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I guess I need to have a long think about what to do next.
Originally posted by Newbie1982
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What is there to think about? You can either try to ignore it and know that you have done wrong - and worry about being caught, and then dealing with the consequences. Or you can be honest and tell tax credits that you would like to set the record straight.
Personally, I couldn't live with myself knowing that I had acted fraudulently. I would always be worried about the post, waiting for a letter inviting me for an interview under caution. I'd definitely rather be honest and know that my conscience is clear.
Presumably you want to bring your children up to be honest, decent citizens. You know that you need to sort this out, so for me there is no other option but to own up. Also, if you tell tax credits, there is hopefully less chance of prosecution than if they track you down first.
You won't find posters saying ignore it. Do the right thing and contact tax credits. It won't be easy for you, but at least you won't be worrying yourself sick that someone will inform them.