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    • Dolly Rocker
    • By Dolly Rocker 20th Feb 18, 5:34 PM
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    Dolly Rocker
    Dolly rocks on........
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    • 20th Feb 18, 5:34 PM
    Dolly rocks on........ 20th Feb 18 at 5:34 PM
    Hey my lovely DFW's,

    I'll be back here as a regular poster soon enough I promise, I'm gonna need you all to help me through this rather rubbish time in my life

    Wee update is that the ex husband (first time I've said that) has a new flat, he came to pick some stuff up yesterday when I was out but might be coming for the rest of it tonight.

    17 years together, 7 years married and at 34 years old that is a significant amount of time to have a person in your life then all of a sudden they are just gone.

    I'm still struggling emotionally right now and have made the decision to move back with my Mum, this will work out great as we get on so well anyway.

    No point both us us living alone 5 minutes from each other, we're gonna keep each other company and split the bills so we are both a bit better off financially

    Will be back soon with some new goals.

    Dxxx
    CWP Goal Weight 15lbs/91lbs
    Debt Free Wannabe 3,685.97/6,649.97
    3-6 Month EF, 140/7,000
    9th September 2018 - I have 2 Nationwide Referrals available, PM me if you want 100 to switch accounts
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    • Dolly Rocker
    • By Dolly Rocker 11th Apr 18, 7:05 PM
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    Dolly Rocker
    Sainsburys Credit Card - SBCC

    Dxxx
    CWP Goal Weight 15lbs/91lbs
    Debt Free Wannabe 3,685.97/6,649.97
    3-6 Month EF, 140/7,000
    9th September 2018 - I have 2 Nationwide Referrals available, PM me if you want 100 to switch accounts
    • Dolly Rocker
    • By Dolly Rocker 11th Apr 18, 7:06 PM
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    Dolly Rocker
    Yay so I made some money selling shoes on Ebay and cashing out on One poll.

    Treated myself to some holiday clothes, bought my sister a pumpkin pandora charm and transferred 30.63 over to my bank account.

    Will use that 30.63 to pay of some of my Barclaycard - BC when it clears which should be tomorrow.

    Dxxx
    CWP Goal Weight 15lbs/91lbs
    Debt Free Wannabe 3,685.97/6,649.97
    3-6 Month EF, 140/7,000
    9th September 2018 - I have 2 Nationwide Referrals available, PM me if you want 100 to switch accounts
    • Dolly Rocker
    • By Dolly Rocker 16th Apr 18, 11:26 AM
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    Dolly Rocker
    16.04.2018 To Do List
    Morning lovelies,

    Busy weekend and an expensive one.

    Went to Edinburgh to see Chicago Blues Brothers on Friday, was sooooooo good!

    Later on in the night Mum called to say my niece wasn't too well so taxi to the hospital, stayed there till about 5am while they checked her out, said it was a viral infection.

    Main thing is she was alright!

    My list for today is;

    * Check SBCC balance
    * Scan any receipts from the weekend
    * Find a deal for a meal out on Sunday with the work peeps
    * Surveys

    Dxxx
    CWP Goal Weight 15lbs/91lbs
    Debt Free Wannabe 3,685.97/6,649.97
    3-6 Month EF, 140/7,000
    9th September 2018 - I have 2 Nationwide Referrals available, PM me if you want 100 to switch accounts
    • bytheseas
    • By bytheseas 26th Apr 18, 9:24 AM
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    bytheseas
    I'm glad she's doing ok, that must have been scary.

    Did you manage to find a deal?
    Mortgage: 67,506.30 Student Loans:16,726.59
    Joining Debt (08/04/2018) : 90,283.01 Current Debt: 84,232.89


    Goal: Debt free by 2033
    • beanielou
    • By beanielou 26th Apr 18, 9:52 AM
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    beanielou
    Hope you are plodding on.
    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/03/14.
    **Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** **Weight loss 2 stone 11 lbs **

    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    It starts with you, it starts from now. *** It is ok to be me.***
    ***Keep plodding***
    Out of debt, out of danger. MFW 2018. No 144
    • Dolly Rocker
    • By Dolly Rocker 26th Apr 18, 10:33 AM
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    Dolly Rocker
    She is right as rain now so she is.

