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    • apple muncher
    • By apple muncher 26th Nov 17, 3:14 PM
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    apple muncher
    NST December: Debt Destruction December
    • #1
    • 26th Nov 17, 3:14 PM
    NST December: Debt Destruction December 26th Nov 17 at 3:14 PM

    Debt Destruction December 2017
    Clear Up, Clean Up and Take Control

    You CAN do it

    2017 is coming to an end - how has this year been for you? December is a perfect time to make plans, to start as you mean to go on and to avoid the traditional failings of January's "resolution" chaos. The year ahead has to be clear in your head, what you want and how you will go about it !!!8211; this ensures you make progress.

    It's time to clear up those niggling feelings of fear and face your debts, get out those envelopes that have been shoved into drawers, clean up the loose ends and call your CC companies and know where you are at and what you owe. Take control of your life.

    It's so important that you do this for yourself and do it now. Christmas is often a very expensive time of year and what better time and place to start pulling things together than with us...we are a group of people who are supporting each other to debt freedom. We call ourselves Turtles !!!8211; find out why here:

    (look at post #2)

    These are the non-negotiable rules to follow:

    1. This Challenge runs from December 1st to December 31st.
    2. You will aim for 15 NSD's. Any spend on any item will class as a spend day. You have 16 days for spending - use them wisely. An NSD will not be spoiled by purchasing yellow sticker products only or medication, fuel or paying for regular children's activities (when planned in advance and the monies put aside in an envelope). This month you will also keep an NSD if you only buy items for the food bank or donate to charity.
    3. You will pay to your debt/savings first. And live off the rest.
    4. You will drop one Christmas outing/party whether with work or people you don't really like. Why waste your money? I am not going to a work do at all!
    5. You will take your lunch to work every single day that you are there. At home? Out and about? You will still plan a !!!8216;packed lunch!!!8217; for yourself. No exceptions. You will not darken the doors of cafeterias, coffee shops, take away emporia!!!8230;
    6. You will not go to any sales in the month of DDD. Unless you have a planned budget and have been saving for a specific item PLEASE do not go to the Boxing Day Sales. It is too much temptation to buy tat you really don!!!8217;t need. STAY AT HOME!!!

    Debt destruction: to destroy your debt (or mortgage), you need a plan. When is your Debt Free Date (DFD)? How much do you need to pay each month to get there? Have you done a Statement of Affairs (SOA)? What are your weaknesses? And strengths? Set your budget for December NOW (see below).

    Exterminate one bad habit from your life for the first 10 days. This is NOT about food. I shall be renouncing a particular game I play on my tablet that just sucks me in and takes hours of my time. There will be other things for later in the month.

    Clear up, clean up and take control. Clear some space in your surroundings by removing 31 items this month !!!8211; to charity, to recyc, to give to others. Clean up your way of talking to yourself !!!8211; clean away the negative talk and be kind and positive to yourself. Let yourself sparkle. Take control of your finances, your time, your habits, and your health.

    Explore your local area !!!8211; get out and walk, go along those footpaths you have never been up before. Going away? Venture out and be observant. Appreciate the landscape.

    Mental health. To continue a recent turtle theme. Do something every day this month that makes you feel good: gym, reading, time with family, favourite tv programme, meditation, building a snowman. NOT spending, of course!! Write down 4 gratitudes each day.

    EVERYTHING before you start the month. (Food, gifts, bills, travel, activities, annual stuff!!!8230;) Get a notebook and write down everything you will be doing in December. (And then use the notebook to record each and every spend for the month.) This budget is to be set in stone !!!8211; you really do not need those Christmas promotions. Is there an expectation that you will travel more, contribute with gifts/food/drink? Can you make something? Batch cook now. Bake some goodies so that you avoid massive tubs of sweets, fancy biscuits in tins and expensive cakes. Cookie dough can be frozen raw and then cooked in a few minutes when required. Batch cooking doesn!!!8217;t have to be 24 meals in one go !!!8211; even doubling up, or ensuring you have leftovers for tomorrow!!!8217;s lunch is a good thing.

    the year you have had: what was good, and what was not so good. What did you do well? What was beyond your control? Now look ahead and plan 5 things to go for in 2018.

    that this is a difficult time for many. Allocate 5 of your food budget to spend on food bank items. Check what they need, get the kids involved, or do it online if that is the only way for you. This is on top of your usual giving this month. Get in the habit of doing good deeds for others.

