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    • shaggydoo
    • By shaggydoo 30th Jan 18, 2:46 PM
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    shaggydoo
    Cutting Down Alcohol Thread
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    • 30th Jan 18, 2:46 PM
    Cutting Down Alcohol Thread 30th Jan 18 at 2:46 PM
    Hi Guys,

    Sadly we lost our thread and I don't personally keep a private record of others AFDs so all data on the old thread is gone.

    I've decided I'm going to bow out for a while as I'm actually pretty busy here in RL. And my life is about to get really hectic as I'm moving home....Also it will be hard to have challenges if data is getting lost. Sorry guys.

    ....It's been great...maybe I'll be back in a few months...

    Ta Ta For Now.

    Shaggyx
    Last edited by shaggydoo; 30-01-2018 at 2:50 PM.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
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    • Honey Bear
    • By Honey Bear 15th May 18, 9:28 AM
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    Honey Bear
    I am finding that I am not really missing drinking at home so far - so far, so good
    Went to the pub last night and had a Heineken 00
    Originally posted by StitchyWitchy
    I think a lot of our drinking is more habit than anything else, and if we can break the habit life becomes much simpler.

    15/31 please, Baileys.
    Keeping it AF
    • Baileysonice
    • By Baileysonice 15th May 18, 10:00 AM
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    Baileysonice
    Well done Lonelyy rat - always harder especially surrounded by family and in a situation you weren't sure of.

    7/15 please for yesterday and hoping to be at 8 for tomorrow. A smiley day too, hurray
    Originally posted by maggiem
    Have an excited dancing bear maggiem and congratulations
    Last edited by Baileysonice; 15-05-2018 at 10:11 AM.
    • Baileysonice
    • By Baileysonice 15th May 18, 10:02 AM
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    Baileysonice
    May 2018


    = Take Off

    = 7 Days

    =14 Days

    =21 Days

    =28 Days
    = May...SORTED

    = Target Achieved

    = Overachiever


    Arkers 9/12

    Barny1979 13/24

    Baileysonice 10/15

    cathybird 14/21

    CuppaTea 11/17

    doingitanyway 14/27

    ElusiveLucy 5/9

    fatrab 18/31

    Freysmum 11/25

    Glenda /25

    Honey Bear 17/31

    Itisme 4/11

    katep23 3/17

    lonelyrat 16/31

    maggiem 8/15

    maman 9/10

    Paspatur 4/20

    pollyanna24 1 /19

    StitchyWitchy 8 /20

    sukeyboo 10/14

    Wanna Bee Free 3/10

    wishus 6/18





    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake
    Last edited by Baileysonice; 18-05-2018 at 10:18 AM.
    • Baileysonice
    • By Baileysonice 15th May 18, 10:06 AM
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    Baileysonice
    Fatrab's



    Fatrab 47/90

    hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    lllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
    Last edited by Baileysonice; 18-05-2018 at 10:17 AM.
    • sukeyboo
    • By sukeyboo 15th May 18, 12:27 PM
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    sukeyboo
    8/14 for today please Baileys
    • maman
    • By maman 15th May 18, 2:10 PM
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    maman
    7/10 for me today please Baileys and I claim my dancing bear.


    I'm sure Golden Oldies will think of this!






    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N8zI5xjwKYw
    • Baileysonice
    • By Baileysonice 15th May 18, 3:32 PM
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    Baileysonice
    7/10 for me today please Baileys and I claim my dancing bear.


    I'm sure Golden Oldies will think of this!






    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N8zI5xjwKYw
    Originally posted by maman

    can't say I do .far too young The bear is all yours
    • Wanna Bee Free
    • By Wanna Bee Free 15th May 18, 8:18 PM
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    Wanna Bee Free
    2/10 for today please Baileys
    Save 12K in 2018 #12 - 2,225/12,000
    Save 12K in 2017 #44 - 7,750/7,500 (103%)
    AFDs May 7/10 2018 33/150
    • StitchyWitchy
    • By StitchyWitchy 15th May 18, 9:20 PM
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    StitchyWitchy
    7/20 for me tonight please Baileys

    Committee meeting at the local pub tonight saw me drinking tap water - alcohol free and frugal!!!
    • cathybird
    • By cathybird 16th May 18, 7:14 AM
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    cathybird
    Morning all, 12/21 for me please.
    No. 15 in Save 12K in 2018. 2,437.63/12,000
    2017: 12,978.51/12K 2016: 20,880.11/15K 2015: 25,464.86/10K
    May AFDs: 19/21. 2018 AFDs: 119/260. 2017: 306/252
    Mortgage 8/2/18: 30,626.56 27,608.93. Paid off: 3,017.63
    • maggiem
    • By maggiem 16th May 18, 7:27 AM
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    maggiem
    8/15 please
    Thanks Baileysonice - ridiculously excited by dancing bear - and it is possible I started to sing too Maman!
    • katep23
    • By katep23 16th May 18, 7:38 AM
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    Hi all, may I join you? OH and I discussed our drinking at the weekend and decided we want to stop for the foreseeable future. First day was yesterday and I am aiming to be AF for the remainder of the month so 17 days (I think!)

