but also means we can pay for urgent repairs to the car, washing machine etc. or travel to our parents at short notice if something were to happen to them! We haven't had to touch it so far, but it's reassuring to know that it's there if ever we need it...
Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet
Household Information
Number of adults in household........... 5
Number of children in household......... 3
Number of cars owned.................... 2
Monthly Income Details
Monthly income after tax................ 3500
Partners monthly income after tax....... 1300
Benefits................................ 0
Other income............................ 0
Total monthly income.................... 4800
Monthly Expense Details
Mortgage................................ 1950
Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
Rent.................................... 0
Management charge (leasehold property).. 200
Council tax............................. 80
Electricity............................. 220
Gas..................................... 0
Oil..................................... 0
Water rates............................. 100
Telephone (land line)................... 40
Mobile phone............................ 0
TV Licence.............................. 0
Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0
Internet Services....................... 0
Groceries etc. ......................... 400
Clothing................................ 0
Petrol/diesel........................... 60
Road tax................................ 0
Car Insurance........................... 130
Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 20
Car parking............................. 12
Other travel............................ 130
Childcare/nursery....................... 0
Other child related expenses............ 385
Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0
Pet insurance/vet bills................. 20
Buildings insurance..................... 65
Contents insurance...................... 0
Life assurance ......................... 30
Other insurance......................... 145
Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 10
Haircuts................................ 40
Entertainment........................... 0
Holiday................................. 50
Emergency fund.......................... 0
(Unnamed monthly expense)............... 0
Total monthly expenses.................. 4087
Assets
Cash.................................... 2200
House value (Gross)..................... 500000
Shares and bonds........................ 0
Car(s).................................. 500
Other assets............................ 330000
Total Assets............................ 832700
Secured & HP Debts
Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
Mortgage...................... 370000...(1950).....3.1
Total secured & HP debts...... 370000....-.........-
Unsecured Debts
Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
Personal loan..................30240.....475.......7.5
Credit card 1..................4500......145.......16.7
Credit card 2..................1500......70........15
Overdraft......................12000.....0.........6.4
Total unsecured debts..........48240.....690.......-
Monthly Budget Summary
Total monthly income.................... 4,800
Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 4,087
Available for debt repayments........... 713
Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 690
Amount left after debt repayments....... 23
Personal Balance Sheet Summary
Total assets (things you own)........... 832,700
Total HP & Secured debt................. -370,000
Total Unsecured debt.................... -48,240
Net Assets.............................. 414,460
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Any chance of shifting the credit cards to 0% deals?0
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QueenBeruthiel wrote: »Any chance of shifting the credit cards to 0% deals?0
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OP I think it is a harsh reminder for us all that the grim economic times can hit every family no matter how high their income. You seem very sensible and on board - no suggestions - just to wish you the very best of luck for the future. Your children will hopefully learn a useful lesson from all this - in particular understand the realities of poverty - not saying that they dont now of course.0
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When_the_going_gets_tough wrote: »OP I think it is a harsh reminder for us all that the grim economic times can hit every family no matter how high their income. You seem very sensible and on board - no suggestions - just to wish you the very best of luck for the future. Your children will hopefully learn a useful lesson from all this - in particular understand the realities of poverty - not saying that they dont now of course.
Thank you!0 -
Success! Hubby has agreed to the Airbnb idea and is painting the spare room this afternoon
Meanwhile, I'm busy photographing stuff to e-bay. Baby steps...0
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