    I can!!!8217;t say this won!!!8217;t be hard but we are all here to be encouraging and everyone will help you. So please, stop faffing about, take responsibility and give me your name!

    (Please do not re-post the entire thread as it makes it too long.)

    But do post every day.

    This Forum tip was included in's weekly email!
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    NST May #1; NSD 14/19 ; Ex 17/20 ; craft 3/30 (66); remove 31 (402)
    2018 Pay off: 1626; 2
    018 sell

    Mortgage 21,422 (01/14: 78,201; 01/15: 59,629; 01/16: 39,915; 01/17: 27,295; 01/18 23,143) MFWDate Dec 2018
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    • DawnW
    • By DawnW 2nd Dec 17, 7:49 PM
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    Thinking of you and your family, Kerry Woman xx
    NSDs for May: 4 / 19

    • Lauralozzle
    • By Lauralozzle 2nd Dec 17, 8:09 PM
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    Day 2
    NSD 1/15
    Sadly my darling Mummy passed away this morning. Very emotional time for me and my family. My sister, my brother and his wife came down to spend time together and to start to sort things out. They have been very supportive and helpful. We are pulling together.
    Grateful for:
    My wonderful life with my Mummy.
    For my family being here.
    For @rgos agreeing to have something I ordered for my Mum to be picked up and agreeing to give me a refund.
    For the undertakers who were very kind. Someone who my Mum and I know works for them and have asked for him to deal with things.
    For friends being supportive.
    For the support on this thread.
    Originally posted by Kerry Woman
    Im sorry for your loss Kerry Woman xx
    Credit Card 1: 0.00 (0%) | Credit Card 2: 1,951.50 (0%) | Credit Card 3: 764.20 (0%) Car Finance: 7,491 (7.9% APR) | Mortgage: 110,794 (2.79% APR) | Emergency Fund: 69.68/1000 | Honeymoon Fund: 1,042
    • cybertortoise
    • By cybertortoise 2nd Dec 17, 8:52 PM
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    So sorry for your loss Kerry woman. Sending hugs and kind thoughts your way xx

    I just sat and worked out every penny that will be coming in between now and the 28th December and it looks like I have 392. This has to finish my 5 kids presents and pay for food, dog food, nappies etc until the 28th December.

    Today I am grateful for sunshine on cold days, my ex partner helping me out, my daughter's slightly offkey singing which always makes me smile and that our family cold is finally tailing off.

    I'll be doing yoga everyday, and I'm banishing Facebook from my phone as I sit and scroll for ages without even posting anything. Such a time waster.
    Fresh start & LBM #3: 29.08.17 DFD: 28.08.20 Debt at highest: 19383.27 Currently: 16576.07
    1% challenge: 0% Frugal 2018: 0/7500 Decluttering: 0/1095
    • Lauralozzle
    • By Lauralozzle 2nd Dec 17, 9:01 PM
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    Stupid internet. It stopped working mid way through my post and now it!!!8217;s all gone.

    Today has been spendy - got tea bags and stamps. Will go shopping tomorrow too so another spendy day on the cards. I hoping to bag some NSD in the week though.

    I!!!8217;ve cleaned the kitchen - I don!!!8217;t think the OH would have gotten around to it otherwise.

    Today I!!!8217;m grateful for the sunshine as it has not rained today, althoughts it cold. Im also grateful for my hot bath this morning, tasty dinner tonight and the relaxing day I!!!8217;ve had.
    Credit Card 1: 0.00 (0%) | Credit Card 2: 1,951.50 (0%) | Credit Card 3: 764.20 (0%) Car Finance: 7,491 (7.9% APR) | Mortgage: 110,794 (2.79% APR) | Emergency Fund: 69.68/1000 | Honeymoon Fund: 1,042
    • Timetopullmysocksup
    • By Timetopullmysocksup 2nd Dec 17, 9:48 PM
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    Really sorry to hear the sad news of your ma passing Kerry Woman, glad she made it home before passing. Hope you have lovely memories to comfort you in this difficult time.

