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    • Kebby
    • By Kebby 15th Sep 18, 11:29 AM
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    A new bundle creating a new motivation
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    • 15th Sep 18, 11:29 AM
    A new bundle creating a new motivation 15th Sep 18 at 11:29 AM
    Hi everyone,

    Apologies in advance for the long post!

    So I started a diary 2 years ago now, successfully getting our debt down from around 12k to 8k - unfortunately the husband got a new job in sales and earnings took a big hit, but our spending didn't adjust.. the cards racked back up and we're now shamefully worse than we were 2 years ago. Since then my husband has gone back to his old, better earning and more steady job, I've received a payrise and our out goings have changed drastically. We now also have a new bundle of joy who is 6 weeks new - and so I'm now determined more than ever to get us back on the straight and narrow and set a good example for our son.

    I am on maternity leave until February, with very little assistance from my employers, it means that we won't be able to start making a dent in the debt until I go back to work - but my goal until that point whilst I'm still off is to ensure nothing else gets added to the debt at the very least. I'm not completely sure how much money I will be receiving every month due to tax, so that's a little up in the air - but I believe we'll only just be able to cover our bills. But my husband will also being doing overtime to earn us some extra pennies, so hopefully we can use this wisely.

    A bit more background on our spending - we like cars, and therefore we have 2 very expensive PCP payments on cars. Whilst I completely appreciate we spend a silly amount on them, it now is what it is and that won't be changing anytime soon - so I'm determined for this not to stop us from getting our debt under control. We also do have an expensive holiday coming up in May next year, anticipated required spend for this is around 3.5k (probably over estimating but would rather have more and then have some left over), and a small break in Cornwall in December this year, around 350 required for this, so both of these figures need to be factored into our savings before we can touch the debt.

    As you can see - we've made some silly choices, luxury holidays, luxury cars, big mortgage etc etc. But at the end of the day, we are where we are and are looking towards the positive future where we no longer have any credit card debt. A big sticking point for us has always been our 'food' budget, we have notoriously spent a ridiculous amount, so over the last few months I've switched our weekly shop over to Aldi and have been working on weekly meal plans, and we've managed to get this much more under control. Last month having our son caused a bit of a blip in this and we spent a lot again, but will be back on track this month! We already save monthly towards our annual bills, e.g. home insurance, car maintenance/insurance and Christmas, and generally I try to be quite thrifty in using quidco and buying and selling bits on Ebay and Facebook etc.

    So essentially this diary is to help motivate and keep me on track with the things we need to save for and our credit card debt. All credit card debts moved onto 0%, we also have our sofa's on 0%.

    Balances:
    Sofas: 29.86/239
    Credit card 1 - MBNA: 85/8261.30
    Credit card 2 - Virgin: 52.25/4334.40
    Cornwall - 350/350
    May Holiday - 75/3500

    And some much longer term goals (so I have them on record!!)
    - To save up some money to do up an old 1973 mini my husband purchased with some money left to him years ago - once this is done we're keen to rent it out as wedding/especial events car
    - To save money towards a deposit for a second mortgage to be able to do some property development

    Before I pop up our SOW for you all to be shocked at, I have a couple of questions that would be great to get some advice on:

    1. I have a student loan of around the 3.5k mark (pre-2012) - my parents have offered to pay this off for me and for me to pay them back on this to avoid the interest, but what I'm not sure is if not having the interest out weighs any tax benefits I get from the payment coming out of my wages before tax? I currently pay 162 towards this every month.

    2. Should I bother trying to pay our sofa finance off? It will be finished in April next year and payment is only 30 a month on 0%. But presuming that our credit rating will improve/we will be looked upon more favourably if we pay it off early? I suppose if nothing else paying it off early will give us a morale/motivation boost and an extra 30 to put towards our credit cards every month.

    3. I have several credit cards that have no balances and I no longer use, one of them has quite a big limit (over 16k). I'm not sure whether it is better to keep these open and unused to keep my available credit used ratio down, or whether it's better to close them from a credit score stand point?

    4. We have some money that we received from relatives when they passed, some of this has been spent and we now have around 3,700 left - we've been hanging onto it not wanting to spend it in case things went tits up whilst I was on maternity leave, and also because quite honestly I felt a little sad in using it to pay off our debts - but are we being silly, should we just suck it up and pay this off our credit cards??

