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    • Mylife
    • By Mylife 3rd Jul 18, 9:19 PM
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    Messed up
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    • 3rd Jul 18, 9:19 PM
    Messed up 3rd Jul 18 at 9:19 PM
    I slept with a married man, yes I know it was wrong but what's done is done. I'm now 8wks pregnant and have decided to keep the baby. I did not want to involve the father, but he guessed it was his and eventually I admitted it. I can look /provide tor the baby alone. Financially I'm in a good place. he seems excited, wants accompany me to all my appointments, is suggesting names etc. I have tried to tell him that I do not wish to still be involved with him but he keeps calling, texting asking how I am.He is also offering money but I have said no. I'm thinking of moving and changing my no, but that would mean leaving my well paid job . Any suggestions on how I can deal with this.

    yes I know I was wrong
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    • anna_1977
    • By anna_1977 7th Aug 18, 2:18 PM
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    I appreciate that. I'm trying to get away from the phrase: "urge you to put his name on the certificate"

    This isn't a choice. In fact the father could add his name later if he so chose. Without her consent. (though it may require a court order to do so)

    The sooner control phrases are phased out, the sooner there will be equal rights and responsibilities between parents.
    Originally posted by Comms69
    The phrasing wasn't great I appreciate.

    Roll on equal rights, the inequality between the full time and part time parents is shocking!
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