    #5 checking in on day 2

    Debt Plan
    - my total debt 7,027.19 (OMG) My DFD is Sept 2020 *weeps*
    The plan is to overpay wherever possible even though my budgets are tight in the first place. I have done the snowball calculator so know where I am going which is always a bonus. I NEED NEED NEED an emergency budget so have to wiggle that in too. I have been rounding down my bank into an online penny jar as well as over paying on cc's so just need to step this up a bit. Any extra 'income' (overtime, gifted money,sales etc) will go towards this.

    Exterminate - I have already gave up my awful Polo habit, I'm a chomper. I can't think of anything at the moment but will revisit this after having a think. There must be something. Not coffee though.

    Clear up - spare room needs re configuring, want to get a more workable desk solution in there, we have a bureau but its not really working for my daughter and the tons of homework she has, I have to decide whether to get rid of the bed or the wardrobe to make room. I have a list of stuff that needs to come down from the loft when I get the decorations and tree down, mainly boxes from stuff we no longer have but also for some bits I want to sell.

    Explore - like everyone else love this idea. Will research free exciting places to explore

    Mental Health - I'm ok despite a few hiccups in November, can't stay down for long.

    Budget - I will continue taking 80 a week out in cash and using 10 for mobile top up, 20 for Petrol and 50 for everything else. I have my mot and electricity bill due the end of the month and the money is already to one side for both. I have decided I am not buying anymore gifts now and people will finally have to get it, I need to stand by my guns, I have just put 235 back onto a recently cleared cc and it would be insane to spend anymore money on people, they will just have to understand. I have crossed my name off secret santa too, it's not compulsory although colleagues make you feel like it is.

    Evaluate - I feel like I have made a big step forward this year but I know I need to make a massive leap next year as a dfd of Sept 2020 is not nearly soon enough. I have curbed useless spending since August so I know I can do better with a full year.

    Remember - others have it worse and I can still be generous. Reverse advent, shoebox appeal and a separate food bank donation have already been done. I am now in the process of making up a hamper to donate.

    December Budgets:
    Nsds - 1/17
    Petrol - 20 pw
    Groceries - 50 pw
    Mobile - 10 pw (this comes off monthly bill that I get 20 towards from ma & pa as they are on my plan along with my daughter)
    Last edited by Timetopullmysocksup; 02-12-2017 at 9:52 PM. Reason: .
    • mothernerd
    • By mothernerd 2nd Dec 17, 10:32 PM
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    The Plan part 2

    So Christmas, DS3 and Beloved will be here (only know this as Beloved asked me if I would need any help cooking hte Christmas dinner, I said I would fine). so far we have parsnips for roasting and plenty of frozen veg, some sliced beef. No lamb which is his favourite, no turkey which she might expect but will worry about that later. Christmas is quite a production at her house, lots of presents and food. When they had their early Christmas together I made them stockings but they both looked bemused so not sure what they want/ expect - will have to build some new traditions. Then there is the small matter of mum. Not sure if she has been/ is expecting to be invited to spend the day with one of her partner's grandchildren. Don't want her to be alone so may end up going there for the day (after I've sorted out food for DS3 and Beloved). I usually invite DS2 round for a meal on a mutually convenient day.

    Presents - hae bought a Banksy calendar for DS2. Have had a pact with DS1 and DS2 for some years now - you buy yourself something you want from me and I will buy myself something I want as my present from you (so they pay for the expensive stuff they want and I buy myself something modest but something I want). Already discussed DS3 and Beloved - think I bought them both a pair of trainers (may not have transferred the money yet) and DS3 has had to send the first 2 pairs back. I have socks and undies for him and she chose all the new kitchen stuff with me so we jointly own that.

    I think the daffodils I bought were mum's Christmas present (I bought them when they needed planting) as she only wanted token presents. I did want to get her a little surprise (was looking for something 'reindeer- ish') and I will need to buy her a plant or some flowers. My brother always used to buy her flowers for her birthday, Christmas and Mother's Day and I took it on when he died (but plants last longer).

    I also seem to have 'adopted' yet another waif and stray and have talked myself and the other crafters into making a birthday present, organising a little party on the 13th and making a Christmas stocking full of hm gifts. Will try to settle on an amount for these budgets by tomorrow.

    Probably need a holiday budget too. Again 11 years since I have been anywhere so no idea. Half board at the hotel, the brochure mentioned packed lunches but not counting on it. We get afternoon tea one day. We will be going to York one day and the St Nicholas Festival is on, so I thought maybe I would allow myself a budget of 20 'mad money' and if there are loads of crafty items I like, I will choose something under the 20. I think mum will pay for most of our lunches and I am happy to make do with a Boots meal deal rather than somewhere expensive (I think Harrogate is expensive, I know the housing is). I have 60 in 2 coins in the drawer, I will take that and hope it is enough.