    Ok so onto the SOW...a few notes in line just to explain a few bits, and to confirm this is based on my income when I go back to work. Also to note I've not included any entertainment/clothing allowance because I really don't know what to allocate to this, it's kind of whatever/whenever at the moment, although I must admit we very rarely buy clothes. Keen to hear what people think would be a good amount to allocate to both of these things?

    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Household Information

    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 1
    Number of cars owned.................... 3] This includes the mini mentioned above

    Monthly Income Details[/b]
    Monthly income after tax................ 2349
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 1924
    Benefits................................ 80.2 - When I go back to work I want all of this to go into a savings account for little one
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 4353.2


    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 983 Fixed rate ends in March, and believe it will go up due to interest rate rise
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 986
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 199
    Electricity............................. 49
    Gas..................................... 40
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 15
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 104 Husbands contract up for renewal in October - will be going to SIMO so this will reduce
    TV Licence.............................. 24
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 55
    Internet Services....................... 35 Again this and TV is up for renewal in October, so looking at what we can do here to reduce, sadly limited in being only able to have Virgin or BT internet
    Groceries etc. ......................... 400 Including nappies, formula, dog/cat food and toiletries.
    Clothing................................ 0
    Petrol/diesel........................... 200 Estimated at this stage, not sure how much Diesel the new car will use when I return to work
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 0
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 150 This includes tax, insurance and servicing, does not include tyres - we will pay for these as they come up
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 15.5 Contact lenses
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 23.11 Includes pet insurance and flea treatment, vaccinations paid as they come up
    Buildings insurance..................... 12 Includes contents
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 10.8 With buba arrived we need to reconsider this as we are massively undercovered.
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 30
    Haircuts................................ 0
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Lottery................................. 18
    Total monthly expenses.................. 3349.41



    Assets

    Cash.................................... 3700
    House value (Gross)..................... 410000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 1200
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 414900



    Secured & HP Debts

    Description....................Debt......Monthly.. .APR
    Mortgage...................... 275822...(983)......1.34<
    Sofas..........................239......(30)...... .0<
    PCP car 2......................0........(608)......0< Not sure on the interest rate or balance
    PCP car 1......................23953....(348)......0 Not sure on the interest rate
    Total secured & HP debts...... 300014....-.........-

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly.. .APR
    MBNA...........................8261.3....85....... .0
    Virgin Money...................4334.4....50........0
    Total unsecured debts..........12595.7...135.......-



    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 4,353.2
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 3,349.41
    Available for debt repayments........... 1,003.79
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 135
    Amount left after debt repayments....... 868.79


    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 414,900
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -300,014
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -12,595.7
    Net Assets.............................. 102,290.3


    Created using the SOA calculator at www.stoozing.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.
    Last edited by Kebby; 29-09-2018 at 6:25 PM.
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    • Honeysucklelou2
    • By Honeysucklelou2 15th Sep 18, 11:42 AM
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    Congratulations on your new arrival. Savour this precious time...

    On a totally different tangent, depending on when you are visiting Cornwall in December, Mousehole is well worth a visit with the Christmas lights around the harbour ( and the story of The Mousehole Cat is a great read for children!)
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    • squirrelgirl
    • By squirrelgirl 15th Sep 18, 3:02 PM
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    First things first....Congratulations!! Being a new mum is scary and tiring but it's the best thing in the world

    As far you're queries are concerned I'm afraid I'm not much help - 1.never had a student loan so know nothing about them; 2.personally, I would ditch the interest free sofa payments and pay the cash (if you have it) but if you have an overdraft or anything that is interest charging, I'd pay it to that. 3.I'd get rid of the credit cards you don't use so that you can reduce the temptation (16k is a scary amount!!) and 4.I would keep the cash you have been given as an emergency fund

    You said that you have done your financial statement on your income when you return to work but there is no budget for childcare costs on there? Not sure if this is the case or if you have omitted it in error so thought I would point it out

    I'm sure you'll do well - babies are expensive and it's so tempting to buy a mountain of stuff for them that you will get very little use from so there are generally bargains to be had on facebook, freecycle etc - unfortunately, as a first time grandparent I have not heeded my own advice on this and spent an absolute fortune on my grandbaby - he really is my one area of total weakness!

    With cooking - try to batch cook where possible it will save time and money in the end - plus you can escape to the kitchen and let the oh look after the baby while you do it!

