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The recession, benefits, the safety net, and the learning curve

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  • Phirefly
    Phirefly Posts: 1,605 Forumite
    Aww that's so sweet, thank you. :)

    I'd love to do it too, but I seem to lack the right idea and capital.

    I guess I just want a well paid job and to start cracking on with life again,

    I know that feeling - I should be practising what I preach but that regular steady income is addictive.

    I think you probably do have an idea. There's probably something you think you could make a go of but it just seems too much of a pipe dream and you've always been too busy working hard and paying off the mortgage to take the plunge.

    Well what do you know, the mortgage is paid off and you've now got time on your hands. You've got the internet and intelligence. Honestly, being a wage slave is no utopia, directly generating an income out of your own talent is priceless.

    Everyone on here seems to be unanimous in their appreciation of your articulate turn of phrase. Time to make it pay.
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Then hurrah for you all, you sexy things! :T

    Consider yourselves Max's Angels. :kisses:

    You just shot to the top of The List!

    Paul smith DOES also ''make'' perfume, and to be fair its not too bad. I know because I sometimes wear Space NK Woman...or used to when I worked, and someone asked me what it was and I just said ''woman'' and got the Paul smith version as a gift.
  • mvengemvenge
    mvengemvenge Posts: 599 Forumite
    My feeling is that they ought to try and be a bit more selective. I'm sure there are those that need more help, but surely when they have a guy who pitches up at the sign in once a fortnight with a list of recently applied for jobs and had a couple of "almost" interviews they ought to be able to take a view that actually he doesn't need/deserve "detention, he's doing the best he can.

    It'd also have the benefit of freeing up more time for those who need it.

    Or is that a little too much like common sense? :confused:

    Whilst i agree with you in lots of ways, let me explain the dilemma...

    Jobseekers Allowance (brought in by the Tories, carried-on by Labour) has procedures built-in to it to do more checks on people in terms of their efforts to find work. I recently interviewed someone who blatantly didn't want a full-time job, wanted to carry-on doing his part-time university course, but still receive an allowance for job seeking. In his forties, spent his whole adult life in further education, never worked, lived with mum and dad.

    Now, on the conversation screen, staff had written every two weeks..."Excellent jobsearch", because he'd written several jobs he'd 'applied for' in the last fortnight. Yet he knew, and I knew, that he didn't want a job.

    What do we do in today's society? Do we go back to Unemployment Benefit, where you just got money because you didn't have a job, and were left to your own devices, or do we apply more rigorous rules, to check taxpayers aren't just paying people to sit at home watching daytime TV?

    Both political parties want to do the latter, and judging by the usual discussions we get on here, so do most MSE'ers. Unfortunately, you are now in the eye of the storm of this debate, because the rules and procedures have to apply to everyone, genuine or not, to check they are fulfilling the rules for claiming the benefit.

    Staff will become aware that you are genuine, but they still have to apply the rules to everyone, unfortunately.
    Fokking Fokk!
  • fc123
    fc123 Posts: 6,573 Forumite
    Phirefly wrote: »
    I'm of the same mind to some degree, which might be surprising since I spend all day making art for clothes. I'm almost entirely comercially minded though. Pushing the creative envelope doesn't often = paying the bills.

    Its all subjective, obviously, but the pieces in that blog look no different to what was being churned out by the fashion students at my art foundation final show 10 years ago.

    PN I'm struggling to envisage the circumstances surrounding your evening of dress-wearing binge drinking...

    *edit* ahh... thanks Viva - a wedding. The mental images have a context now. You're clearly more up on Pastures' social diary than I. I really should join her website...


    I posted up Susie Bubbles site only as an example because it doesn't matter if it's badly written or the content isn't liked.
    Her Blog is just a reflection of herself, tastes and interests that she posts up.
    Then others that share her interests or taste etc read it and it grew from there. I have no idea of her income from the site. Her About Me is a nice read..well I liked it.

    Just that she started it from just a hobby...

    Student work looked like that 26 years ago too..may have been guilty myself.;)

    Max's Big Jobseeking Adventure could attract a following (with right keywords like job seeking and recession)...you could even end up with ads from Adecco or even The Job Centre..as they try to 'get in with the Blog world'. Thta's PN's speshiality.
  • fc123
    fc123 Posts: 6,573 Forumite
    Aww that's so sweet, thank you. :)

    I'd love to do it too, but I seem to lack the right idea and capital.

    I guess I just want a well paid job and to start cracking on with life again, at the moment I feel like I'm just tearing pages out of life's diary and screwing them up and throwing them away...

    Sometimes you can start out with zero capital...an idea can be enough...and a client or 2.

    It's a rollercoaster...just come off another of mine....alive.


    I never like to state earnings but in 23 years we have had about 5 bad ones. The good ones are so amazing that they compensate for the bad ones...that can be horrendous....on every level.

    Overall, we may have earnt more than we would have done employed PAYE within our sectors...but have had masses more freedom of mind.

    I don't like to write it down as it sounds braggy but I have forgotton what it must feel like to have a secure, regular wage land in the account every month.
  • PasturesNew
    PasturesNew Posts: 70,698 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    My friend just told me he's been laid off, in the US. He rents a 1-bed apartment and will now get 6 months' half pay, then absolutely nothing. The thing is, half his pay = his rent. So instantly nothing to live on. Mid-50s, nothing special about his skills/experience, I think it might be the end if he doesn't get something within that 6 months. He was about 4 hours from ending it all when I resurrected him last time. Poor sod.

    What the hell do I do/say? I'm not a good people person, but I DO care.
  • PasturesNew
    PasturesNew Posts: 70,698 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Max has not yet shared with us what he did in his previous life.

    I think it's time he did...
  • fc123
    fc123 Posts: 6,573 Forumite
    My friend just told me he's been laid off, in the US. He rents a 1-bed apartment and will now get 6 months' half pay, then absolutely nothing. The thing is, half his pay = his rent. So instantly nothing to live on. Mid-50s, nothing special about his skills/experience, I think it might be the end if he doesn't get something within that 6 months. He was about 4 hours from ending it all when I resurrected him last time. Poor sod.

    What the hell do I do/say? I'm not a good people person, but I DO care.


    It's a difficult one. Just be sympathetic I guess, as would be hard to advise on a job market that you are unfamiliar with.
  • mvengemvenge
    mvengemvenge Posts: 599 Forumite
    My friend just told me he's been laid off, in the US. He rents a 1-bed apartment and will now get 6 months' half pay, then absolutely nothing. The thing is, half his pay = his rent. So instantly nothing to live on. Mid-50s, nothing special about his skills/experience, I think it might be the end if he doesn't get something within that 6 months. He was about 4 hours from ending it all when I resurrected him last time. Poor sod.

    What the hell do I do/say? I'm not a good people person, but I DO care.

    It's an ongoing debate, which social security system is better, the British one, or the American/Australian one, where benefits are just cut at some point?

    Would we have riots, as some think?
    Fokking Fokk!
  • fc123
    fc123 Posts: 6,573 Forumite
    BTW Has anyone done the extra buttons yet? What happens if I click 'Like It'.
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