    I have a notebook, have written today's spends in it.

    Will spend some time next week on evaluating the year and planning for 2018.

    Social activities - I still think I am building a social life up rather than cutting back. I ahve done a lot in November, especially in the last week but most of that is as mum's companion/ assistant rather than for me although I have enjoyed most of it (even the pantomime was okay, as long as it's only once a year, more would be torture). I am quite happy to miss the 'after dinner entertainment' on all 4 nights next week if that will do - I want to read, I have a load of sewing/embroidery (now behind schedule because of the Christmas Fair) and if the hotel has access to any tv services I would be very happy to catch up on some of the things I have missed (not watched any tv except on u-tube and at mum's since the new licensing rules came in, in September last year - so if anyone knows when any Dr Who might be showing?)

    Using up what is in the fridge and freezer before I go, have asked Ds3 and Beloved if there is anything they need for next week. Was going to do on-line orders for when we get back but think I will wait, stock check and then plan/ shop. I will also batch cook then and trawl for ys goodies.

    Remember. i have taken 10 packets of biscuits and ten tins/packs from my shelves to the the food bank this week, I put 6 toiletry items in the box when I went to the SM and have added another (I got the wrong item for me) + 3 tins of soup from mum to the box in the library this morning. I have a scarf from mum and another pair of new socks to take over to the homeless place round the corner. So think I have done my reverse advent calendar. I have been dropping odd coins in collection boxes here, there and everywhere. I think I'm always nice but have added smiling more and saying good morning to people. Doing random acts of kindness, informally, as I am frightened of signing up for one of the organised lists in case they want me to start hugging random strangers without introduction and orgaanising street parties. Adopted new waif and considering part-time dog minding - mum seems to have been re-thinking the dog issue in favour of 'minding' friends and relatives dogs for a week or so when they go away.
    Last edited by mothernerd; 02-12-2017 at 10:49 PM.
    This year I will be fierce
    NST May #13 SFD 10/19 Food 129.13/120 Travel 15.20/15 Ent 22.44/30 (+ 20 membership fee)
    No Debt No mortgage
    • mothernerd
    • By mothernerd 2nd Dec 17, 11:45 PM
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    Report for today.

    Today has been spendy, fun in places and tiring at times.
    Slept well, very well, then dozed after pills, bath and breakfast. Took foodbank donation to library, returned one book and renewed another (would not let me renew on-line but staff were able to). Very relieved as I am using part of one design to frame a house warming gift for DS1 and his fiancee and some other small designs for my RAK (random acts of kindness gift exchange for embroiderers) Christmas partner - wanted to make her a folding sewing book with space for pins/ needles, scissors and a pincushion but may need to revise that. She likes cats and luckily I have several cat designs part completed and a back up simple design if I need shortcuts - a black and a white cat curled into a yinyang design.

    Carried on to the Christmas Tree Festival at my old church. I have never been before, it's now in it's third or fourth year and has obviously been building up over that time. There were loads of trees, lots from local schools, some by sections of the church (the choir one had musical notes and little cartoon choristers topped with photos of the real ones) and some by local voluntary and social groups.

    It was 1 entry fee. Today only, there was a Christmas market. I bought a metre of Christmas fabric for 4 to make the stocking I need and then a selection of pieces from a basket, mostly in blue to make covered baskets from some of the cardboard boxes I have. Spent 21.50 (this is why I stay away from material). The fabric was 1/2 to a 1/3 of the price I have seen elsewhere including on-line. The woman was selling up, she had switched to doing B0die Shop at h*me but gave me her phone number as she still has lots more fabric at home and doesn't live far away. Useful as we no longer have anywhere local that sells fabric - we used to have several market stalls and a number of factory shops.

    The largest piece is two metres of bunting shapes with a nautical theme - all red, white and blue, assorted patterns (check/ spots/ stripes) and some 'picture' flags - a life buoy, a lighthouse etc. Picked it because it fit my colour scheme for the baskets but when I saw it unfolded I think I will make it up as bunting and it can be mum's surprise present - her shed and fence panels are blue and she wants to decorate the shed when we have finished painting (I am planning to paint the edging panels she no longer needs white and make mock window boxes with them).

