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  • I love having traditional birthday parties at home. Poundland sometimes sell small gift bags 10 for a £1 which would be perfect for party bags. Or alternatively you could get some plastic pint glasses and fill them with treats and then wrap them in clear cellophane with some pretty ribbons. One of the games that mine enjoyed most at their last party was pin the donkey.
  • frizz_head
    frizz_head Posts: 7,339 Forumite
    I think there is (amongst the children) a shift towards favouring the traditional 'at home' parties. Last year my daughter wanted a Harry Potter party (she was 7). We had had a whole season of Gym parties, entertainers, discos, from her other friends, so I decided to hold it at home.

    We sent out invitations as Hogwarts acceptance letters, and decorated our house as best we could to resemble Hogwarts using all our Halloween gear. The games all consisted of 'spells and potions' I had researched on the internet, such as getting the kids to mix vinegar (unicorn blood) and baking powder (ground giant bones). Invisible ink messages was simply lemon juice which they used cotton buds to write messsages. I then ironed their pieces of paper to reveal the hidden message. Also each child had a small dish of warm milk, which they then put 2 drops of food colouring in. The secret ingredient was fairy liquid (trolls bogeys), which then made the food colouring 'dance' around the dish. Magic. Well they thought so and that was the main thing. I printed HP wordsearches off the internet, to go in their party bags. My husband made each child a wand from garden canes, and they spent time decorating them with glitter and feathers - all bought really cheaply from Asda.

    The thing I learned, was that although this party was the most time consuming, ie. all the internet research and preperation, it was by far the cheapest £40 (for 8 friends, food, party bags and everything else), and the most enjoyable thing I've ever done. My daughter loved it, and I am starting to think about what we can do this year.

    If anyone wants anymore info, please pm me.

    A great site for party ideas is-:

    http://www.birthdaypartyideas.com
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  • Galtizz
    Galtizz Posts: 1,016 Forumite
    When I was a kid everyone had parties at home for a few friends and I had quite a few different themes. I am trying to remember them and can only think of a few, they were:

    Teddy Bears picnic - I was very young so I can't really remembe this one but I remember we all brought our teddy's and had a picnic on the dinning room floor.

    Back to front party - You wear all your clothes backwards and play the games backwards i.e musical bumps, sit on the floor and bop about then, when the music stops you have to get up fast. We had name badges (just made of card) with our name on written backwards and we spent all day (and most of the rest of the week) calling each other by our backwards names i.e. Zzitlag :D (OK, my name doesn't work very well at all).

    Pirate party - Come dressed as a pirate, or my little relative was dressed as a parrot, draw a treasure map of the garden and hunt the treasure, play pin the hook on Captin hook (instead of the tail on the donkey)

    Barbeque party - My birthday is in Autumn so it was freezing but we put a cover over the BBQ so it didn't go out in the rain and ate everything inside.

    I think anything that is a bit different will be fun for kids. We didn't have McDonalds parties to compare but I loved these parties I had and remember them fondly.

    Elven Princess - Have you thought about a cake? I had a princess cake once and it was really easy to make. Bake a sponge cake in a pudding bowl. Get one of your daughters Sindy/ Barbie/ Brats dolls and pull her legs off :eek: Put the cake flat side down, make a small hole in the top and shove Sindy/ Barbie/ Brat in. Ice the cake and decorate it with icing, silver balls ect. If you use an icing bag you can pipe the top of the dress onto the doll too. Hey presto you have a beautiful princess cake!
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  • Daisy
    Daisy Posts: 156 Forumite
    I know this is an old thread but I found a webpage with lots of ideas for Harry Potter Parties which might be of use to someone. It's been set up for the launch of the next book. It includes recipes, decoration ideas, costumes etc..

    http://www.potterparties.com/index.php?mode=howto
  • foreverskint
    foreverskint Posts: 1,009 Forumite
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    Just to add to this old thread regarding party bags for girls.

    If you go ionto e-bay and into wholesale joblots and type in hair accessories, you can get some really cheap bargains. I recently bought 50 carded items of hair and jewelery items which in toal cost me Just over £5.00 including postage. Use what you need for the party bags, save the rest for presents for other party invites or sell at car boot for 50p each. I currently do this and regulrly sell a £5.00 worth of those per bootsale. By the way they were all ex claires accerssories and george items most pirced originally at £2-£3 each.
  • bad_mum
    bad_mum Posts: 31 Forumite
    jockettuk wrote:
    whos idea was it to start the party bag thing. when i was younger you went to partys and ate food had fun and went home with a piece of birthday cake and you was happy..

    My friend has never had party bags as she plays party games and says that she would rather buy her daughter another present than spend money on party bags that the kids will probably not like or be bothered with once they get home.


    At last some sense on the party front!

    Why oh why do we parents feel we have to provide a party for our children every year? and why does it have to be all singing all dancing. Birthdays should be a token thing not 'lets see how much money we can spend on a present'. Parents now all feel obligated to buy into this idea. (Did it originaliy come from America?)

    We have a lovely tea (sandwhiches with the crusts off!!) cakes and crisps etc - good way to lay this out is on a tablecloth in the living room (they love having an indoor picnic!) and some lemonade! (this is a treat as I don't buy fizzy drinks on a weekly basis)
    - a bit Enid Blyton I suppose, except without the ginger beer!

    For party bag gifts one of my friends made large home made cookies on sticks and iced the name of each child on to each 'lolly' the children loved that!

    Hope this helps the original post!! You really don't have to spend lots as children like you to just spend time and play games. :j
  • misty
    misty Posts: 1,042 Forumite
    I have to say my son and his friends love party bags - even though they are full of cheap tat. I buy stuff from poundland - 10 football whistles, 10 gel pens and yoyos etc. Only the other day he was playing with something he got from a party bag last year! He does like things with his name on too but that might be because his name is fairly uncommon and so we can't buy keyrings etc with it on.
  • DSmiffy
    DSmiffy Posts: 791 Forumite
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    Wilkinsons have lots of stationary stuff pencil case sets with pencils, rubbers, rulers etc at 75% off at the moment... we got some the other day to put away for stocking fillers cost about 35p, but lots of pencils and stuff in it.. you can always split them.
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