I was thinking about my bed this morning. We bought top range hypnos single beds just ten months before hubbie died. Side by side and they gave us a better nights sleep. I kept them side by side because I could not bear one on its own and I could not flip or turn any bigger mattress.
I am cosy at night with my cozee home bedding but am thinking that I should change to cotton summer bedding, which does not appeal on a cold night. Brainwave in the night: cotton on one bed and cozee on the other, at least until it is constantly warm at night.

I sleep in his bed but am ok with either bed now
I agree with this
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5691853/Broken-heart-syndrome-does-exist.html
I remember my heart beating so loud, thumping at irregular intervals and stopping me from sleeping. I worked very very hard to lower the inflammations, meditations, hypnosis cds, laying back on my zero gravity chair, veg juices, watching candles. Pottering on the allotment, kneeling and hand weeding day after day in february and march. I don`t know how long it took but I don`t get that loud thumping or the irregularity any more. It didn`t just heal itself, I had to work at it