    Spent 4.75 on hm gifts that I don't have to make (a large felt and fabric heart, an enamel brooch, a fabric covered notebook, a block of glycerine soap, a tiny teddy (25p), 3 Christmas cards and a mini selection box - not hm, but supporting the church). Still planning to make a purse, attach a message to a small embroidered angel and perhaps some lavender bags, plus the stocking and the heart shaped cushion which people have signed. There were many lovely things but I was balancing the cost of items versus the amount of time it would take for me to make them.

    Also got a slimming world bag and magazine for free. Meant to go back to the cake stall but forgot.

    Came home, ate, set off the washing machine, short rest, came on here then set off to the sorting office (Christmas hours so open until 5.30pm) to retrieve DS1's parcel. Bought a pasty to eat on the way (kept me warm inside and out). Was tired again by the time I got there (thankfully the parcel was small enough to go in the rucksack, the largest one he's had recently was half the size of a door) so walked back over the bridge and straight on to the main road and caught the first bus back to the bus station.

    Walked through to the shops as there were some items I needed from the emporium, then back here, another post then back out to go to the candlelight carols at mum's church (tickets bought back in September). Took a taxi, arrived at nearly the same time as mum. Jolly evening, mum got to chat with lots of church friends. I could sing because a brass band covers defective voices, pasties and cakes at half time and best of all, two changes to the programme meant that they played David Esssex's 'Winter Tale' and Greg Lake's 'I believe in Father Christmas' - had seen the music when I went to the toilet but had almost given up hope that it would be included.

    Did not win the raffle (mum paid), really wanted the life size Dulocks dog but of the six people sitting in our pew, the 2 women who weren't me and mum both won one of the ten prizes. Bought leftover pasties on the way out for DS3 and then called for a taxi home. Had to share the back of the taxi with mum's walker as it would not fit in the boot.

    Today I am grateful for all that I have got done, for solutions to some present problems, that the holiday is nearly here (and will try very hard to leave any stress behind).

    Do I need to go on the naughty step apple?
    This year I will be fierce
    NST May #13 SFD 10/19 Food 129.13/120 Travel 15.20/15 Ent 22.44/30 (+ 20 membership fee)
    No Debt No mortgage
    • sashanut
    • By sashanut 3rd Dec 17, 12:01 AM
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    No 7 checking in
    Hi all turtles

    Checking in: 2/31

    NSD: 1/15

    Debt destruction: Have no debt now but not so long ago were 93K in debt so I know that I need to make sure I don't go down that slippery slope again...but we are on a fairly fixed income so need to rein the unnecessary spends which have been creeping up..

    Exterminate I need to stop buying stuff, particularly clothes & shoes.

    Clear up, clean up and take control. Deffo need to do this, and am in the throes of it atm. Am starting to panic just a leetle bit as Christmas is getting very close ...and we are away for a week before then.. Have next week to do stuff, then a week away, then back for a week before family get together....need to do lots of planning which is not my strong suit, have to force myself instead of winging it.. will also make a list for DH, which to be fair he is always asking for.

    Clean up your way of talking to yourself clean away the negative talk and be kind and positive to yourself. Will try to do this, and try to take a compliment when it's offered, not something I'm good at! Let yourself sparkle. Take control of your finances, your time, your habits, and your health. Indeed

    Explore your local area Will attempt to explore local area when we go to Ireland, there are lots of opportunities, it's such a beautiful place.

    Mental health. Went out into garden today, planted some bulbs - had a large sack which were sprouting already. Didn't do them all but plan to do more tomorrow.

    Write down 4 gratitudes each day. Grateful for- DH paying me a compliment, for having a garden, for a roof over my head and that our poorly dog is better today (self inflicted)

    Budget Need to do this but not got my head around finances yet, watch this space

    Evaluate the year you have had: The year has been generally good, last year was very bad with bereavement and attendant problems. This year DD achieved her ambition to join the emergency services but it has been tough, not only for her but for us as well. A couple of my relatives have serious illness but are still with us & I will be happy to host them at Christmas. Need to plan 5 things that will happen next year.

    Have made donation to animal charity, a one-off donation to help.