    Aw I'm doing alright, just trying to keep myself busy really.

    Had a bad couple of days there with just really missing him & feeling down about it but that is gonna happen from time to time I suppose.

    Just need to let the feelings come & go when they do.

    Feeling better today though so that's a good thing.

    My wardrobe came & is all built, I swear its that big I could live in it!! Finish work at 2pm today so home to get my stuff all organised.

    Dxxx
    CWP Goal Weight 15lbs/91lbs
    Debt Free Wannabe 3,685.97/6,649.97
    3-6 Month EF, 140/7,000
    9th September 2018 - I have 2 Nationwide Referrals available, PM me if you want 100 to switch accounts
    • WannabeFree
    • By WannabeFree 26th Apr 18, 10:49 AM
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    WannabeFree
    Glad you're feeling a bit happier again

    Keep going
    x
    Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the right way.
    • Poor_Single_lady
    • By Poor_Single_lady 9th May 18, 8:07 PM
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    Poor_Single_lady
    How are things Dolly. xx
    2017- 5 credit cards plus loan
    Overdraft And 1 credit card paid off.

    2018 plans - reduce debt
    • Dolly Rocker
    • By Dolly Rocker 21st May 18, 4:06 PM
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    Dolly Rocker
    Hey all,

    Sorry been a bit quiet on here just trying to sort my head out.

    Dxxx
    CWP Goal Weight 15lbs/91lbs
    Debt Free Wannabe 3,685.97/6,649.97
    3-6 Month EF, 140/7,000
    9th September 2018 - I have 2 Nationwide Referrals available, PM me if you want 100 to switch accounts
    • in need of direction
    • By in need of direction 21st May 18, 7:37 PM
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    in need of direction
    hope it's all becoming clearer
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 119,481.83 today 74,121.52, target 65,000 by 31/12/18 Offset fund today 307.27 target 5,500 by 31/12/18
    Emergency fund 860/5.5k & 200/200 cash.
    Weight 8 July 14st 4lb
    determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes.
    Progress not perfection.
    • Poor_Single_lady
    • By Poor_Single_lady 22nd May 18, 6:18 AM
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    Poor_Single_lady
    Awww Dolly. Hope you're not feeling pressured to post.
    Do what you need to do for you. You are loved by Everybody posts or no posts.

    It takes a long time to deal with what you have been put through. Hope you are getting through it but can imagine it's not going to be quick. xxx
    2017- 5 credit cards plus loan
    Overdraft And 1 credit card paid off.

    2018 plans - reduce debt
    • monz
    • By monz 22nd May 18, 9:32 AM
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    monz
    Dolly text me anytime. Sorry been bombarding you with texts about house n ps night out is Friday 1st after payday Dr******. Hope you and your sister can come xxx
    Debt (1/9/14) 6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016)
    house pot for bobs after fees : 33
    car PCP - 948.95/11848.25 mum and dad 1,300/4,000 mortgage - 83,378 o/s currently - paid 934.10 (19.65 overpayment)
    Christmas - 0/500
    • Dolly Rocker
    • By Dolly Rocker 22nd May 18, 9:49 AM
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    Dolly Rocker
    Och don't worry about it monz.

    Just been lurking on here mostly the last wee while.

    Think when I am up to it I am going to just start a new diary full of lists for life, it's time to start making some plans for myself.

    Yay sounds good, will keep you posted.

    Dxxx
    CWP Goal Weight 15lbs/91lbs
    Debt Free Wannabe 3,685.97/6,649.97
    3-6 Month EF, 140/7,000
    9th September 2018 - I have 2 Nationwide Referrals available, PM me if you want 100 to switch accounts
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