    Good luck on your journey, I'll be cheering you on!!
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    • Willing2Learn
    • By Willing2Learn 15th Sep 18, 3:58 PM
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    And another post congratulating you on your new bundle of joy!!

    On your SOA, you need to include the money you are spending on your holiday and also for entertainment. You've hinted that you like your luxury spending and this needs to be included. You also need to include the cost of tyres as these are probably a lot if you have luxury cars...

    Sorry if I seem nit-picky It's just if you are looking to address your debt level, then things need to be accurate.
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    • enthusiasticsaver
    • By enthusiasticsaver 15th Sep 18, 4:26 PM
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    Firstly to address your questions. I would not pay off the student loan early. As interest rates go they are at a fairly low rate and you only pay it off if you are earning a certain amount. Depending on what scheme you are on this may be never depending on whether you are going back to work full time or part time. Presumably you have looked into childcare costs as this will make a massive dent in your income when you return to work unless you have some family help?

    If the sofa is on 0% I would let this run its course. You are fairly heavily committed to costs on cars and your mortgage is not small so if you have childcare costs to pay once you go back to work you may want to consider cancelling the holiday if you don't want that debt to increase any further as in many cases it can be almost as much if not more than a mortgage. You get no help until the term after your sons third birthday although there are a few schemes where you can get vouchers from your employer or the tax free childcare costs where you at least get some tax reimbursement (20%). You will not get tax credits on that income.


    What interest rate are you paying on those credit cards? Are they really at 0% and if so when do the deals expire?
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    • Kebby
    • By Kebby 15th Sep 18, 5:14 PM
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    Thanks Honeysuckle - we're heading to Padstow, so I'm not sure where this is in relation but I'll definitely have a look!

    Thank you all for your kind replies. Just to address the childcare a few of you have mentioned, apologies I should have mentioned this in my original post, we are extremely lucky because my husband's mum is a child minder and my parents are required, so childcare will be split between them. I'll be going back to work in February - I have a few weeks annual leave to use so I'll be using this to make myself part time for a couple of months, so essentially getting a full wage still, and then after that will be full time, so in regards to student loan payments these will continue.

    Credit cards are on 0%, can't remember the exact terms for each but we only just switched to them before our son came along so we've got a couple of years at least on them both (I'll dig out the exact dates).

    I think you're right Willing2learn - I actually think a lot of our problems have come from additional costs such as tyres (you're right they will be bloody expensive!), additional vet costs etc etc so I think I need to have a rethink on our budget and allocate for these.

    And in terms of entertainment and holiday expenditure etc, I haven't included these as I was keen to see what we had left to allocate towards all of these - so now I know I'll take a look at where we can put the excess money
    • jackieblack
    • By jackieblack 15th Sep 18, 5:24 PM
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    If you don't have any emergency expenditure before your maternity leave finishes, I would use the inheritance money to pay for the 3.5k holiday, then the money you would have spent on the holiday can be used towards paying off the debt.

    I could then enjoy the holiday (without feeling guilty about spending that amount on a holiday when there is debt to be repaid).
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    • brizzlegirl
    • By brizzlegirl 15th Sep 18, 5:33 PM
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    Hi well done on posting..seem to remember I would have been incapable of doing anything 6 weeks after birth of my first...let alone start to tackle my debts

    I echo the comment on using the inheritance to spend on the holiday. It means that their contribution feels used for something other than debt, but you’re not adding to your debt then whilst you’re on ML.

    Our weakness is groceries too. Check out local greengrocers, butchers and stuff. Go seasonal. Ethnic supermarkets are great for cheap staples. Shifting to Aldi seems a good idea.

    Best of luck x
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    • enthusiasticsaver
    • By enthusiasticsaver 15th Sep 18, 5:40 PM
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    I think I would use savings or inheritance money for the holiday as already having 312k of debt I would feel uncomfortable adding to that. I think you have to ask yourself where most of your money is going as on that soa you have over 800 monthly spare income although I appreciate your husband was on a different income until recently. You need savings pots for those cars and you should add up what you have spent on them this year and divide the amount by 12 to get a monthly spending amount. The holidays also need saving for and whilst you have put the minimum monthlys down for the credit cards they wont be cleared within the deal period so I would definitely be increasing that. Presents, haircuts, personal money etc is variable according to disposable income. Once you have allocated money to clothing (your son will need some at least) and holidays, entertainment, xmas and gifts, car maintenance, emergency savings then personal money depends on what is left over.