    So sorry for your loss Kerry Woman, it is very hard to lose a parent.
    New start JAN15 - NOT BUYING IT 2015 . Long haul DFW #145 : 2011 DEBTBUSTING : 5500 OD GONE, 2000 OD - GONE 93,610.30 cc & loan debt - GONE 27.6.14 FINALLY DEBT & MORTGAGE FREE
    • Florence J
    • By Florence J 3rd Dec 17, 12:13 AM
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    Florence J
    I'm so sorry for your loss Kerry Woman.

    Yesterday was a NSD.

    Today I was at the Tesco Food Bank collection volunteering, then went to my in-laws to help them bring down their Christmas decorations from the loft.

    As my OH and I walked through town on our way home we reflected on this year and I have decided to class it as a success. I have had some extreme lows, but also some extreme highs. I have achieved more then I first realised.
    Sealed Pot Challenge 11 #553
    1000 Emergency Fund Challenge #253
    Wombling free 2017 = 2195.92
    Pay off all your debts by Xmas 2017 #53 (3168.45/3000)
    February 2018 Credit Card Debt: 3885
    • Fmess
    • By Fmess 3rd Dec 17, 6:41 AM
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    I am so sorry for your loss Kerry woman, big hugs
    LBM = 07/09/13 Debt = 13339 (100% cleared)
    New Car and Roof Debt 0/19033
    DecNST #2 SFD 13/15 Food 105/120 Personal 380/350 Petrol 80.01/80
    • Fmess
    • By Fmess 3rd Dec 17, 7:31 AM
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    So yesterday was really good, lots of sensible savings made until, I went out for my work do (I was driving so others paid car parking and drinks) and I paid 13 for the meal (20 deposit had already been paid). I woke up this morning with a horrible thought that I remember not having much money in my purse at the end of the night, I'd had 50 cash so should have 37 left and I was right The only thing I can figure out is that I was doing the bill yesterday and everyone was handing me their cash and I was giving back change, so at some point I've muddled the monies and ended up giving people change out of my purse So cross with myself. There was some change after the meal (not as much as I'm missing) and I have that, which we'd said would go towards a fuddle but I'm going to have to tell them that it's actually my money So annoyed at myself but not much more I can do. Almost everyone else was tipsy so I imagine some of them didn't calculate how much they owed correctly. Oh well, you live and learn.

    Yesterday was lovely but very spendy - brunch out, bought sister's present, got nails done but it hardly cost anything due to discount from the massage and then meal out.

    Today I was hoping to stay in but a friend wants cheering up with a trip to a Christmas market. I'm seeing it as an opportunity to pick up the last few gifts, hopefully!
    LBM = 07/09/13 Debt = 13339 (100% cleared)
    New Car and Roof Debt 0/19033
    DecNST #2 SFD 13/15 Food 105/120 Personal 380/350 Petrol 80.01/80
    • laurenh1
    • By laurenh1 3rd Dec 17, 8:31 AM
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    Kerry woman I am so sorry for your loss.

    Today is NSD #2

    Doing ok with my anxious thoughts a bit worried that tax free childcare are not paying me back or calling me back and a bit cross they can treat people like this. Luckiky we can budget otherwise we would seriously struggle.

    31 items- still need to drop my tins off at tesco.

    Explore- nothing today but york was fab yday. Started badly when we couldn't get parked & the markets were rammed but the event was fab in the end despite the reviews...

    Something that makes me happy- pancakes for bfast.

    Greatful for- the kind bus man who let me off when i lost my ticket ( same driver on way there), roasted marshmallows & having ten pound left in my budget
    • dolly84
    • By dolly84 3rd Dec 17, 9:40 AM
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    Kerry Woman - sorry for your loss.
    Total Debt 01/14 13043.00, now 0 debt free date Dec 2016, actually July 2016.
    • dolly84
    • By dolly84 3rd Dec 17, 12:58 PM
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    Well yesterday was spendy as I knew it would be. We went to the cinema, bought 3 boxes of chocolates in M&S, slipper socks in Next (for me), takeaway for supper.

    Today we have called into town, I've bought a family organiser and diary from Poundland, slipper socks for the kids as part of their Christmas eve bundle (something I got into when they were small and can't seem to get out of), these were from Sainsburys with 25% off.