    It is such a difference when drinking is mindful and planned. Will have to try and remember this.
    Originally posted by doingitanyway
    This really resonated with me, thank you.
    Last edited by katep23; 16-05-2018 at 7:42 AM.

    • Honey Bear
    • By Honey Bear 16th May 18, 8:27 AM
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    Honey Bear
    I'm sure Golden Oldies will think of this!

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N8zI5xjwKYw
    Originally posted by maman
    I do! I used to find my mother doing secret dancing in the kitchen to this song, and she was a very staid lady so it was especially wonderful to be reminded of her. Thank you so much, Maman!

    Hi all, may I join you? OH and I discussed our drinking at the weekend and decided we want to stop for the foreseeable future. First day was yesterday and I am aiming to be AF for the remainder of the month so 17 days (I think!)
    Originally posted by katep23
    Welcome, Katep! Good luck with it.

    16/31 please, Baileys.
    Keeping it AF
    • doingitanyway
    • By doingitanyway 16th May 18, 8:36 AM
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    doingitanyway
    14/27 please Baileys
    JANUARY 2016/SECURED DEBT=24,822/March 2018=0 DEBT FREE 23/03/18
    MORTGAGE FREE 25/07/16
    • katep23
    • By katep23 16th May 18, 8:37 AM
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    katep23
    Welcome, Katep! Good luck with it.
    Originally posted by Honey Bear
    Thank you.

    I think a lot of our drinking is more habit than anything else, and if we can break the habit life becomes much simpler.
    Originally posted by Honey Bear
    This also struck a chord with me, will read through the thread over time.

    • lonelyrat
    • By lonelyrat 16th May 18, 9:20 AM
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    lonelyrat
    Aww thank you guys for the encouragement. It really does mean a lot... I did get some funny looks and people seemed shocked and aghast when I declined offers for drinks.

    Well done on resisting the best efforts of some who think that everyone should always have a drink - it's a form of bullying to insist that people drink but for some reason it's considered socially acceptable.
    Originally posted by Honey Bear
    I'd never noticed before Sunday how keen others were to get a drink in my hand. It was definitely eye opening...

    Fatrab non alcoholic beer sounds pretty gross! I read a book recently and it was talking about how we basically condition ourselves over time to become accustomed to the taste of alcohol but really if you were to strip back to your first drink you'd need to be forcing it down. I can kind of see where it's coming from... I do think a nice cold glass of white wine would go down well, but that's purely just for the perceived effect it has on me, not the taste! Will not be dabbling with any low/ no alcohol alcoholic drinks. Soda water and orange squash is my tipple now

    I think a lot of our drinking is more habit than anything else, and if we can break the habit life becomes much simpler.
    Originally posted by Honey Bear
    Definitely resonating with me as well... I was so used to a glass (but never really just a glass) of wine after work. Now I've stopped I don't find I miss it or need to replace it with anything. I'm just getting on with my day then sleeping earlier than before.

    Hello katep23 Nice that you and your OH are doing it together. I need to get my OH on board.. He's a heavy drinker at the moment and I'm quite worried about him/ his health. It's the same as with debt busting though, you can't make someone have a lightbulb moment. Just hope he sees sense sooner rather than later!

    16/31
    today for me Looking forward to those cute wee penguins!
    Total Debt: 1125 / 7266.93
    Outstanding Debt: Santander CC 450 - Virgin CC 675
    Weight Loss: 7.1kg/ 38kg
    • wishus
    • By wishus 16th May 18, 9:49 AM
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    wishus
    Hello everyone. On 8/18.

    I'm in a pub today and tomorrow for meetings. Will aim to make one of those alcohol free. Probably tomorrow as they do better tea in that one.
    Gonna get debt free, and live in a house in the countreeee!
    • Baileysonice
    • By Baileysonice 16th May 18, 9:54 AM
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    Baileysonice
    Hi all, may I join you? OH and I discussed our drinking at the weekend and decided we want to stop for the foreseeable future. First day was yesterday and I am aiming to be AF for the remainder of the month so 17 days (I think!)
    Originally posted by katep23
    welcome katiep23 lovely to "meet" you. I have added you to the list so have a quick check its right

    14/27 please Baileys
    Originally posted by doingitanyway
    well done dia cute penguins have arrived just for you xx

    16/31[/COLOR][/B] today for me Looking forward to those cute wee penguins!
    Originally posted by lonelyrat
    They are all yours lonelyrat and congratulations
    • Arkers
    • By Arkers 16th May 18, 10:25 AM
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    Arkers
    Good morning everyone,
    8 please Baileys
    Arkers x
    • maman
    • By maman 16th May 18, 11:19 AM
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    maman
    Welcome, Katep! Good luck with it.
    Originally posted by Honey Bear

    And so say all of us!!


    I agree that it will help you a lot to have your DH on board. When I started cutting back my DH was drinking beer so I wasn't tempted at all. He's back on the wine/spirits now but it really doesn't bother me. He does drink most days but in moderation. Still probably a bit too much but I don't nag him about it. I think me being AF during the week makes him a little uncomfortable but that's his problem!


    8/10 AFDs please Baileys.
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