    I would forget your credit score and close the cards you have down. If you have a few years until the balances on the cards need moving then concentrate on clearing them in that period and stops you being tempted to spend on them given you are already heavily in debt with the cars. I would also ditch the lottery. The chances of winning are so remote and you are spending 216 a year on that.
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    • Kebby
    • By Kebby 15th Sep 18, 9:29 PM
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    First things first....Congratulations!! Being a new mum is scary and tiring but it's the best thing in the world

    As far you're queries are concerned I'm afraid I'm not much help - 1.never had a student loan so know nothing about them; 2.personally, I would ditch the interest free sofa payments and pay the cash (if you have it) but if you have an overdraft or anything that is interest charging, I'd pay it to that. 3.I'd get rid of the credit cards you don't use so that you can reduce the temptation (16k is a scary amount!!) and 4.I would keep the cash you have been given as an emergency fund

    You said that you have done your financial statement on your income when you return to work but there is no budget for childcare costs on there? Not sure if this is the case or if you have omitted it in error so thought I would point it out

    I'm sure you'll do well - babies are expensive and it's so tempting to buy a mountain of stuff for them that you will get very little use from so there are generally bargains to be had on facebook, freecycle etc - unfortunately, as a first time grandparent I have not heeded my own advice on this and spent an absolute fortune on my grandbaby - he really is my one area of total weakness!

    With cooking - try to batch cook where possible it will save time and money in the end - plus you can escape to the kitchen and let the oh look after the baby while you do it!

    Good luck on your journey, I'll be cheering you on!!
    Originally posted by squirrelgirl
    Ah thank you - very sweet of you!

    I've found Facebay to be a godsend in terms of cheap baby items like you said - didn't realise quite how cheaply you could get things, definitely always my first port of call!

    In terms of batch cooking - normally when I do some sort of pasta dish I make a little more to give us a couple of portions for lunch, but definitely interested in looking at creating some big batches of yummy food, if not just for ease! I'll swing by some of the other boards and see if I can find some recipes.
    • Kebby
    • By Kebby 15th Sep 18, 9:35 PM
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    A few positive things to report from today.

    Realised I get a 'baby bonus' from my private medical insurance (through work), this is 100 - so I've applied for that so should hopefully receive it soon. I'll pop this towards our trip to Cornwall alongside the 125 I already have which has built up in our Natwest Rewards account.

    Went over to the in-laws this evening and they gave us a multi-pack of 4 baby wipes and a jar of Korma, ha. Small wins...every little helps I guess!

    Also successfully managed to persuade other half out of buying the new bloody iPhone (for now!!). He's a nightmare, has the newest iPhone as it is and only got this in January. Things like this are definitely what have caused our problems..
    • Kebby
    • By Kebby 18th Sep 18, 3:17 PM
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    Thank you for all your replies and advice - I think my plan is whilst on maternity leave, any spare cash we do miraculously have - I will put towards the holiday. But keeping inheritance savings as an emergency fund, then when I go back to work we'll look to use this on the holiday and any money saved whilst I was off can go onto the credit cards. Seems a bit of a backwards way to do it I know, but I think it's just a mind thing in wanting the money to go towards something nice and not debts.

    So actually a relatively successful last couple of days.

    Sunday myself and the baba went to something called 'Little pickles market' - it's essentially stalls with people selling second hand baby bits. Managed to pick up 7 x baby grows 2 x trousers and a brand new book all for 8 (including the 1 entrance fee) - bargain! Will absolutely be going back for more bits to kit out the kiddie.

    Monday I did the weekly food shop at Aldi - managed to spend 61, so slightly more than I had hoped but this did include some wine and flowers for my parents for their anniversary, and a few cupboard staples that needed topping up and I don't buy regularly. So I'm relatively happy taking these into consideration. However overall for the month think we're set to go over/probably have already gone over the food budget. Rah. To keep it positive though, it's less than last month. October I am determined that we will stick to the budget.

    So other half's phone contract is due to expire end of October - had a look around for some SIMO deals and we've found one for 17 a month, he currently pays 58 (+ additional every month when he goes over his data!!!), so a saving of 41 minimum per month, and Quidco are also offering 60 cashback which is great.