    I have some ebay items ending today and the price they are already at will cover the chocolates and my socks, the other things come from out Christmas/Birthday pot which we put into throughout the year.
    Total Debt 01/14 13043.00, now 0 debt free date Dec 2016, actually July 2016.
    • ilovetea
    • By ilovetea 3rd Dec 17, 1:33 PM
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    Kerry Woman. Sorry to hear about your Mum x
    #10 Make 2018 in 2018. 338.99
    • ilovetea
    • By ilovetea 3rd Dec 17, 2:15 PM
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    Good afternoon everyone.
    Another lovely day in Cumbria.
    NSD number 3. Had hair done yesterday but that was budgeted for and the money in a seperate purse.
    Have put an order in with Mr.T but thats not coming until Tuesday.

    Exterminate. Said it would be chocolate but I NEED some.

    Have to do a few Christmas cards. Hopefully feel joyful when thy are done.

    ilovetea xx
    #10 Make 2018 in 2018. 338.99
    • f0xh0les
    • By f0xh0les 3rd Dec 17, 3:20 PM
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    NSD #1 but not a hooray in sight.. I am sat on the sofa at 3pm still in my pjs, feeling like I have been run over by a truck. Was watching Marr and Peston this morning and started sneezing and it rapidly went downhill from there. So I am trying to herd the kids towards their homework but they are taking advantage of my rubbishness and running amok.

    I did cook lunch though which seems to have wiped me out again and I have another half an hour until I can have another Lemon-flavoured-paracetamol-based-drink. If I did not have kids I would be in bed already.

    So less Veni, Vidi, Vici, and much more Sofa-ed, reading, pathetic.
    MFW START DATE May 16 118,340 : Oct17 - 109,495.00Dec17 108,800Jan 18 108,392.98 March 18 108,504.72April 108,099May 106,999
    NEXT GOAL is sub 105k before JulyMortgage-free wannabe 2018 #65
    • misstara
    • By misstara 3rd Dec 17, 3:55 PM
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    So sorry to hear about your mum Kerry Women.

    NSDs - will aim for 15, currently on 1/15.

    DFD - currently Dec 2022 which is when the last payment for my car comes out. However, I'm aiming to pay off all debt other than car payments by the end of next year. After that, I will aim to save the money to pay off the car early.

    Budgets - 200 food, have budgeted 50 extra for Christmas treats, currently 0/200 but planning to do a food shop later. 100 social, spent 45 at works Christmas do last night. 100 fuel, I have no idea how much I will spend on this so have budgeted high, currently 0/100.

    Exterminate - the game on my phone, 3/10 days of not playing.

    Clear out - started a bag to go to the CS, it currently has 2 items in it.

    Explore - away to Edinburgh next weekend so will be exploring there .

    Mental health - I haven't been feeling particularly great physically which is definitely impacting on my mental health. However, had a really fun night out last night, being social always makes me feel more positive. Gratitude's for today are not feeling too hungover, bacon rolls that OH made for lunch, my sofa and Christmas movies.

    Evaluate - 2017 has generally been a good year me and OH have pretty much got our wee flat looking like we want it to, there's a few jobs to do and the garden could definitely be sorted out more. I really enjoy my job and I finished the qualification which meant a payrise . Healthwise, I feel a lot better after going on a dairy free diet. Unfortunately OH's health still isn't great and has gotten worse over the course of the year. The debt has also risen after years of paying it off, however, at least for a good reason, my wee car. Still need to properly think about my 5 things in 2018.
    Debt at LBM Jan 2014 10458.09 Now 0
    New flat debt Jan 2017 2302.75 Now 804.26 (65.1% paid)
    Car debt Nov 2017 797.68 Now 542.46 (32% paid) + monthly payments 146.82 6/60
    Emergency fund - 36/1000. Car fund - 0/1000.
    Mini Targets in May
    Exercise target - 10/16. Groceries target 170.88/200. NSD target 12/19.
    • Dottydaisy
    • By Dottydaisy 3rd Dec 17, 4:30 PM
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    kerry woman
    So sorry to hear about your mum. Take care of yourself,hugs
    • Dottydaisy
    • By Dottydaisy 3rd Dec 17, 4:35 PM
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    trying to catch up
    I am still tinkering and juggling with my finances or lack of them and will post my budget when I get there. I have unbelievably had the first three days as NSD. WOW. Tomorrow will only need milk and butter,ok for everything else. Just wish my physical and mental health would perk up.
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