    Also been speaking to Virgin to see what deal they can do on the TV when our Sky is up next month, they've come back with 71 per month, so that's 19 less than we spend currently a month, but going to chat to Sky and see what they can come up with now too.

    Now going to concentrate on doing a new SOA ensuring absolutely everything is covered, as it was quite a rough one previously - will repost when complete.

    Also to round up the update, the husband has been doing a serious amount of overtime, so depending on what I actually receive payment wise at the end of the month (as I have absolutely no idea what I will be taxed), we could be doing much better than anticipated this month. Also he's been told he's getting a payrise, but yet to hear how much. So hubby is definitely doing well for the team
    • Kebby
    • By Kebby 22nd Sep 18, 5:04 PM
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    So I'm still working on a new SOA as I'm just not happy with the figures. I'm also trying to incorporate an emergency fund saving, does anyone have any thoughts on how much is a good amount to have for an emergency fund? I was thinking around the 1k mark?

    In other good news, signed a new deal with Virgin for 79 per month, although I think before that happens we might have missed the window on cancelling Sky before the payment goes up, and I'm struggling to get hold of them as their website keeps failing and phoning them I keep getting met by a 'we're busier than usual because of the storms' message.

    I also signed up to a survey site and for mystery shopping. In just 2 days I've accumulated nearly 10 in surveys and have 2 mystery shop assignments booked in for Wed earning me 20. I'm giving myself a goal of earning an additional 50 a month by doing these things whilst I'm off and putting it completely towards the debt, starting with the sofas. I know a few people said not to bother on paying it off as it will be done by April, but I feel like it would be a mind over matter thing and not only free up an extra 30 a month but motivate me towards paying the other bits off!

    Oh and I found a 20 cheque we hadn't cashed from some old car tax. So I'll cash that once I receive the baby bonus money, and both will go towards the Cornwall holiday.

    Just looking forward to being paid next week now so we can get moving with things and also to know a little better where I'm at with my maternity pay, as just no idea what I'll be taxed!
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    • GlendaSugarbean
    • By GlendaSugarbean 22nd Sep 18, 5:30 PM
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    500 is a good minimum EF, 1000 is I think the recommended minimum if you own your house. Ideally you should aim for a buffer of 3-6 months expenses but that is a stretch when you are starting out!

    Disclaimer: my EF is currently standing at a whopping 50 quid
    • Kebby
    • By Kebby 25th Sep 18, 3:44 PM
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    500 is a good minimum EF, 1000 is I think the recommended minimum if you own your house. Ideally you should aim for a buffer of 3-6 months expenses but that is a stretch when you are starting out!

    Disclaimer: my EF is currently standing at a whopping 50 quid
    Originally posted by GlendaSugarbean
    Ah thank you - I'm thinking 100 a month to get us started and a bit of a buffer going. When you say 3-6 months expenses do you mean all of your bills? If so, this would take us a VERY long time
    • Kebby
    • By Kebby 25th Sep 18, 3:51 PM
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    So, finally managed to get hold of Sky and cancel our TV - they couldn't get anywhere near close to the deal we've got through Virgin. I did COMPLETELY forget though that my phone is through Sky and I get a 10 discount because we had TV.. pure panic when they told me this, but I spoke to the mobile team and not only did they wave the extra 10, they managed to reduce my tariff down - so now going to be paying 36 per month rather than 42. Most definitely wasn't expecting that one! That means once we change over the other half's plan to a SIMO deal, total bill cuts we've managed to make per month total at 63, not too bad!

    We have a Tesco credit card that we put all of our monthly food, petrol and other spending on - which builds up clubcard points from us. So we had quite a bit of money built up, and so we've used their clubcard boost to triple our vouchers and get us a well earned, baby free, night away in October - also there's enough vouchers left to put towards an evening meal. So definitely looking forward to that, without having to feel guilty about spending any money!

    Aldi shop today - only spent 31, really impressed with myself. This month I don't think the final food and petrol bill is going to be great (yet to tally it all), so I'm really hoping we can improve on this next month, I'm feeling positive after this weeks shop.

    Still waiting for pay day, it's coming round very slowly this month! BUT other half has had an AMAZING month and will be taking home over 2.6k, we're just waiting on my payslip to see the damage from maternity, but he's given us an extra 700 this month, and because our new car payment doesn't come out until end of October (so only 348 to pay on cars this month) we should hopefully be in a better place than anticipated! Fingers crossed the tax man is nice to me!!
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    • Kebby
    • By Kebby 29th Sep 18, 12:49 PM
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    So had a bit of a blow yesterday which I'm a tad upset about. My mother-in-law is a child minder and has always said she'd have our little boy for 'just some pocket money' - so in our eyes that's a small amount every week to buy her some coffees or something. Finally found out yesterday that she wants 225 a month from us (or 180 if a 4 week month) to have him for 2 and a half days a week. My parents will have him (free of charge), the other 2 days. Now don't get me wrong, I am ETERNALLY grateful as I know this is super cheap and just a drop in comparison to what other people pay for childcare. But what I'm upset about is that she didn't mention this before, and it's completely going to throw all of our finances out. Going to have to relook at all the figures, and hope that I get the promotion I've been promised when I return to work, otherwise these debts will take years to pay off.

    Feeling a little disheartened!
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    • By Kebby 29th Sep 18, 6:30 PM
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    On a more positive note, payday arrived - and my maternity wasn't half as bad as it potentially could have been, although still waiting for my payslip to see the official damage to hopefully give us a better idea on what the next few months might hold.

    However I'm extremely annoyed with myself on how much we spent on food and petrol AGAIN this month. Rahhh really need to get better at managing this. We could have had ALOT more spare.
    Husband's hard work on overtime definitely helped us out this month though, and so ignoring the blip with the food and petrol we were able to finish getting the money for our Cornwall holiday and make a (small) start towards our big May holiday. Minimum payments paid all round.

    Slow but steady.
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    • By Kebby 10th Oct 18, 9:40 AM
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    Small update from me..

    Survey balance is sitting at 12.92 - keeping it in there for the minute so it can't accidentally be spent on something else! But will be going towards the sofas, alongside the 20 from my mystery shops when I receive that. Going to keep plugging away with both of these in the hope I can make a bit more so we can pay the sofa finance off sooner rather than later.

    Another successful food shop - 36! Hoping I've cracked it and can stick within budget this month.

    Heading up north to Manchester to see some family this weekend, so will have the added petrol expense and also we're heading out for dinner on the Friday night, so not ideal as think we're going to be super tight this month, to the point of I'm not even sure if we'll have enough to cover all of the bills! completely forgot about the child benefit this month, so that wasn't factored into anything so I've kept that 80 to carry over to next month, so hopefully that might help. This maternity pay stuff isn't great!!

    Slow progress, but my main focus at the moment is just to try and avoid any additional spends on the cards whilst I'm off. This will be a big achievement if we can do it!
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    • By Kebby 22nd Oct 18, 12:17 PM
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    Really frustrated over the last couple of weeks, as things just don't seem to be going our way. Had a letter to say our mortgage is up for renewal shortly - but checking the deals out online the cheapest deal because of the interest rate rises means we'll be paying an extra 80 a month - combined with the unexpected childcare costs, we're going to have very little spare to go towards the credit cards, let alone any extra spending outside of our bills. Our only hope is that the other half's payrise is decent when they finally let him know what it is, and to hope that my promised promotion on return to work comes through too!

    In addition to this, we've been royally screwed over by Virgin Money on our second credit card. I set up a direct debit last month after stupidly missing the payment date (just completely lost track of time and also husband receives the emails so he didn't tell me when they reminded!) so we received one 9 late fee then, but this month I logged in to check our balance and see we had been charged ANOTHER late fee and the direct debit hadn't been paid. I quickly paid to avoid any further fees, and contacted them. They said the direct debit had been set up but it hadn't been recognised because it was after the statement date and that it would be taken this month. I was fuming. But even more fuming when I see a 70 interest charge pop-up on the statement too!!! I can only presume they have revoked our 0% because we missed two payments. I tried contacting them but couldn't get any sense out of them, so hubby is going to call up today to give them what for and try and get it refunded and 0% re-instated. Ideally I want the 9 fee refunded as well as I really don't think that's our fault! But I will settle for the 70 at the moment, because right now our balance is sitting at 4,361 which means we've not even dented our original figure and are worse off than we were before

    Trying to look at a more positive note, I did a KIT day at work this month so should get around 150 pay for that, which is great! Also have 2 more mystery shop assignments totally 33, and then we sold a couple of bits adding up to 19 so both of those will be added to the sofa fund
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